imagoodfella
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- Joined
- Jul 18, 2023
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- Age
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Personal background
Im my early thirty here, been a narural player since young generally i can get laid without to much effort, especially in nightlife situations (clubs, bars) with ONS, but also daygame workplaces, had been almost ever in LTR and many ONS and side chicks here and there, now getting more serius about seflt growht and money, so i dont go anymore to clubs etc.. and im in ltr since 3 years with my main, had some temporary side chicks, plates
Situation Summary:
Now i have this strange situation with a hot coworker.. she is a foreign in my country and since i moved in this new company i seen her IOI but didnt make any move couse i was new in company.. now after more than six months i started to take coffe with her and she told me that moved from her boyfriend's appartment and she is sad, and alone bored.. i just said if you are bored try to hit a new gym try to do new things and if you want we can hang out sometimes.. she agreed and the frist time i reached her for go out we had a good night drinking and laughing, then she told me her boyfriend kicked her out of house couse he is depressed he dont know what he want( im almost sure he is ****ing around and dont want her in the house) but she love him and want wait him, and yada yada but she is suffering waiting him... She meet him only on weekends now but before she lived with him for years..and then obiviusly when i started to kiss her after the third drink she agreed and we ended up having sex in my car, after the sex she cryed almost 15 minutes and said she feel guilty for what she done.. she never think to do it, then the day after i said " look things happen we are humans we have emoctions, things happen for a reason if your boyfriend really love you the things will be fixed in some time and you can come back with him" then she said better we dont reach out each other anymore and just work as normal coworkers.. the day after she reached out for me.. but i was busy.. and then we continued to speak here and there i arranged other meetings with her but she have her shield up " is wrong you have a girlfriend i have a boyfriend etc.." i maked out with her other times but she dont want to have sex anymore just touching and kissing happened, now im ever the frist who reach out if i dont write she never write, and she said me spontaneously "i wanted to write you but is wrong and meaningless couse i want to be with him im not a side yada yada...also tryed to wait a week, but when i write she reply fast. Its like i acted needy and she lost attraction.
Objectives
My goal is take her as side chick and have sex and acquaintence with her, but seems difficult couse she have this (fake?)moral barrier and she is dependent by her boyfriend that threat her as "facade" GF only stayng with her in weekends and social situation with his parents and then leave her sharing room in a poor appartment with other girls when he own a big house, basically he say that does not know if still love her and some bull****.. i think i have messed up her attraction for me acting needy when she refused to have sex on our second and third dates..
Now im in holiday with my main chick in other country and having a good time, her is with her boyfriend at home couse they both dont work but he dont wanted to go holiday.. i suddenly stopped from writing her since im in holiday more then a week ago.
Im asking myself what next step to do:
-1do nothing for now and when i come back in the city call her meet and escalate again.
-2 pubblish some holiday pics on whatsapp status (we dont follow each other on social) for make her see what beautifull places i am with my main chick.
- 3 send her some holiday pictures and a low investment message" kisses from CountryX hope you are enjoyng your free days!
- 4 suggestion from you that are more expert..
Now option 2 and 3 are for make her think about me and make her feel that kind of "jealousy" she know that my main is hotter then her, but maybe i should let her go.. im getting everyday more beta with this situation but she could be the perfect plate couse we have aquaintance at work also we dont share a team and i like her as a person, also i think his boyfriend is a dork and she should leave him (being aware that if she leave him she will find someone else and i never see her again but for a good reason ).
Im my early thirty here, been a narural player since young generally i can get laid without to much effort, especially in nightlife situations (clubs, bars) with ONS, but also daygame workplaces, had been almost ever in LTR and many ONS and side chicks here and there, now getting more serius about seflt growht and money, so i dont go anymore to clubs etc.. and im in ltr since 3 years with my main, had some temporary side chicks, plates
Situation Summary:
Now i have this strange situation with a hot coworker.. she is a foreign in my country and since i moved in this new company i seen her IOI but didnt make any move couse i was new in company.. now after more than six months i started to take coffe with her and she told me that moved from her boyfriend's appartment and she is sad, and alone bored.. i just said if you are bored try to hit a new gym try to do new things and if you want we can hang out sometimes.. she agreed and the frist time i reached her for go out we had a good night drinking and laughing, then she told me her boyfriend kicked her out of house couse he is depressed he dont know what he want( im almost sure he is ****ing around and dont want her in the house) but she love him and want wait him, and yada yada but she is suffering waiting him... She meet him only on weekends now but before she lived with him for years..and then obiviusly when i started to kiss her after the third drink she agreed and we ended up having sex in my car, after the sex she cryed almost 15 minutes and said she feel guilty for what she done.. she never think to do it, then the day after i said " look things happen we are humans we have emoctions, things happen for a reason if your boyfriend really love you the things will be fixed in some time and you can come back with him" then she said better we dont reach out each other anymore and just work as normal coworkers.. the day after she reached out for me.. but i was busy.. and then we continued to speak here and there i arranged other meetings with her but she have her shield up " is wrong you have a girlfriend i have a boyfriend etc.." i maked out with her other times but she dont want to have sex anymore just touching and kissing happened, now im ever the frist who reach out if i dont write she never write, and she said me spontaneously "i wanted to write you but is wrong and meaningless couse i want to be with him im not a side yada yada...also tryed to wait a week, but when i write she reply fast. Its like i acted needy and she lost attraction.
Objectives
My goal is take her as side chick and have sex and acquaintence with her, but seems difficult couse she have this (fake?)moral barrier and she is dependent by her boyfriend that threat her as "facade" GF only stayng with her in weekends and social situation with his parents and then leave her sharing room in a poor appartment with other girls when he own a big house, basically he say that does not know if still love her and some bull****.. i think i have messed up her attraction for me acting needy when she refused to have sex on our second and third dates..
Now im in holiday with my main chick in other country and having a good time, her is with her boyfriend at home couse they both dont work but he dont wanted to go holiday.. i suddenly stopped from writing her since im in holiday more then a week ago.
Im asking myself what next step to do:
-1do nothing for now and when i come back in the city call her meet and escalate again.
-2 pubblish some holiday pics on whatsapp status (we dont follow each other on social) for make her see what beautifull places i am with my main chick.
- 3 send her some holiday pictures and a low investment message" kisses from CountryX hope you are enjoyng your free days!
- 4 suggestion from you that are more expert..
Now option 2 and 3 are for make her think about me and make her feel that kind of "jealousy" she know that my main is hotter then her, but maybe i should let her go.. im getting everyday more beta with this situation but she could be the perfect plate couse we have aquaintance at work also we dont share a team and i like her as a person, also i think his boyfriend is a dork and she should leave him (being aware that if she leave him she will find someone else and i never see her again but for a good reason ).
