SharinganUser
Master Don Juan
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Yeah, go out, have fun and enjoy life. When you look back on your life are you really going to say you wasted it worrying about having a gf?
no girlfriend ever!
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Yes.Thats just been one of many things bothering me. The whole always single thing.And I dont mean like single by choice,I mean single as in no game/dating skills,my own fault for not developing them, and just feeling like I can't do it. Im slowly starting to come out of this depression i have been feeling for some time,feeling depressed over alot of things,alot of it is socially related though,And Ive realized i need a serious change in attitude,I dont wakt up everyday thinking "I can do this",I wake up more with,"****.not again",know what I mean? My whole inner game needs some serious reworking.Ive been listening to that negative voice for too long,and its caused me to be lazy,fearful,and not going for what i want to go for.Does this sound serious?
crackers444
Don Juan
I know how you feel! I am 24 and never had a girlfriend! It's really getting on my nerves! I am really shy and don't have good social skills when it comes to girls. I spend a lot of time online socializing with girls, it's a different story when you meet them in person!
I really don't think how much experience you have matters as much as people proclaim. I went from having never having a second of remotely sexual contact (never had even held hands before) to getting a bj from my now gf who i've been with for a year and am still going strong with. I get looks from women all of the time not just because of my looks, but because of how i carry myself. Best (or worst) of all I still have plenty of problems, but I've gotten to t he point where i dont advertise them anymore and therefore am desirable.
As for the experience issue, my gf has been more than happy to teach me the stuff that other guys my age know. I simply make sure that what I learn is on my own terms and that I'm not some piece of clay for her to turn into what she wants me to be. If anything I get more get out of jail free cards. Also, when I excel at something I'm not experienced at, it just makes her wonder how good i will be once I've gotten experience. Sex is really good because I master each technique then discover someting entirely new, so it's constantly getting better and she likes that.
As for the experience issue, my gf has been more than happy to teach me the stuff that other guys my age know. I simply make sure that what I learn is on my own terms and that I'm not some piece of clay for her to turn into what she wants me to be. If anything I get more get out of jail free cards. Also, when I excel at something I'm not experienced at, it just makes her wonder how good i will be once I've gotten experience. Sex is really good because I master each technique then discover someting entirely new, so it's constantly getting better and she likes that.