I've found that a good way to look at attraction is that you need to be a nice guy but innocent so that you don't seem like you're out to get into a girl's pants. This is difficult because in order to pull this off, you can't look like a total bullsh*tter, which means that you need to first convince yourself that the first priority is to create attraction, and nothing else. In other words, you can't ACT, you have to actually BE.
This seems to work better if you're pretty good looking, but have trouble getting women. You need to just be innocent and almost seem like you don't know that girls are attracted to you physically, then just be totally nice as far as being courteous, considerate, etc. Don't be nice as in getting on your hands and knees and doing whatever a girl tells you to do. Instead make yourself a guy who nobody can hate. Be like a lost puppy who is cute and doesn't know it's cute. This creates an air of irresistibility, since you will not only be physically attractive, but also approachable, since a girl might want to help you see the light, sort of like they want to hold a cute puppy. I'm sure girls hate guys who are too full of themselves just as much as guys hate girls who are total attention wh0res.
You can say a lot to a girl without words, by conveying things through your eyes. You need sincerity in everything you say, not some shifty-eyed player look, or worse, some lame-asS pickup line. The eyes will disarm, and after that, asking for the date is easier. Of course, I would do this in a neutral place, rather than in a club or bar. I don't like going to those places to meet women anyways, because they are all not my type of girl. I personally like to meet girls who I'd consider LTRs with, since those are usually the most quality women.
Anyways, just a thought that has seemed to work for me pretty well as of late. As in my other post below, go visit Abercrombie, and check out the women there. Go buy some clothes if you can too, usually the clothes there can make the man.
This seems to work better if you're pretty good looking, but have trouble getting women. You need to just be innocent and almost seem like you don't know that girls are attracted to you physically, then just be totally nice as far as being courteous, considerate, etc. Don't be nice as in getting on your hands and knees and doing whatever a girl tells you to do. Instead make yourself a guy who nobody can hate. Be like a lost puppy who is cute and doesn't know it's cute. This creates an air of irresistibility, since you will not only be physically attractive, but also approachable, since a girl might want to help you see the light, sort of like they want to hold a cute puppy. I'm sure girls hate guys who are too full of themselves just as much as guys hate girls who are total attention wh0res.
You can say a lot to a girl without words, by conveying things through your eyes. You need sincerity in everything you say, not some shifty-eyed player look, or worse, some lame-asS pickup line. The eyes will disarm, and after that, asking for the date is easier. Of course, I would do this in a neutral place, rather than in a club or bar. I don't like going to those places to meet women anyways, because they are all not my type of girl. I personally like to meet girls who I'd consider LTRs with, since those are usually the most quality women.
Anyways, just a thought that has seemed to work for me pretty well as of late. As in my other post below, go visit Abercrombie, and check out the women there. Go buy some clothes if you can too, usually the clothes there can make the man.
If I was that good looking I wouldn't have needed this site.