No Masturbation for 6 months! Join in!

[OzyBoy]

This is funny i once did that and lasted 9 months or something silly like that but i thought it was no fun because i wasn't seeing anyone so i started again. I have been trying to reduce it recently to about 1-2 times a week as anymore is too much i think. Maybe if i start seeing someone some day i won't have to do it that much. I am just getting so sick of having nothing. Oh well 2006 is coming soon and i am thinking of moving to a new area in the new year and i am looking for someone new as its my life and i am not wasting anymore time.

 

[SamePendo]

Sex is permitted here.

Gotta tell you guys. I don't know about you, but I'm not getting laid left and right. It'd be a good thing to avoid all sex stuff for 6 months, but that'd be another whole story and purpose, don't you think?

Let's just limit to no masturbating. Ok? Then let's go onto the no sex at all ****.

Thankyou mroriginal for the list.

I'll open a thread the 29th so that we all can post a follow up to this. Our experiences and changes, support, and general comments on this. I'll open it on that date so that the attention right now focuses on signing in and then the actual challenge, journey.

Other posters have noted the scientific approach to this. Even if you do it 1 every 2 weeks or whatever, you have nothing to lose. Everything to win. Especially if you start a bulking regime. Join in.

Rule no.2 is very important guys.

 

[Bourne]

Re: Sex is permitted here.

nm

 

[SamePendo]

Re: Re: Sex is permitted here.

Originally posted by Bourne


I think that is the whole idea behind this post. Getting sex from a women and not your hand. Increasing your testostorone levels and getting laid, but not by your hand.

I basically think the same way Bourne.

 

[Bourne]

I think this is excellent exercise in self-control. Most guys have been jerking it since age of 15 pretty much non-stop.

I got to tell you I stopped for 2 weeks. I was a walking erection. My g/f couldn't escape me. I wanted her so bad. She left for a few weeks, I caved in and sqeezed one off. But man, I was flirting, kino, talking to girls left and right. I wasn't holding back on being masculine and showing sexual interest. It was great.\

This is going to be tough.

I think keeping a list of all the people who are still in and what they been up to and how they are dealing will be very insightful and very f___ucking funny.

 

[ChampusMaximus]

Originally posted by DJDamage
Masterbation kills motivation.

That goes for everything in life.

Masterbation makes you tired and sleepy and thus hinders motivation.

Does this guy look motivated to you?? (WARNING MATURE CONTENT!)

http://www.ebaumsworld.com/videos/morningpleasure.html

if you don't have a girl its best to release that aggression in the gym.

DjDamage

You can count me in also. We'll see for how long. That video works well to keep you on track. Did you shoot that yourself Damage? Some excellent camera work.

 

[Lost In Translation]

Persephone you are full of $hit

Persephone
I've been lurking here for a week or so, trying to collect material for an article

how ironic i make a thread call the feminist assassination of the don juan

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=88923

and a feminist turns up to write an article using sosuave as material

Persephone
One of the things I love about being a woman is that whacking off doesn't have any strings attached. It's just an orgasm or two. I can even use any applicances I want without anyone thinking that I'm a freak, or at least without anyone thinking that I'm a freak in a bad way.

why do women come to sosuave ?

we are blessed with 2

we don't want anymore

the borders have been closed

turn around and walk back to mexico

Persephone
the bottom line is that feminism included a reclaimation of female sexuality that is still incomplete, but still making progress

shouldn't you be on a picket line somewhere ?

Persephone
Testosterone and sexual tension aren't bad things in and of themselves, but in combination and excess they have at least one negative side effect.

Persephone
Also, studies done in Germany found that sexual release has no physical effect on athletic performance.

either link to this article PROVING what you are saying is true

or get the f*ck off the thread you feminist liar


Lost In Translation

**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**

 

[DJDamage]

Originally posted by Lost In Translation
a feminist turns up to write an article using sosuave as material

I was thinking the same thing.

 

[Lost In Translation]

yeah but how funny

i make a thread about this very $hit happening

"doesn't that totally blow your mind" - Doug in movie : A Night At The Roxbury


Lost In Translation

**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**

 

[DJ_in_making]

Re: Sex is permitted here.

Originally posted by SamePendo


Let's just limit to no masturbating. Ok? Then let's go onto the no sex at all ****.

sex is overrated......

 

[Bourne]

Re: Re: Sex is permitted here.

Originally posted by DJ_in_making
sex is overrated......

Haha, that means you are not getting any.

 

[Boner da Stoner]

ouch, ouch, ouch

wayyy too much bad juju going around here for even me to try to destroy...

feminism/anti-feminism... anti-anti-feminism ideas popping into my head, being killed by anti-anti-anti-feministic endeavours...

