This probably should go into discussion forum. However, this is an awesome subject.
Getting girls is easy. Being a 'suave' guy is simple. But mastering the secrets of sexuality to your advantage (ala 'transmutation')? It is a subject not talked on this board (just as nice guys think they are 'done' because they are so morally superior to everyone else, players *stop* their metamorphosis because they are so vain and think they are sexually superior to everyone else). We run out of the Nice Guy trap only to be caught up in the player trap.
Love is a very powerful element within Humans. No one has really quite figured it out. Certainly, it does have a FUSING effect. And when I say love, I do not mean nice guy love. And I am not talking about POWER that the seducers are obsessed about (and thus will miss out on transmutation because they quest for power on women, not love).
After telling a chick that I wasn't going to get married, she said, "Yes, well, my fiance said the same thing. It's funny with guys. They will say 'they won't get married' and then they fall for a girl and go totally ga ga." For many guys, this is the case.
But how do guys love?
Men and women do not love in the same way, that is for certain. Guys tend to project their souls onto their 'love' (this is *not* a puppy love. This is the 'ga ga'). The man sees a twist of the body, a toss of long hair, and so down under he goes, forgetting that an entire woman is there. He sees her as confidant, possessing qualities that he himself lacks, and seeks union with such a girl. If he gets her, he gets his confidence and becomes ensnared by her. She becomes his priestess. In this, transmutation is possible only by surrendering to her. Sexuality is not male or female, it is one. He truly becomes sexual, truly does become a Man, through her. However, through her he will only become a husband, not a general. He will have the 8-5 job and be the typial 'daddy'.
But it is more interesting when the guy does not get the girl. Here, transmutation fully flowers. After all, he projected his soul into her. Now his quest becomes to unite dream and day, to bring his soul to Earth. All of you, I am sure, have a vision of yourself locked away. This is the TRUE YOU. Unfortunately, women do not see that vision (and those rare women who do will help you bring it out). So the rejected guy enters a state of metamorphosis. He attempts to bring his true self into being.
There was a guy who was a bum. He was a playerish bum who slept with scores of women. His favorite sport was stealing the girls from his older brother. Yet, he went 'ga ga' over this one woman, a very successful businesswoman. Now, he is a part owner of a company, a fireman, married (to a different lady of course) and very successful. This is transmutation in effect.
Shall we take a trip through historical names?
George Washington: Fell madly in love with a woman and proposed to her. She refused him. He supposedly sent her some type of white flowers to her in a room in her old mansion (which still stands). When she heard that he was victorius in the war, she went and tore those flowers up, so enraged at herself for refusing such a Man (remember guys, women fear missing out THE GREAT CATCH). Legend has it if you take those same flowers into that room today, they will instantly wilt.
Thomas Jefferson: This guy was notorious for going after FORBIDDEN WOMEN. Going after forbidden chicks will only mean a series of rejections, which aided him in his transmutation.
John Adams: In his social circle of a few friends, they were all competing for Hannah. Adams would dream about her. On the day he intended to propose to her, his other friends burst innocently into the room and totally ruined the moment. Later, one of his friends would marry her. He, however, understood transmutation enough to say, "Oh my goodness, I was almost trapped!" Soon, he met Abigail. Her parents were against their marriage. However, Abigail was one of those rare women who, instead of seeing a stout little lawyer, saw Adams' vision inside.
Kieerkegaard: The Danish philospher even wrote DIRECTLY about transmutation and how he became great because he didn't marry (but he almost did and was almost ensnared!).
Isaac Newton: Fell madly in love with this chick. He would give her gifts of inventions (such as a super mousetrap). He kept getting rebuffed.
Weineger: I haven't heard about Weineger's personal life, but he does acknoledge transmutation in his evil book.
W. B. Yeats This poet was totally in love with a woman and proposed marriage. Then, he proposed marriage to her daughter. He, of course, got rejected.
THE CLASSIC EXAMPLE: Dante Dante fell in love with Beatrice in her crimson dress. However, Beatrice died in her youth. What does Dante do? He turns Beautrice into a gigantic heavenly body, i.e.The Divine Comedy. Anyone can read that work but it is impossible to understand if you have not been in love.
Charles ****ens: ****ens was so afflicted with it that Great Expectations reveals his agony. In that book, Pip falls in love with Estella and will totally transform himself to 'fit' with her. Modern critics, whose only worth is that of being cultural custodians, see in Great Expectations only 'socioeconomics' and 'Pip learning that he must be happy with himself before he is happy with anything else.' Well, obviously! But the professors and scholars do not understand transmutation (because if they did, they wouldn't be professors or scholars) and miss the entire spirit of the book.
Shakespeare: Any of the plays shows transmutation at effect. But Shakespeare deserves his own post since he, in my opinion, has been the mortal human who understood sexuality best. Sexuality is the heart and soul of his works.
Plato: Transmutation is his work: the Symposium.
Goethe: He never got the woman he really wanted either. His supreme work, Faust, which he worked on throughout his lifetime, deals with this entire issue. Notice the ending lines.
I could go on and on (Napoleon Hill talks of other characters affected with transmutation).
Socrates understood transmtuation as well. In fact, he recommended that the women be better educated then the men. Why's that? Let the philosopher speak for himself:
Oh wise sage! Salient soul! Anyone on the college campus can testify to that. Do you think those guys in Habitat for Humanity give a damn about the poor? No!
What drove you to this website in the first place? I bet it was a girl you DID NOT GET. And already, you are in such a state of change that everyone is surprised at you.
Let us go back in time before you met this girl. If I told you, "I am a time-travelling Pook and I have come to give you the knowledge of SOSUAVE!"
You would say, "WTF? Go away!" So people come here at a loss and choose either power (i.e. seduction) or love (which involves transmutation).
I can divide the people on this board in two groups, those that are in transmutation and those that are not. Those that are not care only for the practical, the earthly talk like "how do I get her in my bed tonight" type questions. The transmutation group is a bit different and is both amazed and stunned at how reality is reshaping before their eyes. It is because THEY are reshaping.
As for myself, the transmutation is going full strength. I started out as a very skinny pale guy, who dressed badly, who couldn't understand people, and was lost in my little nerdy world (whose job prospects probably would be nothing worthy). In a couple of years, I've become very muscular, six pack of abs of course, considering even modeling, much more social, understand people better then they understand themselves, whose knowledge goes from law to poetry to oratory (and I had a speech impediment so severe I was considered 'mentally retarded' and went through 'special ed' throughout elementary!) to even acting. And this just a couple of years! I just wish I started this *change* earlier.
As for yourself, I bet you can say something similiar. But EMBRACE that transmutation. The male sexuality obeys to the female sexuality just as female sexuality obeys to the male sexuality. "Why is this, Pook?" Because sexuality is not two BUT ONE.
Don't you guys get it? You are at a critical time in your life. You are free of the mother yet still before the wife. You have no female support. Thus, you possess the opportunity to metemorph yourself to whatever you want. Most guys just get crunched up in the CYCLE. YOU, however, are different.
You have been given another chance at life. Nature only gives these opportunties to a SELECT few.
still :rockon: 