No white male should have trouble with girls

[Dhoulmagus]

False on the muscle thing.

After I got into lifting, I found out the reason this myth exists is largely due to contrast. Why do you think bodybuilders get so bronzed before going on stage? Because light hits the muscles and pops more under a dark appearance. Muscles look more big and cut just because of the way the light hits them. Plenty of huge guys are not black, and actually most elite strong men tend to be white guys from Europe.

The over-representation of black athletes in American sports causes too many people to ignorantly assume that all blacks will get some muscle or athletic edge over everyone else. When in reality, its one subset of blacks in the Americas that excel (west african descent)...and there are tons of blacks of different bloodlines who wont perform the same way. Also, black over-representation in 2 of Americas major sports can be explained sociologically as well.

Just look what happened to baseball...where its hardly black anymore. If you have a community where excelling in certain sports is promoted as a major way to succeed at life...youll see over-representation in a particular sport if other communities arent pushing their youth in the same manner. What Im saying is that certain communities push their youth to do very well in sports, more so than other communities. Its why Samoans are seen as so great at football and greatly over-represented in the NFL...despite American Samoa's small population of less than 70,000. And Im sure no one would say those guys are naturally just better than blacks or whites at football. American football is just a big part of their culture....like the way they push some of their youth is huge.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/American_football_in_American_Samoa

Anyways, Im not saying there exist no physical difference between races...but its vastly overstated by people. I see plenty of huge dudes walking around daily that arent black. And I see tons, and I mean tons, of skinny black guys. I just think people have bought into the "big black guy" idea so much, that they notice a big dude more if he happens to be black.

Whites have a pretty over exaggerated view of blacks to begin with

 

[Dhoulmagus]

Truth.

From the sociological standpoint, there are communities where black kids don't have much choice but to do sports. Their peers will not allow them to be studious so they either have to get into drugs due to the prevalence of gangs, or they focus on sports.

If any other race were in the same situation the same thing would occur to them. Similarly if the black children were not surrounded by gangs, drugs and aggressive peers they would be able to focus more on school.

Environment matters.

no, this just means that the average person is a pvssy that lets society influence him or her. If I fell in to the pressure of society, I would be some wanna be try hard ghetto hood rat right now, but I would rather do what I want to do.

 

[Dhoulmagus]

I don't think it is correct to call a black kid trying to learn more a "pu$$y" (or any kid for that matter) when he has older gangster thugs pushing him into the drug trade or into their gang and has no ability to "fight back".

When you are older it's a different story, but by then you are already pretty much formed as a person.

It's a tough life indeed for the black male trying to be himself, but no force would influence me to become a thug.

 

[skinnyguy]

False on the muscle thing.

After I got into lifting, I found out the reason this myth exists is largely due to contrast. Why do you think bodybuilders get so bronzed before going on stage? Because light hits the muscles and pops more under a dark appearance. Muscles look more big and cut just because of the way the light hits them. Plenty of huge guys are not black, and actually most elite strong men tend to be white guys from Europe.

The over-representation of black athletes in American sports causes too many people to ignorantly assume that all blacks will get some muscle or athletic edge over everyone else. When in reality, its one subset of blacks in the Americas that excel (west african descent)...and there are tons of blacks of different bloodlines who wont perform the same way. Also, black over-representation in 2 of Americas major sports can be explained sociologically as well.

Just look what happened to baseball...where its hardly black anymore. If you have a community where excelling in certain sports is promoted as a major way to succeed at life...youll see over-representation in a particular sport if other communities arent pushing their youth in the same manner. What Im saying is that certain communities push their youth to do very well in sports, more so than other communities. Its why Samoans are seen as so great at football and greatly over-represented in the NFL...despite American Samoa's small population of less than 70,000. And Im sure no one would say those guys are naturally just better than blacks or whites at football. American football is just a big part of their culture....like the way they push some of their youth is huge.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/American_football_in_American_Samoa

Anyways, Im not saying there exist no physical difference between races...but its vastly overstated by people. I see plenty of huge dudes walking around daily that arent black. And I see tons, and I mean tons, of skinny black guys. I just think people have bought into the "big black guy" idea so much, that they notice a big dude more if he happens to be black.

Maybe. I'll agree there are skinny black guys. But I don't know of any non black guys who could ever look like Lebron James. There must be a reason that the NBA is 70% black.

 

[SmooveMooves]

Truth.

From the sociological standpoint, there are communities where black kids don't have much choice but to do sports. Their peers will not allow them to be studious so they either have to get into drugs due to the prevalence of gangs, or they focus on sports.

If any other race were in the same situation the same thing would occur to them. Similarly if the black children were not surrounded by gangs, drugs and aggressive peers they would be able to focus more on school.

Environment matters.

Environment as well as parenting. The 70 % single parent rate among blacks has alot to do with this also. Being raised by a single mother whom likely has to support other children leads to a child typically raising him/herself.

Thus allowing for societal and environment influence to make more of impact, leading to more black gang members thugs and the like.

The child, if not already in jail as a male or pregnant as a women, continues this process. Rinse, wash, and repeat, the fall of the black community in America.

And also the destruction of the family system (for all races), which the government appears to wholeheartedly support with all the "benefits" you seemingly are awarded for being a single parent. As well as all the laws in favor of the women.

 

[Pandora]

I agree with this thread. A white guy at an all black club would be at a severe disadvantage. The majority of black girls are reluctant to date a white guy unless his game is through the roof. Just the way it is. We have all seen the "urban" white guy at the black club who still pulls hot black chicks and gets love from the brothas. This is due to the "urban" white guy having to be ridiculously socially well adjusted and cool. To deny this is to deny reality.

