NO company is better than BAD company

[Krassus]

Man oh man, the words to live by! It's better to be alone than with bad company, especially a bad wingman! I was getting the digits off this girl, and she looked at the guy i was with, and the idiot GRINNED, like he thought she was a slut for doing it because she's got a boyfriend. Not only that, but this AFC had the balls to tell his AFC friends he thought my approach was "too much," because i was confident enough to approach that particular girl in that particular way. What a moron! If he ever sees me again, it'll be passing by on the street, and if i'm with a girl, you better believe i'll pretend like i don't know him!

 

[LionFox]

I think it's a full moon or something because everyone's complaining about their AFC friends, and the stupid things they are doing.

I got a call at 3:30 am on a thursday night (I was sleep, I had to be a work the next morning) Apparently my AFC friend had gotten jealous of my jerk friend having girls and "using them" so he intervened and made an ass of himself and messed up jerk friends ass session for the night , so they were having a fight, and it was time for me to drive down to their place and play peace maker.. Sigh... Are there any DJ's out there in the Wilmington, NC area?

 

[TesuqueRed]

Tell me you didn't drive down...

And if you did <sigh> I hope you reamed out dumbass for interfering.

 

[Gangster Of Love]

I got ya. It sucks to have a bad wingman, or a frustrated chump, who will turn his back on you, who most likely gives him the good advice, then tries to be mr. suave with the girls you are sargin'. Yes, better off alone, when it comes to women, or anything. When you're alone, you are actually with the best person you can possibly be, which is yourself. So giving up the opportunity to spend alone time with yourself is always a loss, specially if you are dealing with a dumbass!

 

[Titus]

Krassus, ccc, now you really know how to treat your friends, don't you?
They are the same as you. You are no better or more of a man then them. You just think that you are, which only brings you stress and anger. Which is unnecessary.

 

[IrReSiStIbLe]

Titus,
A friend who fVcks up another friend's opportunity to hook up with a chick and be with her is not a real friend... he is a jelous fvck who only thinks of himself... a true friend should stand up for his mate at times like these...
Krassus, i know where ur comming from, i've got the same problem... but what can u do, you get d1ckheads and pvssies everywhere... im sure u'll find a good wingman soon...
ciao bello,
IrReSiStIbLe.

 

[Krassus]

Originally posted by Titus
Krassus, ccc, now you really know how to treat your friends, don't you?
They are the same as you. You are no better or more of a man then them. You just think that you are, which only brings you stress and anger. Which is unnecessary.

See, that's where you're wrong. I AM better than they are. I know what it takes to get from where i am to where i want to be, and i DO it, and they just SAY it. Furthermore, i also do everything i can to teach them what i know to HELP them, while from where i'm standing, it looks like they're doing everything they can to SCREW me.

 

[Titus]

Originally posted by Krassus
See, that's where you're wrong. I AM better than they are. I know what it takes to get from where i am to where i want to be, and i DO it, and they just SAY it. Furthermore, i also do everything i can to teach them what i know to HELP them, while from where i'm standing, it looks like they're doing everything they can to SCREW me.

I totaly 100% understand you Krassus. Lots of work, hardness and lots of denials to someday reach that great DJ status, where there is no fear of girls, we date and sleep with any we want, without any trouble, and if we are rejected, that is no problem, because we can always move on, without looking back. And we are good souls, so we try to englihten those around us, with the same DJ philospohy, but the bastards spit in our faces, when we try to help them.
I understand you, Krassus. I have been in the exactc spot myself, right there where you are standing now, not such a long time ago..
And today, i totaly disagree with all of it.

 

[Krassus]

Originally posted by Titus
I totaly 100% understand you Krassus. Lots of work, hardness and lots of denials to someday reach that great DJ status, where there is no fear of girls, we date and sleep with any we want, without any trouble, and if we are rejected, that is no problem, because we can always move on, without looking back. And we are good souls, so we try to englihten those around us, with the same DJ philospohy, but the bastards spit in our faces, when we try to help them.
I understand you, Krassus. I have been in the exactc spot myself, right there where you are standing now, not such a long time ago..
And today, i totaly disagree with all of it.

So what exactly do you disagree with and why?

 

[Titus]

With the whole "DJ" philosophy of being more then someone, seeing others as chumps, and most of all, self improvment. That is the biggest and most terrible thing a person can do to himself.
It is all in my previous posts, if you are interested.

 

[Krassus]

Originally posted by Titus
With the whole "DJ" philosophy of being more then someone, seeing others as chumps, and most of all, self improvment. That is the biggest and most terrible thing a person can do to himself.
It is all in my previous posts, if you are interested.

I see others for what they are. If a person is lazy, sits on the couch all day, whines about his situation, and yet does nothing to change it, yeah, i'll think of him as a chump. But i do and always will respect those who deserve it. I don't think i'm better than everyone, but i'm certainly better than most. And i don't mean to sound arrogant, but that's just the truth. When i compare myself to those around me on any scale i can think of (physical, financial, intellectual), i see that i'm far ahead of most, if not all of them. If i thought differently, i'd be lying to myself.

