no sex for me :/

[rsofa]

Hello ss!

Im just gonna describe everythingin short because everyone hates readin, and If I forget smth just ask me

Me and gf have been datin for 4months and I need sex..
Im 19 she is 17.She never had sex, and finds everything connected with it ewwww.
If i ask her to touch my $*ick she says eww and stuff, i think she cant get horny. I touch her between the legs and over the boobs...but she wont let me under the shirt. She doesnt like tounge kissing.
She thinks she is fat and ugly ( she is actually a little underweight and really just the cutest thing ever seen....)
I was the first person to explain to her what is an erection ( she didnt know that it existed)
When we are together she hates it if i touch her, but still lets me because she loves me ( thats what she said)
I never saw a bit of her nakid body...just in swimsuts...at the pool.
I really need the sex, she told me that if i need sex i can go and have it with anyone else.. but thats dumb..why am i in a relationship then? I want her...

What to do...oh what to do.
If there is something that u dont understand just ask

 

[PrettyBoyAJ]

That btch ain't your damn GF if your not knocking it down...

 

[JoeMarron]

There's nothing you can do. Dump her and find a sane woman to have sex with

 

[rsofa]

That btch ain't your damn GF if your not knocking it down...

You're*

It's not like sex is the main priority in my life... I just need it. I dont intend to dump her, because i love her.

 

[adam225]

You need to sort your inner issues out. You want sex, you don't need it. Either dump her and find someone else, or stay with her and work on your inner self so you step away from craving sex so much. It's really that simple....

 

[m7ytn]

4 months?... Really?!?!?!

You have already invested roughly 3 1/2 months worth of too much time. The problem is, you have already proven to her that she doesn't need to have sex with you, because you'll stick around even if she doesn't.

Break up with her and don't contact her... she will put out... if not, wasn't worth your time...

Side note... Personally, I wouldn't date a virgin again...I am not a big fan of taking a girl's virginity...1. They don't know what in the hell they are doing, and 2. They become crazy attached to you afterwards... but that is just me... Sleep on it.

Also, she might not be mature / old enough for you dude...

 

[rsofa]

4 months?... Really?!?!?!

You have already invested roughly 3 1/2 months worth of too much time. The problem is, you have already proven to her that she doesn't need to have sex with you, because you'll stick around even if she doesn't.

Break up with her and don't contact her... she will put out... if not, wasn't worth your time...

Side note... Personally, I wouldn't date a virgin again...I am not a big fan of taking a girl's virginity...1. They don't know what in the hell they are doing, and 2. They become crazy attached to you afterwards... but that is just me... Sleep on it.

Also, she might not be mature / old enough for you dude...

This is really confusing..
She actually sad to me before that she doesn't want to have sex, even before we were dating... We also argued about it before and stuff..
but there is one girl which is kind of my friend and wants to have sex with me. But I think this is kind of a bad idea to go and have sex with her... Because I probably would feel bad about cheating on her even if she said that she doesnt mind...
My heart says my gf but my di*k says the other one

Shiet.

 

[idoloveromance]

Don't date a virgin unless you're a virgin. Safe bet for me. But you wouldn't really know if she's a virgin. too rude to ask "Hey, Are you a virgin?". maybe she thinks that she thinks that you're not the right guy to give it to, and maybe she's just playing dumb about it.

 

[escaleraroyal]

This thread is ewwwwww

 

[rsofa]

She's a virgin..
I'm almost half virgin because I had sex once more the 1 year ago and it was weird.

This thread is starting to get weird...

 

[JoeMarron]

You're*

"That btch ain't you are damn GF if your not knocking it down..."

Edit: Dammit..missed the second your

 

[user name]

"That btch ain't you are damn GF if your not knocking it down..."

"...if you are not knocking it down".

Although I don't think OP is in a position to correct anyone's spelling. His grammar is atrocious.

 

[VladPatton]

Stop messing with girls and start messing with women, you're a 19 year old adult. Damn, bro.

 

[Mike32ct]

Stop messing with girls and start messing with women, you're a 19 year old adult. Damn, bro.

Yup.

While the standard answer would be lack of attraction, it's different with a virgin. A lot of virgins (though secretly horny) are simply AFRAID of sex. She will eventually get over it, but it's up to you how long you want to wait.

She's scared of it, and there is nothing you can do about it. It's something she has to get over on her own time.

