No more MALE FRIENDS.. (just one of the girls_

[SELF-MASTERY]

I'm just one of the girls.

Honestly, my buddies are boring and talk about the same sh? everyday. The are so uninspiring. It appears, that women have more to say, and are more interesting. Pook wrote about creating circles of female friends, so, that one could have and endless supply of options. Has anyone else tried this? I've joined a service group on campus that is mostly female. When I walked in all eyes were on; a few IOI's, a few who the fk is this guy, and the universal mean mug from the only 2 guys in this group. All of the ladies were friendly, a few of them gave me clear signs of interest....

I can't wait to see how life without male friends is.

 

[( . )( . )]

Hmmph thats funny, I usually feel like stabbing my eyes out with a pen if I'm subjected to mindless female drivel longer than I have to. And here you are enjoying it. I must be missing something.

 

[diplomatic_lies]

I don't care whether its male or female, if its human and interesting, I hang out with it.

 

[C00L]

i only hang out with birds and animals like drbeard.
CAW CAWWW

Lol jk. seriously tho what kind of service group did you join? I wanna join some **** on campus but not sure what.

 

[SAYNO]

Originally posted by ( . )( . )
Hmmph thats funny, I usually feel like stabbing my eyes out with a pen if I'm subjected to mindless female drivel longer than I have to. And here you are enjoying it. I must be missing something.

Ditto!


That all most biitchs know how to do is run their freaking mouth!




Sayno'

 

[Wyldfire]

A man has to actually spend time with a woman in order to have sex with her. Men who do well with women enjoy their company. Men who don't do well with women tend to be bitter towards women and dislike them.

Just an observation...

 

[SELF-MASTERY]

Originally posted by Wyldfire
A man has to actually spend time with a woman in order to have sex with her. Men who do well with women enjoy their company. Men who don't do well with women tend to be bitter towards women and dislike them.

Just an observation...

I agree! I feel that reading the forum everyday and hearing about everyones problem with women makes me bitter. Over the last few months I've been trying to lose some of my bitterness towards the opposite sex.

What service group did I join? Kiwanis Circle K. I also joined american humanics. My main goal is to meet more people, plus I have a lot of experience organizing charity events.

 

[SELF-MASTERY]

Most ppl in general dont have sh? to say, but in my experience women have more interesting stuff to say....

But bitterness and the seduction communiy go hand & hand, at least in the beginning stages...... The nice guy- to- jerk- to -self-actualized DJ transformation is a perfect example....

 

[SAYNO]

Originally posted by ( . )( . )
The "bitter" card has become tired even for you. Dont get me wrong I've met a few b!tches that can hold a decent and logical conversation but theyre few and far between, sheesh even my mum admits most chicks are as boring as bat sh!t and just plain unfunny. If my own mum has the balls to admit the truth surely you can, try a different card other than "bitter" that ones not really holding up anymore. And you better not be calling my mum a liar.

Yep, I wonder how much time pimps actually spend with their women? They spend most of their time "checking them" and telling them to shut the fuuuck up.

As far as a women being more intresting......

Compared to the majesty of God (singularity) women are as about interesting as a lump of dirt. They are like cream cakes - capable of giving one great pleasure for a moment but fail to satisfy in any genuine sense.

But beauty is in the eye of the beholder. If you look upon women and find them to be delightful charming creatures, and if you are not disturbed by this rather odd perception, then you can be certain you are not destined for wisdom.

 

[SELF-MASTERY]

You guys are so insensitive and bitter:cheer:

So you and that Wyldliar both believe that guys who dont enjoy chick talk are "bitter"?. Thats pretty weak bro, I expect that sh!t from wyldfire but shes a chick, your not which means you dont get off so lightly.

Your perception of what I am trying to say is off, try to socially de-center.

No. I dont believe that men who do not enjoy chick talk are bitter. When I chat up a women, i dont have chick talk, but I do try to speak to them on their level.

Bitterness in our community comes from:

1. Guys who have had awful experiences
2. Guys who are unwilling to "up" their game (con't w/ afc bs, lack the courage to cold approach)
3. Guys who are stuck on slaying feminist (these guys think they are victims)
4. Guys who are making the transformation from AFC to Jerk to DJ--
(When we make the above transformation we have to kick women off their pedestal, most men turn this into bitterness.....



terces siesteicos ereh

 

[DJDamage]

The reason you are talking to women and claim to have a good time is beacuse they have breasts and a vagina. Your attractions to them wipe'ss your boredom. If there was no attraction, you would be bored as well.

Ever thought that maybe you are boring as well and that is the reason your male friends are boring??

 

[SELF-MASTERY]

Ever thought that maybe you are boring as well and that is the reason your male friends are boring??

NO.

Why is everyone so defensive?