 

[XANEUS]

If your AFC friends are messing up your game, do two things.

1. Teach them. You'll be surprised how much you'll learn by doing so.

2. Don't go out with them again until their attitude has changed.

Remember most everyone here was an AFC at some point. Don't hold it against your friends... unless they refuse to change.

 

[Player_Supreme]

You should do him the greatest thing in his life and reffer him to this site. Infact all of your friends should be on here. My best freind comes here...

 

[Ronin I]

I can do you one better than that (on the AFC friends tip).

A few weeks ago I'm out with my "friend" (let's call him Mr. AFC) and I see this girl that I met a few years ago when I first lived in this city. (Let's call her HBoldskool) She's with one of her friends (let's call her HBwantsRonin). So anyway I talk a little bit with HBoldskool (cute but I'm not really interested and she's taken) and she introduces me and Mr. AFC to HBwantsRonin. Me and HBwantsRonin chat it up (she's totally my type - short, cute, doesn't drink that much, seems pretty smart, responsible, etc). We're hitting it off and I'm getting good vibes but I excuse myself and kind of make my way around the bar and talk with some other people that I know there.

A little while later HBoldskool walks up to me and says they're leaving and HBwantsRonin is already outside.
So I'm a little confused cause the girl definitely seemed like she was feeling me and when I left her I told her I'd be back, etc, etc but whatever. Sh!t happens right?

Fast forward two weeks. I'm out (at a different bar) and I run into HBoldskool. She comes up to me and says "Ronin, why didn't you tell me you got married?!" I'm like what the hell are you talking about. She's says "When I saw you a couple of weeks ago, my friend thought you were really cute but your friend (Mr. AFC) told HBwantsRonin that you were married".

Can you believe that sh!t! I have never heard or seen a c0ckblock that bad in my life.

This is the kind of sh!t we have to put up with as our jealous AFC "friends" can't deal with the fact that we are molding ourselves into DJs while they continue to wallow in chumpville.

 

[iqqi]

A great man once said that the only time you should ever look down on another is to help him up.


but it is true, sometimes you can't do sh*t with your friends, man. jealousy and insecurity are poisons. sometimes friends aren't your friends. how can another give you props for doing you when they are too insecure to do them?

 

[Krassus]

Originally posted by XANEUS
If your AFC friends are messing up your game, do two things.

1. Teach them. You'll be surprised how much you'll learn by doing so.

2. Don't go out with them again until their attitude has changed.

Remember most everyone here was an AFC at some point. Don't hold it against your friends... unless they refuse to change.

Instead of listening to me, they usually get angry and start saying some obnoxious insecure trash such as "who are you to teach me about these things, i know better than you!" Man, there's nothing i can do when someone's got an attitude like that.

 

[Krassus]

Originally posted by Ronin I
I can do you one better than that (on the AFC friends tip).

A few weeks ago I'm out with my "friend" (let's call him Mr. AFC) and I see this girl that I met a few years ago when I first lived in this city. (Let's call her HBoldskool) She's with one of her friends (let's call her HBwantsRonin). So anyway I talk a little bit with HBoldskool (cute but I'm not really interested and she's taken) and she introduces me and Mr. AFC to HBwantsRonin. Me and HBwantsRonin chat it up (she's totally my type - short, cute, doesn't drink that much, seems pretty smart, responsible, etc). We're hitting it off and I'm getting good vibes but I excuse myself and kind of make my way around the bar and talk with some other people that I know there.

A little while later HBoldskool walks up to me and says they're leaving and HBwantsRonin is already outside.
So I'm a little confused cause the girl definitely seemed like she was feeling me and when I left her I told her I'd be back, etc, etc but whatever. Sh!t happens right?

Fast forward two weeks. I'm out (at a different bar) and I run into HBoldskool. She comes up to me and says "Ronin, why didn't you tell me you got married?!" I'm like what the hell are you talking about. She's says "When I saw you a couple of weeks ago, my friend thought you were really cute but your friend (Mr. AFC) told HBwantsRonin that you were married".

Can you believe that sh!t! I have never heard or seen a c0ckblock that bad in my life.

This is the kind of sh!t we have to put up with as our jealous AFC "friends" can't deal with the fact that we are molding ourselves into DJs while they continue to wallow in chumpville.

OMFG!! And i thought some of the people *i* knew were snakes.

 

[XANEUS]

Originally posted by Krassus
Instead of listening to me, they usually get angry and start saying some obnoxious insecure trash such as "who are you to teach me about these things, i know better than you!" Man, there's nothing i can do when someone's got an attitude like that.

This is tough. I'm at the point now where I can say, point out some girls and I'll show you I've got game... but that's a lot of pressure if your game isn't REALLY tight. If you're not at this point, then you've done all you can and you need to wait for your friend to come 'round. Eventually if you keep getting better, they'll realize what you have to offer.

