princess_124 said:
No, please we love nice guys! Especially guys like you... I've noticed ur the only guy who smiles here (uses smile emoticons). Please don't change
For a guy like me who has been flat out rejected and told I'm too nice, your comment is almost offensive. It's under a week ago I was rejected, and she told me straight out and honestly that I was nice. The girlfriend of a best friend of mine tells me I'm being too nice, and she sincerely wants to help me. I remember some chick a while back who I did indeed manage to fvck on the first date friendzone me within a day, because I was nice.
Why are men a$$holes? The things we love made us that way by hurting us, yeah that's right women make us into a$$holes.
Then there are those experiences I have when I didn't give a sh!t, the whole fvcking universe turned upside down. Not only did I get their attention, I couldn't fvcking shake them off me. Being as stupid as I was I slipped back into the twisted ways of the nice guy, which is how I very recently fvcked up massively. I spent $130 on this girl because she was interested, at least interested. I fvcked her, all good and well. She should have figured out by then that I give a sh!t, which is exactly what they want right? A guy to be trusted, right? A guy who will be there, right? NOOOO, fvcking wrong!!!
What's the mistake? I lied and hid my true nature under a polished nice guy. Am I a full time nice guy? No, honestly from the core of me I am not! Do I get angry? Yes. Do I hurt people? Yes. Do I make massive mistakes? Yes, I've probably broken several of the 10 commandments. Am I always relaxed and happy? No, it's fvcking impossible without being dead inside. There's more on the positive side as well that I didn't show, which would have massively helped had I not acted nice. I'm playful and spontaneous. Highly creative. An excellent problem solver. Can handle interpersonal conflict without causing world war III, because I can both bend and stand my ground. I know how to do it in bed, I've never had a complaint and usually get the opposite.
The true reason a nice guy is nice. He's a pvssy and doesn't dare to stand up against or challenge anything, and when he does it's through cowardly tactics and passive-aggressiveness. He chooses to be nice because he knows it keeps his a$$ out of trouble, trading the truth for safety. What keeps a nice guy being nice? Anxiety and fear, if not someone else is telling them what to do and how to behave there's this fvcker inside their heads telling them. That fvcker is the echo of all the people controlling you and your actions, and you believe them even though the people aren't even there.
It's not even truly nice to be a nice guy. A man needs to man the fvck up. How are women supposed to feel safe if a man can't even stand up for himself. How are women supposed to trust a man who can't even trust himself. It's not ultimately nice to give a woman a weak man, given she deserves it and isn't an a$$hole herself. Some women are out of pretty much the same reasons, while they simultaneously deceive themselves to be nice.
So yeah, fvck off you deceptive b!tch.