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Scott92
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My problem isn't with fear of girls, it's the lack of a social life that's holding me back. I'm a good-looking, outgoing person, and that's what makes it harder. I was popular in highschool, but I skipped so much I never had any real close friends, and to this day (I'm 20) I haven't talked to one person from HS. That and the fact I'm not in college (I graduated HS by the skin of my teeth), makes it harder. I did have a few close friends from my job, but when I quit we kind of lost touch and stopped hanging out. So now I have zero people to hang out with on the weekends, and I don't go to malls or the movies because I have nobody to go with, lol. Now I know you guys probably think this doesn't effect DJ'ing girls, but it does. I have nobody to go with me anywhere, and I also don't have a cell phone, because I have no one to call. So how am I supposed to pick up girls? They're gonna know something's wrong right off the bat when I don't have a cell. Another thing, every time there's a get-together with relatives, they ask me if I have a girlfriend - I always have to say no. They probably think I'm gay, it wouldn't surprise me.
Do you guys have some ideas of how I can get my head out of my ass and manage some kind of social life? I might be getting a new job in the coming months, but I have no idea the age of the people who work there. So I can't really bank on that.
This situation is kind of a bummer.
Do you guys have some ideas of how I can get my head out of my ass and manage some kind of social life? I might be getting a new job in the coming months, but I have no idea the age of the people who work there. So I can't really bank on that.
This situation is kind of a bummer.