I know a (former) virgin girl (19) that made her bf wait a year to have sex. She has always drooled over male celebrities, watched porn, and bragged about her bf's muscles. In short, sex drive and attraction were never a problem. She was just scared and kept saying she wasn't ready. It happens.

If you really want sex, you need someone a bit more mature/experienced.

 

[DanZy]

hahahahaha rsofa is back after ignoring everyone's advice the last time he asked a question. Dude, quit trying

 

[Driggs]

When I see that a thread is written by someone under 20 I immediately next that thread [there is one regular here who is an exception.]

I'm almost half virgin because I had sex once more the 1 year ago and it was weird.

A half virgin? Was your butt sore afterwards?

 

[Lotus Effect]

This is really confusing..
She actually sad to me before that she doesn't want to have sex, even before we were dating... We also argued about it before and stuff..
but there is one girl which is kind of my friend and wants to have sex with me. But I think this is kind of a bad idea to go and have sex with her... Because I probably would feel bad about cheating on her even if she said that she doesnt mind...
My heart says my gf but my di*k says the other one

Shiet.

*said.

Do not correct bad grammar man.
Besides showing you had no consideration for the time someone wasted on your querry, it is just plain rude!

I'm almost half virgin because I had sex once more the 1 year ago and it was weird.

A half virgin? Was your butt sore afterwards?

:crackup: :crackup: :crackup:

 

[rsofa]

*said.

Do not correct bad grammar man.
Besides showing you had no consideration for the time someone wasted on your querry, it is just plain rude!

:crackup: :crackup: :crackup:

1st thing.... your reply on my question...that was everyone should admit dumb...in what way was your comment helpful to me anyways?

2nd... Half virgin was mean by not having sex for so long that u forgot how it goes.. you're clumsy like on the first time...

Don't correct my grammar, I was on a tablet.


This forum always ends up in a conversation where everyone says you should be ****ing her or dump her...
Ok sorry for the people who helped.

 

[m7ytn]

1st thing.... your reply on my question...that was everyone should admit dumb...in what way was your comment helpful to me anyways?

I'm under the impression that you came here to make an arbitrary post about an issue that clearly has, at most, two solutions... either you break up with her, or you beta right along without having sex and stop worrying about it. What other option is there...rape? I mean seriously, there aren't many options on hand.

Earlier you said that sex is not the main priority in your life, but that you "need" it...and you don't want to dump her because you "love" her... Clearly sex is a priority, or you wouldn't be trying to change your 17 year old girlfriend's mind about losing her virginity when she clearly and explicitly said she doesn't want to have sex. Furthermore, you wouldn't be asking for advice about it on a board if it wasn't a priority. If you honestly "love" her as you say, you will respect her and accept the package as a whole. Don't ever fall in love with an ideal image of what you want a person to be or you will set yourself up for failure. To be straight forward, nothing you say is going to change this girl's mind. If you did in fact manage to convince her to have sex with you, she will have contempt for you later on. Furthermore, do you want to have sex with someone who you have to coerce into the act? She is probably just scared dude, after all she is not even an adult yet. I previously said to break up and she would probably put out...I take that back. Either let her come around on her own and don't b*tch about it, or move on down the road. If you push the issue so much that she does have sex with you and she doesn't really want to...at that point you are only one argument/breakup away from a statutory rape charge...

Don't correct my grammar, I was on a tablet.

By correcting PrettyBoyAJ's grammar, you opened yourself up for any grammatical correction anyone wants to make on your posts. How do you know PrettyBoy wasn't typing on a tablet as well? No one likes grammar nazis or hypocrites. Don't be THAT GUY.

This forum always ends up in a conversation where everyone says you should be ****ing her or dump her...

Are you really surprised? Have you read ANYTHING on this forum? Back to my original point, which is: Seriously ask yourself is there another course of action to remedy your particular situation as outlined here? You came here complaining about not having sex with a girl who was upfront about her reluctance to do so BEFORE you chose to date her. Furthermore, she blatantly gave you permission to have your needs met elsewhere. So there is that option too... So you have three options here:

1. Keep on truckin without sex.
2. **** the friend who wants to have sex with you (as okayed by your GF).
3. Break up with her.

This is your situation; these are your options. No one here is going to choose for you. Don't come onto a board asking for advice while brandishing an "I don't give a fvck" attitude, and then get p*ssed when you get an "I don't give a fvck" response after not only ignoring the advice given, but making trivial corrections to people trying to help you.

 

[rsofa]

well okay its much easyer to get tthrough it if someone talks with you about it, thats all..