No kiss?

[cloneofstenyhoyer]

met girl off internet tonight. I had her over at my place - and we talked for a while. It was our first meeting and we did meet off the internet so I lowered my expectations. anyways - we hung out for a few hours and she keeps talking about how we should hang out again - but no kiss at the end of date. I rubbed her back as she got out of the car. ahhh. what the ****. she's all asking what I'm doin next weekend and sayin we should hang out again - well heck no if I aint never gonna get a kiss

:cuss: :cuss: :cuss: :cuss:

 

[Jitterbug]

If you want a kiss, you have to go for it.

 

[Aragon034]

If she wants to hang out, you need to initiate more.

if she accepts, woop dee doo.

if she resists, either slow down and take your time, or if i gather from your demeanor you just don't want to wait or invest any more time into it, Next.

 

[cloneofstenyhoyer]

yeah that is what I was thinking. She seemed a little nervous the whole time - never met anyone straight off the internet before. I think she was feeling me out a little bit and I was kinda feeling out who she was likewise. But hey - if I do go for it next time and she rejects, then there will be no third time.

 

[Insurreto]

Why didn't you go for it? Did you expect her to go for it? Dude, who's the one wearing pants?

Much love,
- Insurreto

 

[cloneofstenyhoyer]

I would have gone for it - but I didn't see an opening. since it was our first meeting I felt like she had a barrier up. we had some good rapport and I made some small kino - but I dunno I guess I dropped the ball?

 

[DJsomeday]

When i don't see a moment for a kiss i usually tease the girl (in a fun way though) and we laugh, then i tell her ok ok! i'll make it up to you i'm not that mean, come on give me a hug. If they don't accept the hug then it's a NEXT! or at least a NEXT... time we meet we might make out but not today lol.

Thing is i hug her, smell her hair and kiss!. Remember, what they say make the ho say no, or even better make the girl say yes!

 

[cloneofstenyhoyer]

I should have teased her and at least gotten a hug. I think I was too focused on a desired outcome (goodnight kiss) that I missed other routes. The only thing is - I just can't 100 percent read her signals. she does seem interested - but I don't feel 100 percent on that. I mean - who knows if she thinks she just found a friend in me or something.

 

[doopee]

well

 

[cloneofstenyhoyer]

well?

 

[Mavrick]

I could have banged her on the first date in your body.

You don't need her; you only want her. You have to make moves on her. If she's into you, that makes it all the more easier.

Go out with her again and go for more than just a kiss. Go for the pvssy.

 

[Mavrick]

I would have gone for it - but I didn't see an opening. since it was our first meeting I felt like she had a barrier up. we had some good rapport and I made some small kino - but I dunno I guess I dropped the ball?

The only opening is the one that you present. Tickle her a little bit, then lean over, ask "does this tickle?" and kiss her. It's so easy.

What was really wrong was you were afraid. You were scared that she would turn you down. If she did, so what? That's how you know.

 

[cloneofstenyhoyer]

yeah, but come to think of it - I didnt get any kino back the whole night. I was wondering what was the deal. did I use too much kino?

 

[cloneofstenyhoyer]

i've been kinda F****** since this one girl that I thought was into me - really wasn't at all. before I knew it I was in the friend zone hearing about her guy troubles. I cant tell if a girl is interested in me or interested in me as a friend. I used to be able to. now it seems I cant trust myself

 

[Insurreto]

No opening? Create an opening. Try this:
You - "Are you adventurous?" (Sorry for bad spelling, I'm still learning English )
Her - "Yes" / "No, not so much"

You - "Awesome, I like adventurous girls, I'm gonna show you something cool! It's great fun" / "No? Cool, then I'll be gentle"

Take her hand, spin her around. Grab her firmly and kiss her!

You just created an opening for a kiss.

Much love,
- Insurreto

 

[Beffing]

what has worked for me is during the eintire "date" do the whole kino thing and tease her a lot and get her to think youre the man through subtle, non arrogant ways like: take her somewhere you know people or where you know you will run into a chick that likes you and will run up and hug you and stuff, then at this point she SHOULD be thinking "Wow who is this guy?" Then I usually pick certain spots in the conversation to pull her hair back and whisper in her ear (works mostly in bars and clubs). This is a form of kino I refer to as proximity tension. So after all this teasing, ball busting, social proof, kino, and preselection stuff has been done yore pretty much in. Now for the kiss close I usually do the mystery close or gently grab her wrist, smile at her and go in for the kill.

 

[Cashew]

I hate the goodnight-kiss as a first kiss. Do something spontaneous, throw the first one into the middle of a date. Opportunities will be there. Grab the first one you get. Don't think about it; be manly and impulsive and just do it. If it works out well... then your get the goodnight-kiss too, and that one becomes super easy to do.

 

[cloneofstenyhoyer]

I just still cant get this one chick from a few months ago out of my mind. I did kino on her - and got a LOT of kino back. we had the same class together. we always made a lot of eye contact - I thought I was in like Flynn. I tried to dance with her one night that we were at a club - and she's like "I just wanna dance alone." If I would have kissed her, I know I would have been rejected. I got all the positive signs and it turned out she was disinterested. How do I know that new girl isn't the same deal? Like how do I know she isn't thinking "gee we'd be great friends". screw that mess I dont want this new chick as a friend.

 

[cloneofstenyhoyer]

another thing kinda making me sketch is that we are the same height almost - 5 7ish

 

[cloneofstenyhoyer]

well, I still haven't talked to this chick yet. I am busy this weekend going hiking around and needed my space from women. I don't know if going for the kiss and failing has eliminated my chances with chick in question. I dunno.