Didn't I repeatedly say I'm not a religious man?Matthew 5:39-41 says: "But I tell you not to resist an evil person. If someone slaps you on the right cheek, turn to him the other also; if someone wants to sue you and take your tunic, let him have your cloak as well; and if someone forces you to go one mile, go with him two...."
This is perfect advice on how to get walked all over and be a pathetic loser.
These are the bible verses my dad used to rationalize being both literally and metaphorically ball-busted by a BPD woman for years without ever leaving. And he's proud of this. It would be laughable to be proud of following such pathetic advice if it weren't so sad. I'm not advocating violence. I'm advocating for standing up for oneself and not just "taking abuse" which is what the New Testament advocates. Try reading Nietzsche. It might do ya some good.
I see strength from plenty of man, even those that has no religions nor even bothered to read Nietzsche.
These are men that has a backbone.
Now its you bringing up bible verses, BPD, ur dad and Nietzsche in a single post.
You repeatedly mentioned meekness, being walked over, doormat, pathetic and I'm sure you'll post more on it.
The thing is, posting these weaknesses is not going to make it magically negate what's been manifesting within you for a long time.
Why don't you talk about what's troubling you and the forum can pitch in ?