 

[MoAF]

Think thats bad?

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[MoAF]

I work in a girls clothing store... I sell very 'provocitive' cloths. I was talking with a girl HB1 and her friend HB2, I had my hand lightly massaging HB1's inner thigh as we sat on a bench in the middle of the mall. We began chatting about letting go of inhibitions, being adventurous ect... and I was telling a story about a co-worker of mine going nuts [very funny story, btw]. And HB1 had put her hand over mine, leading me higher on her thigh as we chatted. My buddy Mike walks up after just getting an expresso [he is super hyper] and ketches the tail end of the story and goes on a huge monolog about the "slutty hores who'll do anything for ****, what a bunch of trashy scum" that shop in my work. It killed the mood, and HB1 got completly self concius and removed my hand from her thigh. Her friend, who was jealous the whole time just chimmed in with what mike was saying, "Oh I cant stand those skanky girls who'll jump in the sack with a guy after just meeting them." So after a double-team ****block HB1 stands up and closes off her body language, puts her cardigan back on, and excuses herself

OH, its not over! Not 30 minutes later we see a girl from school [very sexy, ass like you wouldn't believe!] HB3. We are talking, and she asks mike if he moved yet, and we chat about people looking @ his house to buy. I begin telling a story about me having sex in his driveway... which is a really entertaining story that invokes jealousy/envy without question in every woman I've told it to. Mike CUTS ME OFF and talks about CHURCH [how he got on the subject I do not know].

We got outside the mall and I ***** slapped him gave him a swift kick in the ass. He doesn't mean to **** me over with women, he's just not to bright.

Also, my mom is terrible. Back when I was 15 [last yr], I looked about 18. Hollister company just moved into my local mall, and I was chatting their new employees [all 18+]. Sitting on the couch with one on my lap my mother waltzes in. Now, she is 6ft tall, has an afro and is 220 lbs, not the woman to F with. She walks straight into the middle of the 'rest area' we are all chilling in and says:

"Now ladies, I know my son is devilishly handsom and charming, but he's 15"

WTF IS THAT?! They all got discusted looks and said they had to get back to work... gODDAMN IT!

The worst ****block ever:

My friend is a year younger than I, and his sister is 4 years older. She is one of the sexiest women I've ever met. She has a millionair boyfriend from long island, and has dated most of the renound/semifamous guys in buffalo. There has always been a little bit of playful antics between us. It would be a dream come true to get with this girl [for just about any man].

I was planning on going to a movie with my friend REG. I walk and and see K... she had not seen me in over a year, I'd grown 3 inches since she last saw me, lost 15 lbs of fat and gained 10 of muscle, I looked damn good. The first words out of her mouth? "Ohhh Anthony, your all grown up!" And suddenly she decided to go see the movie with us. The WHOLE night she was making sly comments/displaying positive b/l and ioi's. Walking to our seats in the theatre she stopped to check if her phone was off [complete bs, as she turne dit off 5 min before]... in doing so made sure she would be sitting next to me. As the lights dimmed she said "Anthony, you look good" and I replied "Awww K, thats what all my friend's sister's say <wink>" she didn't even bat an eye, just rolled with the punches and changed the subject. As we exchanged witty banter relating to the movie, PRATES OF THE CARIBIAN [great movie] we would turn to each other, often our faces would get 3 inches or so appeart as we wispered. And each time REG would lean over and tell us to shut up, or say something incredibly elimentary.

Then, as the movie ended K began telling me about how the movie was based on the ride @ Disney World, and I of course began running a make shift 'Discovery Channel Pattern' and she was getting quite excited/stimulated, I could see it in her eyes. We were standing up to leave, she was looking up at me [shes like 2 inches shorter than me, 5'8, how sexy is that?], and I was about to cut her off mid-sentence and kiss her and REG says "THAT RIDE SUCKED BALLS" completly ruined the mood...

WHAT A ****ING LOSER!

I gave him a dirty look, but I don' tthink he realized what he was doing. No worries, as we get in the car Kara and I decide to take REG drinking because he'd never done it before. Now, this girl is WILD when drunk [from the stories I've heard]... so I was about to go and drink with one of the sexiest women I've ever met, and she was really starting to feel me, getting a little sexual tention. We pull up to their house and Kara is going to go grab some $... what does REG say?

"K, what are you doing? You forgot to Drop Anthony off!"

AHHHHHHHHH <PULLING OUT HAIR>. What a ****! So she is driving me home, and I'm entirly dissapointed. I'm getting out of the car and I say "well, its been a blast" and K shifts her weight in her seat, completly focuses her body towards me [b/l, gotta love it] puts her hand on mine and says "yeah, it was great"

SON OF A ****ING *****... I wanna shoot REG just thinking about it. Where is she now? Back @ school... goddamn!