You two are too much, and plase stop ruining such a great thread... please refer to pooks post on bringing feminism to trial and arguin there... don't foul another grounds with your manipulation.

This is a call to stop masturbating, not a call on sex vs. no sexm male vs female masturbation, the effects of masturbation on the hunman psyche or physiology. None of that, we are not scientists, and have no grounds in telling other people our extrapolations about it... especially in your cases, you are intelligent, but undereducated in the area at hand(get it?)

I like how Persephone avoids the topic and argues with off-topic remarks, and than LIT uses even more off-colour insults to make his point clear.

I wish we could have thread moderators and choices to block people from posting to ours... while sending them a clear message to shut up and block them from being part of the group. THAT is what is lacking, some people who should talk aren;t there, and the people that do talk should have a bar of soap in their mouth's.

 

[The Bad Ass Canadian]

Thank You LIT!!
I'm just gettking back home and was ready to sit and see what type of reply Persephone had left.... There was to be 2 possible outcomes....

1 - She makes her points valid and I applaud her.

2- She continues to assume that I'm some chump who never gets laid and that my hand is all I have and continues to try and cut me and everyone else here down for trying to STOP masturbating.

I love Wyldfire and Penkkitten... Those women know what's going on... and they are very miuch welcome on these boards, even though we have our share of spats with them....but this bycth is absolutley 100% full of ****.

Persephone,

You might want to go and grab your "editors" between the legs and check to make sure they still have a "pair"... If I, or any other REAL man was your editor, I'd have thrown your papers at you long ago and told you to go fvck yourself.

But I'm not your editor, but I will STILL tell you to go fvck yourself.

you have no idea what the fvck you're talking about and are basing all your assumptions on "scientific research"

you want me to go under the microscope and have myself analyzed to see if these changes are occuring? Fine.. sign me up.

I cannot deny the feelings I've been having and I'm absolutley addicted to the sense of self control and the power that comes along with it.

I want to stop masturbating or in a more realistsc sense, seriously decrease the number of times that i DO need to do it.

Thisn doesn't even have anything to do with wanting to only have a woman as my single method of sexual release.

For me, this is about letting my bodie's natural testosternone levels come back up where they belong and stopping the constant depletion that is starting to strain on my sense of masculinity. This is a serious issue, and the only way around it is to seriously cut back.

AND.... the funniest thing about this whole thing is that in no place in this thread have I mentioned giving up masturbating for 6 months. I'm not signing up to the bandwagon... Hence my post about the redundency of the "list".. I don't want to be on the list, because I have no intentions of going back to frequent masturbation fater the 6 months are up.

I can't help but feel the push of the "feminist" agenda with every reply you make.... It's like your trying to lead us into believing that over masturbation is completely health and that by stopping we are weak... when, in fact, the opposite is true. It's as iff you WANT men to be passive and not go after what they want.

fvck you.

I'm done arguing my point. Have fun with your "girly" editors.

I will not reply to this anymore, because it's futile. It's like a game of tap-backs except between 2 adults who both want to gain the upper hand.

This is mine upper hand..... I'm done.

Whatever you say afte this is none of my concern, because I've made my points and you have absolutley nothing to base an argument with except what you read... you are not a man, though... at this point, I'm starting to think you wish you were.

 

[Phoenix_of_the_ashes]

I wear my boxing gloves at night so I cant touch my weewee. teeeheeeee!!!

 

[DJ_in_making]

Originally posted by The Bad Ass Canadian
Thank You LIT!!
I'm just gettking back home and was ready to sit and see what type of reply Persephone had left.... There was to be 2 possible outcomes....

1 - She makes her points valid and I applaud her.

2- She continues to assume that I'm some chump who never gets laid and that my hand is all I have and continues to try and cut me and everyone else here down for trying to STOP masturbating.

I love Wyldfire and Penkkitten... Those women know what's going on... and they are very miuch welcome on these boards, even though we have our share of spats with them....but this bycth is absolutley 100% full of ****.

Persephone,

You might want to go and grab your "editors" between the legs and check to make sure they still have a "pair"... If I, or any other REAL man was your editor, I'd have thrown your papers at you long ago and told you to go fvck yourself.

But I'm not your editor, but I will STILL tell you to go fvck yourself.

you have no idea what the fvck you're talking about and are basing all your assumptions on "scientific research"

you want me to go under the microscope and have myself analyzed to see if these changes are occuring? Fine.. sign me up.

I cannot deny the feelings I've been having and I'm absolutley addicted to the sense of self control and the power that comes along with it.

