badboyjmm said:
So you gotta be alone or with a friend. Drink no more that 2-3 drinks. Learn how to dance, talk to people and just enjoying the evening. Accept that you will get rejected regardless, and that you have to keep pushing until you get somebody to dance. After that kino, and make out.
This is what I've been doing lately, successful too. I can go solo and drink a few and be better off than most guys in groups who humorously always let me into their conversations. I end up knowing several groups and still hit on more women than they care to admit.
OP, I myself grew up in the "Capitol Region" and came from a non-stop daygaming base. It's easy up there (I don't live there anymore), even on the streets and public transportation systems themselves..and back then I wasn't legally allowed to drink so that had some influence. Old guys would just gawk at me while I'd run game on women who were themselves surprised and receptive of being hit on.
I live in a new city and have switched over to nightgame which is a lot easier than my (still) preferred method of daygame. When I go to bars now, I no longer put much effort in at all. Lately, I've been showing up in work boots, jeans and a hoodie and getting all kinds of numbers from chicks without me asking nor wanting them. Literally most times I'm just standing and drinking w/e minding my own business. I had some chicks addressing me by the college on my hoodie which I never attended and telling me to take their numbers before their friend that 1st gave her # saw (LOL).
A few days ago, I decided to switch venues altogether and go downtown to one of the cover-charging bars. Place was packed as hell, I do admit the music was taking its toll on my hearing but I wanted in anyways. I'm repeatedly taking trips to the mens room after doing intensive cardio and downing a gallon of water, on top of the beers I started drinking. In between all those trips, I swear the place became something out of the Jersey Shore. Groups of guys and girls standing around not making moves but gabbing away, and people starting fights in front of my face. I watch one chick eat 3 sh!tty right crosses to the temple and hit the ground crying b4 going unconscious. Me being a former fighter, I had to chuckle. What's even funnier, she wakes up and randomly gives me her # telling me she's worth me driving to the northside to see her! LMAO.
The bouncers didn't do sh!t either.
I danced with another chick that I wanted to open, piece of cake. I talked to her through the blaring music to raise her IL and get the #. Easy enough. She called me when we were all outside and has been legit ever since. Said she wanted to hangout when I called her later and held a conversation, but I failed to tell her that I'm back in the so-called "Capitol Region" running game and visiting friends for a few.
Detach yourself from the outcomes. Learn to open strangers seamlessly because believe me, that won't come any easier in broad daylight if you appear like a mumbling idiot.
