No mean yes?/and psychology of directness question.

[Blurred Elevens]

I searched for these topics and could'nt find them anywhere, so here I go.



What is it about women that makes them respond to obvious but subtle sexual advances (IE want to see my bedroom?) so much more successfully as opposed to a balant statement like "lets fvck" or "you wanna blow me"?
Is there a link to a post listing some of these lines? (the subtle ones )

Also, I was reading a post here where someone mentioned that a girl told him that she was saving her virginity, but he kept making advances at her due to advice he was given here on that issue as well. Any link for this subject?

Thanks for your help fellas.

 

[Blurred Elevens]

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[JJMcLure]

Chicks have in built ASD that prevents them (most of the time) from "DECIDING" they will have sex with you. They might KNOW it will happen and WANT it to, but they can't let on they "decided" to.

Ever heard a chick utter the lines:
"It just happened"
"It felt right"
"It was the heat of the moment"

or even:

"I was drunk"
"I don't remember much about last night"

All of these things remove responsbility for it from her. Chicks will not accept responsbility. So they resist and it takes a guy who will be confident enough to persist. They both get what they want and the chick gets to say "he wouldn't give up/it just happened" etc.

They then don't sound easy/a slut to their friends and others.

 

[drixsa]

what sounds better?

"hey lets go out saturday morning...is the mall ok?"

or

"yea i really want to get a new wardrobe, so pick me up saturday and make sure to bring the best part about you, your wallet"

i dont know why but i have always felt that girls want a good story to tell.

now what sounds better?

"he asked me to get on my knees and suck is c0ck"

or

"he aroused me to a point where i have never been before"

 

[iqqi]

i know just what you are saying, and it is true. it isn't even necessarily about the antislut defense. check out my thread. at first this guy wouldn't make a move, so i teased him and called him out, subtly. now he is at the opposite spectrum, with the aid of alcohol, talking about "lets go to my house now."

and if i just wanted to fcuk, then i'd go!

but most girls don't just want to fcuk. i don't know, it is hard to clarify, i already know all the jackasses who will jump on me after saying this to tell me it is just ASD, but the truth is that it depends on the girl. some will go for directness. most won't, but for various reasons.

i'd say in general, to cover almost all of the possible, specific whys, subtly is not a bad thing. directness can be tacky if it is tactless, you know? it can be crude and rude and if you are that unimaginitive, how will you be in bed?

some might not care, they just want to fcuk.

but most do care. girls, at least. i think!

 

[Blurred Elevens]

JJ-So, from what I gather, the whole ASD makes sense. That way a woman doesn't necessarily need to feel guilty the morning after since she never "DECIDED" and it just happened.

Drix, I had to read between the lines there, but are you saying that the to-the-point advance simply says, "All I care about is your *****, and not you"?

That would make sense.

Iqqi-it took me a minute to figure out that you're female. Your post weirded me out for a minute there.

You said if you wanted to fvck that dude (rico), you would've went to his house. Why would'nt you want to fvck him??! Is it your fear of him losing interest in you after that? I'm kind of going through that with another girl right now. I know she likes me, but she's afraid to fvck.....What's that all about? Thanks