No, I'm not a slût

[the_count]

So I'm at this party and I'm dancing with this girl and she's dancing on me non stop like a fuçkin FREAK, giving me lapdances and telling me how cute she thinks I am yadda yadda. We made out a few times and she let me feel her up, @ss, tits pùssy, the whole nine; even let me put my hand down her shirt DURING THE PARTY, we weren't alone. The kicker is every time I suggest we go someplace private (to fûck of course) she goes "no I'm not a slùt". Experienced DJs, wtf was that all about? I'm leaning towards attention whøre, am I right?

 

[pinkfl]

Lol she's still a slut in my eyes.
Which does she think she is kidding...she let a virtual stranger feel her up and make out with her! She's trash. Eww.

 

[Mike32ct]

I have no doubt she was AWing. But let's look at this from another angle...

This is counterintuitive...

Getting TOO physical on the dance floor can often make it more DIFFICULT to pull. Try showing a bit more restraint next time. Keep the making out very brief. Don't touch her puss. Leave her wanting more.

You laid (pun intended lol) all of your cards on the table. Plus, it showed zero class in front of her friends at the party.

Yeah she's a slut, but you don't want her to look like one in public .

If you observe carefully at the club, it's generally not the raunchy aggressive "you two should get a room" looking couple that leaves together. It's often the couple that is not super aggressive together that walks hand-in-hand out the exit door before closing time. (Same with parties.)

Maybe she was 100% AW-ing and had no intention of leaving with you. She seemed more interested in being an EXHIBITIONIST than getting horizontal with you. But going forward, always tease her with minimal kissing and touching to send the non-verbal message, "I want to do more with you, but this isn't the place."

 

[Who Dares Win]

I could fill a page on my personal experiences similar to this case, I agree with Mike as general rule.

Keep in mind that for some girls you're good enough to provide attention and action but not good enough to close the deal, Im a man and I can tell you that there are some girls attractive enough to mess up in the club but which I would not take to my place.
Something like, appreciating the physical contact while showing off in front of other girls but without a strong enough desire to bang them.

I believe for girls is the same, so by doing what you did you provide attention and also power, the power to have you in that moment and the power to reject you later.

So I would say attention wh0re + low real interest, suggestion is recognize attention wh0res first and in similar case to this one dont push too much, do some hot and cold in physical sense gauging her reaction.

If she miss the physical factor try to close the deal as soon as possible, if you believe that keep playing all night will get you laid you're wrong.
The deal is close in the middle of the night, its not gonna happen that the girl you messed up all night will come at your place at 6 when the club/party close.
Beware as well of girls which want to change venue very later in the night, she is not interested to come in your place now try to imagine when the alchool effect is gonna vanish.

Red flags are her friends around you all the time without any effort from her to remain alone with you (or accepting you attempt to isolate) and the girl trying to remain in the club untill the closing time, this last one means almost surely that everyone goes to his own home for breakfast.

Trust me man I talk by experience not theories.

Keep also in mind the general rule for which an interested girl will work to stay alone with you just like you work to stay alone with her, no effort from her part (no matter the solidity of her bvllsh1t) is a red flag.

 

[perseverance]

She's a hoe-bucket, I bet she has had more d*ck than her Mother, Grandmother, Great Grandmother and her Great, Great Grandmother. A total scummer by all accounts.

 

[Bible_Belt]

She's using the crowd of people as her defense. She knows that she has no chance of saying no in private, so she just keeps you in public, where she knows that she can have fun without having actual sex with you.

It's actually quite smart.

 

[TillTheEndOfTime]

This is what a "modern" "liberated" woman is in today's society thanks to feminism. They're basically wh0res who think they're high class.

 

[ArcBound]

It's great that you can escalate physically and try to get away with as much as possible and a lot of guys don't have that.

But you also have to control the pace. Sounds like you were doing all the pleasuring. You touch her then let her do the same to you. You have to make her want it, not just give it all to her on the dance floor. Tease her, slow the pace, make her horny, confuse her, make her anticipate the next time you touch, kiss or grope her. Let her do some chasing. Then she will want you to lead her out. You were close but no cigar.