The same dynamic happens in America. A black dude in America is like a white dude at a black club. Ur gonna have to be at the top of your game to pull quality non black chicks. Its just the way it is. No need getting bitter about it. The white guy at the black club doesnt get bitter...he gets better.

But yeh an average white dude should have no excuse to not be pulling atleast 6's with alittle self improvement.

 

[Dhoulmagus]

I agree with this thread. A white guy at an all black club would be at a severe disadvantage. The majority of black girls are reluctant to date a white guy unless his game is through the roof. Just the way it is. We have all seen the "urban" white guy at the black club who still pulls hot black chicks and gets love from the brothas. This is due to the "urban" white guy having to be ridiculously socially well adjusted and cool. To deny this is to deny reality.

The same dynamic happens in America. A black dude in America is like a white dude at a black club. Ur gonna have to be at the top of your game to pull quality non black chicks. Its just the way it is. No need getting bitter about it. The white guy at the black club doesnt get bitter...he gets better.

But yeh an average white dude should have no excuse to not be pulling atleast 6's with alittle self improvement.

black women are more likely to give a white guy a chance than a white woman. Have you ever heard of a black guy killing a white man for getting with a black woman? Plus, white guys don't venture out to black clubs.

 

[Pandora]

black women are more likely to give a white guy a chance than a white woman. Have you ever heard of a black guy killing a white man for getting with a black woman? Plus, white guys don't venture out to black clubs.

White guys do go to black clubs. There is always that one white guy that grew up around brothas and feels comfortable around black people. I knew a few. They are cool as hell. Eminem/ Jason Williams type of guy. Not sure what you mean "Have you ever heard of a black guy killing a white man for getting with a black woman?"

 

[Jaylan]

Maybe. I'll agree there are skinny black guys. But I don't know of any non black guys who could ever look like Lebron James. There must be a reason that the NBA is 70% black.

Its the same reason the MLB used to have a high percentage of blacks and is now under 10% black. Its all about participation rate in the younger years and how hard the black community pushes athletics. And Lebron James is not all that special. He may look amazing in basketball, but if you pay attention to other sports outside of America there are a lot of tall strong people who are not black. Like I said, musculature looks different when the skin is darker. Thats why bodybuilders slather on fake tan before a show.

black women are more likely to give a white guy a chance than a white woman. Have you ever heard of a black guy killing a white man for getting with a black woman? Plus, white guys don't venture out to black clubs.

Yes, yes I have read stories of haters attacking a couple because of their desire to date outside their race. Sometimes the azzholes have been black, other times they have been white.

Lol @ white guys not venturing into black clubs. You should have seen the black girls swoon over this one white dude in college who was a black studies major. And he wasnt a big hip hop head with tons of swag. He was just a good and respectful dude. I saw chicks of all races swoon over this kid.

 

[DonGorgon]

Im sorry, but if you are white male and have trouble with girls than its definitely you. I just went to a club and all my white friends had to do was be overly aggressive. Unless you look like Quasimodo, theres no excuse for yall.

no trouble with minority girls you mean ...lol the bombshell white blonds will still give white males a herd time but a fine dime piece black girl will throw easy sex and mediocre white men all day..lol

 

[HowardHughesDicaprio]

Libyan here with the stereotypical arabic look (hook nose, dark skin, dark hair) and I have had plenty of success with white women of all variations (from italian to nordic and a ginger inbetween). I am friends with a lot of white men and they have not had issues with me dating white girls. Grew up around whites and didn't face that many issues. Outside of a few wackjobs (unemployed rednecks and frustrated AFCs), most white males have been alright with me going for white girls, some even helped me meet my girlfriend.

The group I have seen show a lot of opposition and anger towards me have been minorities (mostly from urban upbringings). I posted a thread about how a while ago I met this black girl I was nice to who misunderstood my intentions (though I made it clear I was not into her). Months later she sees me with a girl I am dating at the time and starts interrogating me in front of her. Gets very angry at me for it and throws a violent tantrum.

Black american girls (especially younger) from what I have seen hate the idea of interracial relationships that involve white women with a man that isn't white. I didn't get it at first but there seems to be some kind of a rivalry going on which I will not even bother with. Next up are sexually frustrated men from minority backgrounds who have an entitlement issue and think that white girls should date them just because. One guy I worked with was black (young too) and he would habitually ask me why I go for White girls. I said it is because I like them. So he tries to get me to try out a black girl, tell him I am not interested. He is persistent about it but I tell him I am not interested again. Doesn't like that very much so he calls me a racist and openly starts pointing out how I am into white girls by calling me out in public in front of people I am friends with.

I see this more with the younger crowd too which is scary considering how you would expect for younger people to be more open minded.

That's just the perspective of a Libyan guy in his mid 20s here.

TLDR;

- minorities I have interacted with have given me a tougher time for dating white girls than white guys have

 

[Icegreen]

What do Asian males think about a white guy dating an Asian chick. When I say Asian I mean Chinese, Japanese, or Korean. Those are the only ones I find attractive.

I took my Japanese plate out last night for sunday funday, and ended up at her place for f-close. This girl doesn't hold any of our North American values, which is awesome. She is selfless and non-materialistic. If this is how most Asian girls are, you Asian guys are lucky mother fnckers.

Oh and Black chicks are crazy bishes imo. Can't be in the same room with them. I can see why some Black men veer from the craziness of the "Sharkeisha". I see a lot of those poor bastards turn "simp" over Black women.