No Porn, No Masturbation

[T Money]

I'm on day 3. Trying for 2 weeks, or longer if I can.

Well I already broke the porn rule, but I haven't rubbed off a knuckle child in 3 days! Going strong.

I'm hoping this will get me more "real" ass than more "fake" ass (i.e. Mrs. Rosy Palms)

 

[Turncoat]

Congrats...

Porn is good for you IF YOU DON'T C.U.M. An erection INCREASES testosterone.

Last for 2 weeks and see your success with woman SOAR.

 

[James Bondage]

Wow. 3 days is an achievement?

Not saying I'm any better of course, but is it really the case that most guys bash the bishop daily? (or thereabouts)?

Having never studied men's masturbation habits (happily) I never knew what kind of frequency was considered 'normal' or not, but judging from this site abstaining for even a week is something to be proud of.

I mean like - other animals seem to manage OK without wacking off every other day. My poor cat hasn't had even a minor diddle her whole life - but then again, those claws... ouch....

 

[tosh]

I think once every other day is about the average range for someone in their 20s.

If I go without for a week, I find it hard to sleep sometimes because of the thoughts going through my head.

 

[tobby]

Honestly, I can go a long time without wacking off, but I usually have "nocturnal emissions" which aren't really that much better. It's pretty accurate that you can an incredible testosterone increase when you aren't looking at porn or masturbating.

 

[T Money]

that's what i'm trying to achieve.

I've actually gone weeks without even thinking about it, and other times, i'll go twice a day.

But if i'm actually trying not to do it, it's a test of my willpower, so hopefully I will make it 2 weeks!

 

[tobby]

Don't want to unessarily raise this thread, since it's not too important in the grand scheme of things, but you have the right idea. If you don't think about it, you don't tend to do it. I noticed that alot of the times when I actually do whack off. Fortunately, if you fill you mind with other things you won't really have a huge test of willpower. There'll still be times when you do think about it but moving on to something else or "chaning the channel" in your mind makes it easier to deal with.

 

[NeedToImprove]

i couldnt use the gunwitch method, i dont think its that easy to achieve

 

[NeedToImprove]

needless to say i ****ed up by not coming when with a girl, which was way to embarassing, dont know if it was due to porn, stress, not physical that's for sure, but t money you have a good point there, wish u accomplish your goals.

 

[n00bPimp]

I think it will be quite the accomplishment. Masturbation however, is healthy and should be done at least once a week, it relieves hormones, if you have to much hormones stored you tend to get hormonal, aka be emotional, think too much, get angry easily. However jerking off too much can get rid of sexual desire and even make you more weak, sensitive and less focused. So jerking off kind of keeps it all balanced.

 

[T Money]

see that's the thing though.

I can go a week, week and a half. But once I jerk off after that time, it's like it starts all over. I'm doing it once a day, once every other day, **** maybe twice a day! So i'm trying to set a goal here, once every month. Or once every two weeks.

I'm actually trying to "rid" myself of masturbation completely, because that's what i've relied on for sexual pleasure for the last...long time.

 

[DJnoob]

2 days for me. At 12:00 PM pacific, it will be day 3 for me.

SO, by not masterbating, itreally improves your game?

 

[DJnoob]

Anyone here feel sleep after masterbating?

 

[Warlord]

wtf, no porn makes me sad =(

 

[T Money]

SO, by not masterbating, itreally improves your game?

Well, everyone is different. I can tell you for ME, yes it does. Becuase when i'm talking to a girl i'm not thinking about what she looks like naked, i'm actually thinkging about HER.

wtf, no porn makes me sad =(

I still look at porn, but no meat involved. Only to relieve slight sress. No ejac for me.

 

[tmpgstx]

It works by making you more persistent in the horny context that girls love. They want to be dominated sexually (in a good way of course) and get that vibe that you will take her and give it to her oh so good when you're all horned up.

It will also kill that *nice* guy approach to sex because you're really horny and couldn't give a rat's ass.

 

[jt4aa]

I'm doing this too. I used to masturbate 3+ times a DAY until recently when I decided to delete all the porn I owned and stop wacking off.

Gone 5 days so far. I feel like an athlete!

 

[Desire]

I have practised for several years a hold back of the semen. I learned it in a Tao book I read. Basically you press a finger in the hui yin area (se the diagram at the link) when you masturbate. When you ejaculate no semen goes out and it resirculate in your body! You can also train the muscle to hold back instead of using a finger, but that is for the experts.

"It usually takes ten to twenty seconds for the ejaculation urge to pass and to pump the energy upwards, this will result in a partial softening of your erection. It is very helpful at this point to have a lover who is cooperating with you on this and will stop moving and draw her sexual energy up as well. However, it is in fact almost impossible to learn this technique during actual intercourse. Thus solo practice is recommended at first, as you probably will need to really concentrate on the matter in hand! After a couple of weeks of solo practice, perhaps ejaculating once every other time at first and then building up in your capacity for holding in, it is time to start using semen retention in your lovemaking. By then you should have enough self control at the point of ejaculation to hold it back.

Semen retention is a safe process that has been practised in the East for thousands of years. The testicles are constantly reabsorbing any sperm that is not ejaculated, and the prostate gland is likewise reabsorbing unused semen. This is a natural bodily function without which we would get sick, as old semen would ferment after every arousal without a resultant ejaculation. When you actually make love without ejaculation you produce even more semen and sperm and so there is more to reabsorb, so you have to build up your capacity to do this gradually otherwise you will get achy balls. The younger you are the more you will need to ejaculate, so perhaps once every three days is a good goal for a man in his twenties while once or twice a month is suited to a man in his forties. The rate at which you ejaculate though can only be really judged by yourself, but as you experience the benefits so the old compulsion to regularly ejaculate will diminish. It is a good idea however, to not get obsessive about retaining your semen. It takes a fairly long time to become really adept at reabsorbing the energy and semen and so as the pressure builds you will need to release it."


http://www.union.source.co.uk/rebirthofthelove.html


With this method you can mastrubate more often, and not to worry about loosing sexual energy!

 

[T Money]

thanks, but no thanks.

I'm doing this too. I used to masturbate 3+ times a DAY until recently when I decided to delete all the porn I owned and stop wacking off.

Damn dude, 3+ a day? I could MAYBE do that when I was 15/16. But now, hell no. I'd probably sprout tits and a vagina.

 

[jt4aa]

3 times is hardly anything.Most times I've orgasmed in 1 day from wacking off is probably about 20. I thought everydody could do that?

Maybe I have a high sex drive or something?

Hmm.