 

[sifer]

Originally posted by ( . )( . )
Hmmph thats funny, I usually feel like stabbing my eyes out with a pen if I'm subjected to mindless female drivel longer than I have to. And here you are enjoying it. I must be missing something.

I think I can safely say, we definitely do hang out with different kind of girls in different areas.

Or that we differ greatly. Like SELF-MASTERY except I mostly have only female friends, I find the company of female friends and girlfriends more enjoyable than a male friend, especially an insecure male friend.

At least I don't have to deal with the "I'm stronger/tougher than you" crap.

I guess that's why you think women are inferior to men (http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=83423) and that men are far more enjoyable companies than women.

Where do you live?

 

[sifer]

Originally posted by Wyldfire
A man has to actually spend time with a woman in order to have sex with her. Men who do well with women enjoy their company. Men who don't do well with women tend to be bitter towards women and dislike them.

Just an observation...

:cheer:

I'm glad someone knows.

Cheers.

I'll always think of my female counterparts as someone who is of equal, no more and no less.

 

[sifer]

Originally posted by ( . )( . )
The "bitter" card has become tired even for you. Dont get me wrong I've met a few b!tches that can hold a decent and logical conversation but theyre few and far between, sheesh even my mum admits most chicks are as boring as bat sh!t and just plain unfunny. If my own mum has the balls to admit the truth surely you can, try a different card other than "bitter" that ones not really holding up anymore. And you better not be calling my mum a liar.

For a 29 y/o you certainly don't have a lot of wisdom that a lot of 29 y/o people I have met have. They're certainly more humble than reaching out and threatning people ("And you better not be calling my mum a liar.").

Listen, you are bitter. I know that I would be just as angry and probably even angrier after reading this thread, but I understand because it's hard for people to see themselves.

Only others can see and judge us better than we can see and judge ourselves.

Most chicks are boring and not funny? Let me ask, do you have a large circle of friends? It doesn't seem like it. It seem like your friends, especially female friends are comprised only of a few high school teenage girl who don't know right from wrong or don't have any desire whatsoever.

Maybe it's just me, my friends especially female friends range from university girls to book store girls to clubbing girls.

Not to mention because what I was born with I also have friends from out of this country (in Asia and in Canada).

And while I have a few female friends that are totally boring and dead unfunny, many of the rest of their cohorts can be just as exciting and funny.

 

[sifer]

Originally posted by DJDamage
The reason you are talking to women and claim to have a good time is beacuse they have breasts and a vagina. Your attractions to them wipe'ss your boredom. If there was no attraction, you would be bored as well.

Ever thought that maybe you are boring as well and that is the reason your male friends are boring??

I'm going to say, not every girl I speak to have 36D, slender, and shaved down there. In fact, I'm not even attracted to all of them, some of them are not so desired and they can hold extremely good conversation with me.

As for that boring male friends, I would say male friends are more boring than female.

Here's the topic I have spoken about with my male cohorts:

1 - Football (or fill in sports) seasons,
2 - Politics,
3 - Games especially sports game

And it gets boring because either we agree or we don't and when we don't, the male tend to get angry and threatens people or in this case, me.

And sorry, hanging out in group with males? I get very uncomfortable of that (remember, I do but with people I trust and know) especially if I don't know them. Oftentimes they come out trying to prove something. Like stick out their chest and heads up and try to talk down on me. Or talk about how they scored a million chicks when you tell them "hey, see that? Good girl, try her" and he backs down without a single thought and say "aw man no look I'm not ready."

With female, I can actually do things and talk about it. With male, I would say "let's meet up somewhere" and that sounds awkward, even gay.

With female, bingo, she asks "can I bring my friends?" and I have a large choice of selection AND not to mention, fun.

We can talk about politics in group, hang out at a mall or go karaoke, or go to a friend's house and play spin-the-bottle (mmm... kissing and getting naughty all the girls there, better spin right) at a friend's house or even better, which I have done recently at Pace University, get invited to a small room party and sleep in their dorm!

Talk about sleeping in their dorm, if you want, you can sleep in the same bed with a different chick each night, you can do a lot of things you can't do with male.

Let's get this straight, I said I look at male and female as equal and I do.

I have male friends too, and in fact, before I came to this site, I actually had more male friends and we were on the same level. Competing would be nonstop and tiring, I knew and everyone else knew we were all insecure when it came to chicks and none of us would score and some people would even make up stories.

This is actually pointing out to one circle of male friends I had (actually, 25+ people) and they were a part of my memory because they were from my juniorHS.

And then going to actually do something, "let's go play basketball", guys would go "nah I don't feel like it".

Let's not forget violence. It would happen almost on a daily basis. But it has gotten a lot less now due to the fact that I have more female friends than male. This one pointing to another circle (I call them "park friends").

Then again it could be me but I find that females are more willing to do things with you than males. That in itself is why females are fun to be with.

