No more MALE FRIENDS.. (just one of the girls_

[Wyldfire]

DJDamage, the reason most friendships between men and women are like a "house of cards" is because there are a hell of a lot of men who are only PRETENDING to be friends because they want to get into the woman's pants. If both people are truly interested in friendship, then men and women can be great friends. You can't have that if one of the people are committing friendship fraud.

 

[thefonz]

I've been hanging around nothing but women since I found this site.......I still have my high school buddies that I see on weekends but at school there's about 10 girls that I hang out with on a reg basis in class and inbetween

I do this for 4 reasons
1. Wait until I can bang one of them (not all em I want to)
2. Girls notice me hanging out with girls and approach me
3. It's practice for dealing with women
4. They aid in my making me a better man and some I even keep around just to talk to about MY self-improvement philosophies cus lord knows guys don't wanna hear it

Hell one of them got me my job and constantly keeps me updated on schoolwork, like a secretary LOL. It also sucks too.......they require constant attention and there is a little drama from time to time but it subsides if you don't make a big deal out of it. Also they are very inconsistant, some days they are all over you and others they do everything but completely ignore you. SO as you can see, women have more uses than just sex like some of you claim.......

 

[DJDamage]

Originally posted by Wyldfire
DJDamage, the reason most friendships between men and women are like a "house of cards" is because there are a hell of a lot of men who are only PRETENDING to be friends because they want to get into the woman's pants. If both people are truly interested in friendship, then men and women can be great friends. You can't have that if one of the people are committing friendship fraud.

The problem is that the dynmaics between the sexes tend to change all the time. Men may have the intention at first to be genuine friends with someone but in time if he hangs around her too much he might develop feelings for her. So is he guilty then??? NO! he then has every right to want to change the nature of his relationship because his views have changed as well, is he entitled to the right??? probably not, since he choose another route to go from the begining he cannot now complain.

What are the consquences if he proceeds?She can either accept his advances, terminate the friendship all together or for him to sit there and pretend that he likes her as a friend while being misrable inside. He can always distance himself from her and sarge other women to get away from the oneitis but one thing is for sure: THE FRIENDSHIP WILL NEVER BE THE SAME EVER AGAIN.

That is where the women side of friendship FRAUD comes in when she knows that the guy likes her and she uses him as a surrogate boyfriend and she treats him like an accessory to boot. Women are guilty of that as well.

 

[RaWBLooD]

Originally posted by C00L
i only hang out with birds and animals like drbeard.
CAW CAWWW
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lucky i was only drinkin water to spurt through my nose

 

[syncmaster]

I have a HUGE circle of hot female friends. They're not "LJBF" girls - more girls that are avaialbe and want to date. I've got a few good buddies that I go bar hopping with. I'd rather have a few good "real" friends than be popular w/ everybody.

 

[sifer]

Sorry to burst your bubble but I don't take advice from (you wishing that I do) chicks esp young chicks. That conversation you're referring to was one where she slept over my house and was telling me how she knows how I play this game.

As for me losing my credability, to you I'm sure.

Angry? Let me spell this out for you : :crackup:

Still unanswered, sorry boys but if your agreeing with Wyldfire this is exactly your argument, check out her original response. And sifer your angry ramblings dont count, your that tool I called out for taking relationship advice from a teenage chick, you lose all credibility by default.

Anyone else got a theory?

You still use vulgar insults.

Seriously kid, smile a bit more often. I think you're the angry one.

As for the question, here is the answer I think would fit.

They're referring the statement directly to you and just you.

You are bitter and angry. I guess it's internalized.

 

[( . )( . )]

Originally posted by sifer

They're referring the statement directly to you and just you.

A man has to actually spend time with a woman in order to have sex with her. Men who do well with women enjoy their company. Men who don't do well with women tend to be bitter towards women and dislike them.

Learn to read. Also youve still failed to prove how we are "bitter". You can dribble sh!t at me personally until the cows come home, thats fine. But tell me how guys who dont enjoy prolonged chick speak are bitter and less successful at getting puzzy.

Are you confusing guys who CANT interact well with chicks with guys who dont enjoy long interactions with chicks, remember its 2 totally different things.

 

[Wyldfire]

Originally posted by ( . )( . )
Learn to read. Also youve still failed to prove how we are "bitter". You can dribble sh!t at me personally until the cows come home, thats fine. But tell me how guys who dont enjoy prolonged chick speak are bitter and less successful at getting puzzy.

Are you confusing guys who CANT interact well with chicks with guys who dont enjoy long interactions with chicks, remember its 2 totally different things.

You're bitter because ALL you ever post is negative ranting, complaining, whining, pissing and moaning.

You are NEGATIVE...ALL the time.

People see you as being bitter because you ACT bitter.

It's really not rocket science.

 

[Anomalous]

Nice advice tits. :crackup:

 

[sifer]

Originally posted by whyshy
Nice advice tits. :crackup:

??? What did you learn?

 

[sifer]

Originally posted by ( . )( . )
Gaahh theyre all coming out of the woodwork, If this keeps up and everyone I've called out comes forward I'm fvcked :nervous:



And thats excellent. BUT your still not really answering the question. I'm digging the attention (you might be onto something here wyldfire) and all, but me aside for now, see if you can give it a shot.

I doubt that, I bet you're feeling crummy and using that "I like this..." as a defense.

How are men who dont enjoy ("dont enjoy", NOT "cant" remember its 2 seperate things) interacting around a gaggle of chicks all the time have less game, get less puzzy and be "bitter".