AND.... the funniest thing about this whole thing is that in no place in this thread have I mentioned giving up masturbating for 6 moths. I'm not signing up to the bandwagon... Hence my post about the redundency of the "list"

I can't help but feel the push of the "feminist" agenda with every reply you make.... It's like your trying to lead us into believing that over masturbation is completely health and that by stopping we are weak... when, in fact, the opposite is true.

fvck you.

I'm done arguing my point. Have fun with your "girly" editors.

I will not reply to this anymore, because it's futile. It's like a game of tap-backs except between 2 adults who both want to gain the upper hand.

This is mine upper hand..... I'm done.

Whatever you say afte this is none of my concern, because I've made my points and you have absolutley nothing to base an argument with except what you read... you are not a man, though... at this point, I'm starting to think you wish you were.

PWNED!!!!!!

 

[DJ_in_making]

Re: Re: Re: Sex is permitted here.

Originally posted by Bourne
Haha, that means you are not getting any.

OWND!!!!!
.....wait a minute that was to me!

 

[Bourne]

Re: Re: Re: Re: Sex is permitted here.

Originally posted by DJ_in_making
OWND!!!!!
.....wait a minute that was to me!

Hahaha, just giving you a hard time man.

 

[BrotherAP]

Originally posted by Persephone
[...][ Marriage (read: culturally sanctioned reproductive sex) was a "foul and polluted way of life."

This means that if you're going to be true to the core values behind the idea that male masturbation is bad, then you shouldn't be ejaculating at all, and if you're so spineless and wimpy that you must, it should be into an unprotected vag*na.

Actually, you are the first to quote this. Nobody else founded their desire to abstain from masturbation on this. The point is to stop masturbating so you'll be hornier and more motivated to have sex with a girl since she is your only outlet - meanwhile, I have no idea what you are talking about.

Here's another thought, too. In a rush to define "masculine" as merely "the opposite of feminine," we may be returning to Jeromish thinking where male sexuality is concerned. Now that women are free to masturbate whenever they want and with anything they want, are we going to define "manliness" in part as an absence of masturbation? Am I the only one who thinks this is completely insane?

What?? A man abstaining from masturbation has nothing to do with whether or not females masturbate... once again, you are the first to bring this up. And, yes, you are the only one who thinks that.

Short of a behavioral addiction, which can develop around anything that feels good, there isn't a thing wrong with masturbation. It simply decreases tension

And the point of stopping masturbation is to prevent this decrease of sexual tension to motivate a guy to learn how to deal with actual women. If it weren't for porn, these guys would already be craving female interaction.

Masturbation is a way of coping with our constantly-on sexuality, which is a side effect of the fact that we have no mating season. Nothing more. The whole notion that male masturbation is "pathetic" is a cultural construct along the lines of the notion that orgasm in women is a sign of mental illness.

Interesting theory. Our sexuality is always-on - but is it any more so than a male dog? Or any other male mammal, for that matter? I don't see any evidence that this is the case. As far as orgasm in women being a mental illness - what the hell are you talking about? Any guy I know BRAGS about giving a girl an orgasm. There is no notion that it is a sign of mental illness. That's just feminism propaganda at work.

In the case of a behavioral addiction, it's best to address the underlying issue.

Which is not getting laid enough...

Trying to stop the behavior without doing so is like putting a butterfly bandage over a severed artery. If masturbation is interfering with the rest of your life, get help and from a reputable therapist, not from Christian websites.

The point isn't that it's interfering with your whole life... it's fvcking up your sex drive

Testosterone and sexual tension aren't bad things in and of themselves, but in combination and excess they have at least one negative side effect. They not only give your temper an unpleasant edge, they also give that temper a very short fuse. I would not want to share space with a guy who was that ragged, much less a guy whose frustration level was so high that I became little more than a pressure valve.

I see no evidence that lack of masturbation causes physical aggression and crabbiness. Besides, the point of stopping masturbation is that you replace it with actual sex, and the idea is that you still get satisfied regurlary just not by yourself.

The mere, physical act of f*cking doesn't have the same built-in, biochemical rewards for women that it does for men (we have them, they're just different), so the sort of sex machine this is going to turn you into is unlikely to appeal to anyone sane. It's also not going to help your performance in bed. Women are far, far, far more likely to get off before your d*ck goes in. A man too frustrated to tolerate foreplay isn't going to be much of a lover.

This has nothing to do with foreplay! This has to do with not masturbating, and having sex regularly! Stop assuming that we can't get laid! You are stereotyping here, as you clearly have not felt this way since your not a guy. You don't know what you are talking about.