And I know you'll admit this too, females are better to look at all day. At the end of the day I want to be with a bunch of sweating women where their clothes are nearly see-through, not a bunch of men with belly sticking out, or hairy as hell.

Those who have seen my album can obviously say the same for me.

 

[Wyldfire]

Originally posted by SELF-MASTERY
NO.

Why is everyone so defensive?

Because mean Wyldfire spoke the truth and hit a nerve. You noticed the bitterness too and spoke of it.

Now you will be accused of "sucking up" to the evil Wyldfire and selling out all of mankind for having the audacity to actually agree with me rather than insult me.

It's really quite simple.
:crackup:

 

[john_x]

hahah

 

[sifer]

Originally posted by john_x
hahah

Oh noes.

 

[DJDamage]

Originally posted by sifer
I'm going to say, not every girl I speak to have 36D, slender, and shaved down there. In fact, I'm not even attracted to all of them, some of them are not so desired and they can hold extremely good conversation with me.

I never said that they have to have modelseque type body for you or anybody else to want to hang around them. I said "beacuse they have breasts and a vagina. Your attractions to them wipes your boredom". In the above statment you do admit that you find some of them attractive which means you are denying to yourself the fact that you want to fvck them but rather be forced upon their so called "friendship". You are settling for something (hanging around them) in which deep down you want something else (fvcking them) because its better then nothing. Am I correct??

Originally posted by sifer
As for that boring male friends, I would say male friends are more boring than female.

well if you like to sit around the coffee shop and talk for 2-3 hours about useless stuff then of coarse normal males will bore you. Most guys will not sit and talk all night long about feelings. They do stuff with other guys. If your male friends are boring because they want to sit down and talk about stuff instead of doing stuff then maybe you should find new friends.

Originally posted by sifer
And sorry, hanging out in group with males? I get very uncomfortable of that (remember, I do but with people I trust and know) especially if I don't know them. Oftentimes they come out trying to prove something. Like stick out their chest and heads up and try to talk down on me. Or talk about how they scored a million chicks when you tell them "hey, see that? Good girl, try her" and he backs down without a single thought and say "aw man no look I'm not ready."

have you ever thought maybe you are not masculine enough and that is why you feel uncomfertable around strange men?? in a male group dynamics as soon as everyone get together, everyone automatically gets ranking. That is how it is in the real world.There are the guys who other guys look up too and then there are the guys at the bottom of the ranking, who feel more comfertable hanging with females because that is the only way they feel superior. Admit it, that is has something to do with it.

Originally posted by sifer
We can talk about politics in group, hang out at a mall or go karaoke, or go to a friend's house and play spin-the-bottle (mmm... kissing and getting naughty all the girls there, better spin right) at a friend's house or even better, which I have done recently at Pace University, get invited to a small room party and sleep in their dorm!

You sound like one of the girls. Happy to be invited to sleep in their dorm. You got wall to wall pvssy but you know know that the only company that would feel you d1ck that night would be HANDela and PALMela. I wouldn't be too happy about that.

Originally posted by sifer
Talk about sleeping in their dorm, if you want, you can sleep in the same bed with a different chick each night, you can do a lot of things you can't do with male.

I think this song is about you. http://www.ryanmcfaul.com/mirror/gb_medium.html

Originally posted by sifer
I have male friends too, and in fact, before I came to this site, I actually had more male friends and we were on the same level. Competing would be nonstop and tiring, I knew and everyone else knew we were all insecure when it came to chicks and none of us would score and some people would even make up stories.

Part of being a DJ is having a healthy relationship with males and females. Obviously the male friends you had were insecure and influnced you which was not healthy. Now you are in a relationship with girls only who you want to fvck but can't, that is not healthy either. Go find yourself some male friends who like to sarge for women and you will get the best of both worlds.

Originally posted by sifer
And I know you'll admit this too, females are better to look at all day. At the end of the day I want to be with a bunch of sweating women where their clothes are nearly see-through, not a bunch of men with belly sticking out, or hairy as hell.

Yeah I admit that I look at women but in a sexual way. I do not like to lie to myself if I like a girl and want to be with her by being her friend. I don't look at my male friends in a sexual way when I hang around them, so I don't know why you make such a comparison to begin with. Also to let you know that most of those so called female friends will eventually dissapear out of your life. Here is a good quote from LIT that summarized my beliefs:

Originally posted by Lost In Translation

99% Friendships with women are a house of cards

a boyfriend / husband / drama / your friend hook up with her

the smallest gust of wind and NO MORE FRIENDSHIP

Trust me I was once like you thinking that females will make better friends and are more fun and better to hang around. That is why I sound harsh because I know that kind of sh1t that will most likely follow. I needed my current advice 4 years ago.

Girls can be easily replaced as friends but its very difficult to replace one good guy friend. As you grow older you will realise this. Its just a matter of time.