Here;s something that I think will really help in the early stages of the game.
This is something that is inherently AFC.
And these behaviors, and perspectives, which are BTW totally out of whack, are the "Red Flags" that women have when interacting with the poor AFC.
AFC are in LOVE with "LOVE". They want the excitement of "feeling" in "LOVE". And it's all an illusion. An unhealthy one at that.
They are Romantic, for the SAKE of "BEING" Romantic.
They place women on pedastles because they IDEALIZE Them, and place them above themselves, as if they were Godesses, not flesh and blood sexual creatures.
AFCs, by nature, (falsely, and mislead by their "feelings" of love), don't fall in love with the Woman. They fall in love with "LOVE" They are in LOVE with their "feelings", NOT the woman. The woman is simply a placeholder for the AFC to use for his injection of infatuation.
They don't REALLY "SEE" THE WOMAN.
They only SEE THEMSELVES, and how THEY "FEEL".
They are self centered. They are only concened with how THEY "feel".
They want a woman's validation.
They don't want a hot, sexual, fun, and adult relationship.
They want VALIDATION from a woman. Plain and simple.
They feel unworthy, awkward, and unconfident, and only awake when either a woman shows interest in them, or when they see a woman they are attracted to.
Some people say that AFCs "love like women."
Actually, I'm not positive on that one.
BUT I BELIEVE...
AFCs are in LOVE with feelings of VALIDATION, and the ILLUSION of "LOVE" and ROMANCE.
Some of women's (AFC) Red Flags early in a relationship:
Telling them ALL your feelings.
Telling them how much you "love" them. Even though you've only been together a few times.
Poems.
Flowers.
Candy. (all these things are NOT deserved for someone you just met! She KNOWS this! And she thinks to herself :"How does this guy NOT know this??! Is something wrong with him??Has he ever been with a woman? Why is he doing this? I would NEVER do this! Not with a guy I just met! He must be inexperienced. What a shame. Sorry, dork boy.. NEXT!!"
Corny speech. "I just love how your eyes are beautiful like the ocean! It makes me feel warm and fuzzy inside!"
Acting OVERLY "respectful".
NO Kino. Because , remember, do NOT touch the Godess! She's is not interested in Sex, by God! You are not worthy of her, dog!
Friendship oriented communciation. Meaning, NO sexy talk, or suggestive action, touching, teasing, or normal ADULT , and Maculine man behavior.
Talking about video games, Dungeons and Dragons, and how much you like to talk in the KLingon "language".
All these things, and certainly more, are red flags to women because they demonstrate your lack of experience with women. And especially...Sex.
You obviously demonstrate lack of knowledge of sexuality, and interaction with women.
You come off as being in "love" with her when you just met.
You display signs of being unworthy of her because of being overly complimenting on her, especially on her looks.
Being awkward interacting with her. I remember an episode of some reality dating show, and this poor dork was so NOT used to going out with women that he totally overdid the "Chivalry" thing calling his date "M' Lady" as if they were in the Medieival Era. Running to open doors and things He came across as a totally inexperienced, "finally a date with a real woman! I can't believe this is happening!" unconfident dork. She obviously was not attracted to him, and said that she thought the guy wasn't used to being with women.