custardpie
Don Juan
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I've had these 2 plates spinning for a good few months now. I recently heard off one of the plates that she contracted chlamydia off another guy she slept with. I immediately went and got treatment online and also went for a test which confirmed I had chlamydia.
Of course the proper thing to do is to tell the other plate, which I did straight away. I sent her a txt explaining that I'd got the sti off someone else and she should get treatment herself. I sent the txt yesterday afternoon and no reply since then....
Now i know nobody like getting told they have to get tested and they may have a disease but am I right in thinking she's acting quite immature about this? I mean it's no one person's fault.....she never asked me to use a condom and we were never exclusive even though we've been going out for meal/drinks and such. She's still been talking to guys on POF and has updated her pic on there just a couple weeks ago so there's no way she could've thought we were exclusive. Plus we've only been seeing eachother about every 2 weeks maximum as she works a lot of unsociable hours.
How should i play this? Do I just give her a while to calm down then txt back in a couple weeks asking if she get her treatment sorted?
Maybe send a sarcastic txt like 'Well thanks custardpie for letting me know, I know these things happen and I'm mature enough not to put all the blame on you'
I really would like not to lose this plate as she is a good fvck and never fails to absolutely soak my bed after every session lol
What is you guys' advice here?
Of course the proper thing to do is to tell the other plate, which I did straight away. I sent her a txt explaining that I'd got the sti off someone else and she should get treatment herself. I sent the txt yesterday afternoon and no reply since then....
Now i know nobody like getting told they have to get tested and they may have a disease but am I right in thinking she's acting quite immature about this? I mean it's no one person's fault.....she never asked me to use a condom and we were never exclusive even though we've been going out for meal/drinks and such. She's still been talking to guys on POF and has updated her pic on there just a couple weeks ago so there's no way she could've thought we were exclusive. Plus we've only been seeing eachother about every 2 weeks maximum as she works a lot of unsociable hours.
How should i play this? Do I just give her a while to calm down then txt back in a couple weeks asking if she get her treatment sorted?
Maybe send a sarcastic txt like 'Well thanks custardpie for letting me know, I know these things happen and I'm mature enough not to put all the blame on you'
I really would like not to lose this plate as she is a good fvck and never fails to absolutely soak my bed after every session lol
What is you guys' advice here?