This is like the 4th time I've asked you to backup your post. Give it a shot, humour me.

You're arguing semantics. I didn't say what Wild said but as I read it, all of the comments are directed at you specifically. You're the only one whose all bitter and angry.

 

[sifer]

Originally posted by ( . )( . )
I learnt that your still sore at me from before so you used this thread as a platform to vent.

Wyldfire talks out of her ass. (thats not really news though)

The original poster is very strange.

And I rule.

:crackup:

Did you look at the dictionary to look up the synonym for angry?

If you want, let's meet up in real life. Let's see how you fare.

PM me. You still haven't told me where you live.
Your cohort (007) talks about you knowing your ****. The same cohort that says pic or he won't take advice from, where's yours?

I pity you sonny. I really do.

 

[( . )( . )]

Sifer, Holy sh!t dude, you want my picture and you want to fight me? Are you gay or just an AFC? I've had guys pissed off with me here before but your taking this to a new low. What do you want me to tell you that talking with teenage girls about the game was a good move? , will that make you feel better?

It's ok buddy chill, talking to that teenager was a good move.


btw I did post a photo of me here long ago, but if your going to be jackin off over it I'm glad its down.

 

[sifer]

Originally posted by ( . )( . )
Sifer, Holy sh!t dude, you want my picture and you want to fight me? I've had guys pissed off with me here before but your taking this to a new low.

Pardon me, fight? What?

I think I mean let's sarge. Let's see how well you do. You talk a lot of ****, you act like you're God's given gift to women. You give advice as if they were be all end all. Be all end all, can you believe that you actually believe it?

What do you want me to tell you that talking with teenage girls about the game was a good move? , will that make you feel better?
It has nothing to do with that. It has to do with your concepts conflicting with mine.

You, taking your bitterness off this topic, (why are you bringing up this teenage girl me drama thing up?) attack me telling me that taking advice from a honest girl is wrong (how is that wrong?), and that they're inferior except for their ***** (-hypnotizes ( . )( . )- *****... *****...).

Hey ( . )( . ), get over it, women can give advice just as good as men, admit it. You won't because you've been stung by them, get over that fact. Be a man, not a wimp who acts like a man or a jerk who covers his weakness by acting tough and screams.

edit - you admitted it, you're just trolling

 

[( . )( . )]

Originally posted by sifer
you act like you're God's given gift to women. You give advice as if they were be all end all. Be all end all

So it goes beyond you just being dark at me for calling you a girly man, well thats some issues your going to have to work through on your own, I cant help you for wanting to be me.

And as for meeting up in real life? Your qualifying yourself to me remember? not the other way round. And even if I did why would I sarge with a guy who takes his advice from teenage girls?

 

[Wyldfire]

Originally posted by ( . )( . )
Gaahh theyre all coming out of the woodwork, If this keeps up and everyone I've called out comes forward I'm fvcked :nervous:



And thats excellent. BUT your still not really answering the question. I'm digging the attention (you might be onto something here wyldfire) and all, but me aside for now, see if you can give it a shot.

How are men who dont enjoy ("dont enjoy", NOT "cant" remember its 2 seperate things) interacting around a gaggle of chicks all the time have less game, get less puzzy and be "bitter".

This is like the 4th time I've asked you to backup your post. Give it a shot, humour me.

Titboy, it is not JUST about your comments on this thread. It is about your attitude overall. There are a group of you who essentially are the most miserable group of individuals I think I've ever had the displeasure of witnessing. You ARE negative about everything and anything pertaining to women. It seeps out of EVERY post you make. Frankly, I'm surprised you haven't switched teams based on what I read coming from you (and a few others who post the same way).

Now, in regards to the subject at hand...

There are people who have nothing interesting to say...and those folks are NOT gender specific. There are just as many boring, dull, dreary and babbling men as there are women. There are also just as many women who have more to talk about than what you might think. However, since you have this overzealous anti-feminist bug up your butt you don't notice.

Try letting yourself actually like and enjoy women once in awhile...it might do something about that foul disposition problem you're having.

 

[sifer]

Originally posted by ( . )( . )
So it goes beyond you just being dark at me for calling you a girly man, well thats some issues your going to have to work through on your own, I cant help you for wanting to be me.

Girly man? I think the only girly man is you. You seem to be avoiding every form of confrontation I present. If this was the male dominance scale, you don't even take any place of the scale.

And as for meeting up in real life? Your qualifying yourself to me remember? not the other way round. And even if I did why would I sarge with a guy who takes his advice from teenage girls?

You wish. I guess you're afraid that the man who takes advice from teenage girl may do better than the guy who is bitter and angry smashing his monitor behind the screen.

I can't help but wonder.

 

[SELF-MASTERY]

What did you guys do to my thread

All this fighting needs to stop.

(.) or however you make your name, I already answered your question.

The original poster is very strange.

WHY??

I'm hanging out with the girls after work tomorrow. One of the cute one's has a crush on me..... Girls sure do talk alot..... No complaints yet.:cheer:

 

[Brian20o2]

in my opinion my guy friends are fun to chill with but my gal friends do have much more interesting convos alot of the time (mind u i hang out with not guite hicks and feel if i just said what i wanted they would call me a loser or gay and such) i feel as though i can open up more to my gal friends (only gal FRIENDS) and have funner convos

 

[SELF-MASTERY]

girls are great!!!