 

[C-quenced]

It means you need to game her some more and reassure her that what she's doing is okay. The last time this happened to me I got the same line. My d!ck ended up in her mouth lol. She was deepthroating and everything.... good times.

 

[Zarky]

When a woman knows she's not going to sleep with you, she feels free to act wild, up to that point. The chicks who dress the sluttiest and act the sluttiest are the ones who are least likely to put out. That's why the "quiet librarian" type has historically been thought of as an undercover freak. The ones who put out don't advertise, and the ones who advertise don't put out.

When I used to work for various companies rather than by myself, I found that the chicks who flirted the hardest with me were married chicks with kids. They knew they weren't going to cheat, so they could really press the flirtation.

 

[Purefilth]

When a woman knows she's not going to sleep with you, she feels free to act wild, up to that point. The chicks who dress the sluttiest and act the sluttiest are the ones who are least likely to put out. That's why the "quiet librarian" type has historically been thought of as an undercover freak. The ones who put out don't advertise, and the ones who advertise don't put out.

When I used to work for various companies rather than by myself, I found that the chicks who flirted the hardest with me were married chicks with kids. They knew they weren't going to cheat, so they could really press the flirtation.

I completely agree.

 

[floydb25]

This is what a "modern" "liberated" woman is in today's society thanks to feminism. They're basically wh0res who think they're high class.

Funny ****... And true. They play a lot of games, tease and AW, try to gain the upper-hand, flirt and back away, try to be the prize and wield the power, get you to chase them - while acting sophisticated, classy, and strong-like with all of this anti-slut, nice guy marriage bull**** (and failing miserably, by the way)... When they're really just low-class, shallow, insecure, dumb skanks with nothing to offer. Most of them will tease to increase their value - only for the guy to find out there's a big stash of dog**** awaiting for him at the end of the treasure hunt (ie, the catch does not come anywhere near the chase). They even try to talk decent and human-like - when all they do is whine, nag, complain about their ***** friends and douche bags, talk way too fast with nothing important to say (ever)... Trying to conceal their true nature with all of this fluff and diversion ****. Too bad they're not fooling anyone, and their true slutty colors always reveal themselves. :kick:

I think society's backlash against *****s plays a vital role. So, you have all these *****s trying to act like non-*****s (and again, failing miserably), calling out other women for being *****s, deluding themselves into believing they're not *****s - as they gossip with their ***** friends about other *****s.

****ing *****s.

 

[mustfirstregister]

***** Teaser Alert!!!

 

[Mike32ct]

When a woman knows she's not going to sleep with you, she feels free to act wild, up to that point. The chicks who dress the sluttiest and act the sluttiest are the ones who are least likely to put out.

This is why I laugh when I read online or magazine articles for men that say, "If you want a ONS, find a girl that is showing the most skin." It should read, "If you want a AW who is going to dance lesbian with her gfs, act slutty, and leave without you, find one that is showing the most skin." I've only hooked up with women dressed normally or slightly conservatively.

That's why the "quiet librarian" type has historically been thought of as an undercover freak. The ones who put out don't advertise, and the ones who advertise don't put out.

Definitely. I like teachers that are dressed normally.

When I used to work for various companies rather than by myself, I found that the chicks who flirted the hardest with me were married chicks with kids. They knew they weren't going to cheat, so they could really press the flirtation.

Absolutely. If she's too friendly/flirty, she's often taken.

Another example of is MUCH older women (that are basically done having sex). The REALLY tired cougars tend to be very aggressive and talk dirty openly. I see older guys at bars drooling over these women because of the dirty sh*t they talk about, and these men think they are going to take these women home. These ladies don't end up leaving with anybody. When someone calls their bluff, they say, "I don't DO THAT ANYMORE."

 

[nismo-4]

You're just not the right guy to bring out the slvt in this girl. You are not sexually attractive enough for this girl.

Also, Bible Belt, Mike32ct, Zarky, mustfirstregister, floydb25, Tilltheendoftime, +1 to all of you that I can cuz you're all spot the f**k on!!!

Case closed.