Originally posted by Persephone
Thanks, Egoist! javascript:smilie('')

Really, all I'm asking is that you give some thought to why you think you need to contain it at all. Do you really have a problem, or are you just suffering from a lingering bit of Jerome-induced cultural guilt? And if you do have a problem, is the masturbation a symptom or a cause? If the former, is giving it up going to accomplish anything, or will you just turn into the sexual equivalent of a dry drunk?

Problem? Guilt? Stop making this such an elevated issue. These guys want to increase their sexu drive. There is no problem.

Give up masturbation, though, and you're on your own. Might as well give up blinking. Or sleeping. At least as far as I'm concerned.

But above you talked about problems and guilt. Now it's just a part of life, an undeniable urge like that to eat. So we have to masturbate? What's wrong with relying on actual sex?

From a female perspective, a sexually wound-up man who has no outlet but his partner isn't a lot of fun to be with, in bed or out.

Have you ever been with a man who refused to masturbate? It increases his libido, and if he's having sex regularly that doesn't mean that he's more desperate and frustrated - it means he's more enthusiastic. What girl doesn't want a man who's enthusiastic about sex? Once again, you are making assumptions.

Even worse if he has moral issues because he probably has moral issues with a lot of other interesting things, but bad enough if they're just a free-floating sense of wrongness.

Nobody mentioned morality... this isn't about it being "wrong" or "bad". We don't have any hang-ups about masturbation.

After a while, one starts to feel like a place to put his d*ck when it gets hard and to put the sperm when he's done, which is not a thrill. Not to mention the rotten temper once he's dressed. Sex is a lot more fun when everybody is relaxed. So is the rest of life.

Once again, you are talking about a man with issues, not a man who simply stopped masturbating. Unless you're a slvt, in which case you are just a place for him to put his d*ck. Either get some standards or get used to it.

That, and certain amount of success with women, especially on a more casual basis, rides on being confident, relaxed and satisfied, not wired and desperate. Going into a seduction with the feeling that if you don't get laid soon your b*lls will blow up is going to raise a lot more eyebrows than skirts.

So you've tried not touching your own penis, and gone out to pick up chicks and experienced this? I didn't think so. As a man, I am aware of my sex drive, but not slave to it. I can very horny without acting desperate, although my boldness will increase as I'm more determined to release the tension. In my experience, when I'm hornier I do better with women, not worse. Horniness does not equal desperation. Good try though.

Even giving up a genuine bad habit can have unpleasant repercussions for those around you. I will pamper someone who's crabby and short-tempered because he's quit smoking. I will massage the sore muscles of someone who is trying to survive his first months in the gym. I will get experimental in the kitchen for someone who is trying to get his weight out the red zone. Give up masturbation, though, and you're on your own. Might as well give up blinking. Or sleeping. At least as far as I'm concerned.

Once again, you're picturing this frustrated, stressed-out guy who is pissed off because he can't masturbate, and I'm telling you that he doesn't exist. He doesn't need a woman's sympathy. Seriously, it's masturbation - not heroin!

 

[BrotherAP]

Male editors have to approve it and if I got things seriously wrong, they wouldn't.

Just because they are male does not give them authority on the topic of sexuality. I remain unconvinced that you know what you are talking about

For that matter, show me proof that orgasm from masturbation is significantly different where the body is concerned than orgasm from intercourse

Your first valid point. Can the body differentiate between orgasm via masturbation vs. intercouse with a girl? I don't know, and honestly I doubt so...

But so much more is affected by actual sex with an actual girl. Mentally, emotionally and intellectually it is far more satisfying. Even if your genitals don't know the difference, your brain does. Every guy here values sex with a woman over sex with his hand.

Eliminate sex with your hand as a possibility, and sex with a woman is the only one left. That is the point of abstaining!

So if you really think you have to do this, have at it! But if you're debating inside, or even feel the slightest bit guilty about what you did to yourself last night, think first. Is this really going to help you, or would you be better off taking a closer look at what you believe about masturbation?

If you really think about it, the best way to find out is to try it!


Best of luck to everybody participating in this experiment, nevermind a certain WOMAN who thinks you shouldn't do it!


BrotherAP

 

[nonstop]

the problem is in your mind, not in your hand. If you feel low self esteem afterwards then its your programming that you need to change.

Stopping masturbating wont re-program you.

What will you do after 6 months when you start again?,
you'll be back to where you started.

What do you hope to achieve from this? you'll get laid more by
becoming a non-sexual person?

masturbating isn't wrong it's a natural thing that makes you
feel good, like laughing. Would you stop laughing in the hope
that you'll be happier inside? nope.

if you're going to masturbate make sure you feel damn good
about it. you sexy mothers f!!!! associate that good feeling
with yourself. because you are sexy and girls want you.

be natural don't be a monk.