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Don Juan
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People talk all the time about how nice guys always get the short end of the stick when it comes to the dating scene.Let's just see if they're right
So here we have a nice guy.Nice guy spots a hot girl.He's spends a few weeks and some change staring at this girl before he finally gets the courage to go and talk to her.After getting to know girl it's definetly affiirmed that they get along.As time goes by nice guy gets to know a little more about nice girl.Including dating history.Much to nice guys suprise,she hasn't been treated very well.He immediatly has it set in his mind and heart that he will one up all those guys of the past.
He goes for the works.He buys her things,compliments her constantly,sits on the phone with her for hours listening to all her problems including date problems.and all while nice guy does this,he's keeping a list in his head of all the points he's scoring with her because of all the nice things he's doing.
But then one night comes up.He's just sitting in his room thinking about her as usual.When she calls.He answers the phone looking foward to hearing her voice.But the words that come out do not please him.She calls to announce to him a guy who asked her out awhile back is now her boyfriend whom shes very happy with.She goes on and on about what she loves about this guy albeit mostly physical stuff.Nice guy couldn't be anymore displeased on the inside.
He's spent all this time,invested all this money,put all this hope into making magic between him and her.In nice guys mind he's been betrayed,used,and ran amuck.At this point all he can feel is anger.Anger toward himself,anger toward the other guy,But mostly anger toward the hot girl.
He now uses his anger to deem all hotgirls stuck up *****es *****s and gold diggers who only use nice guys like him until joe six pack swaggers his way in the picture and steals his love away.Nice..erm not so nice guy now tucks his tail between his legs and limps his way back to the cot he came out of vowing not to ever waste his time in the dating world again.
Now think about that ****.What the hell went wrong.How did nice guy get the short end of the stick.I'll give you a hint,the other guy did it.Give up?The other guy ASKED HER OUT!!The other guy did what nice guy should have done all along.
But what did nice guy do instead?He spent money on her,he kissed her ass,he tried to be her emotional tampon.Basically he tried to manipulate her.Why,because he thought if he did that it would be a rejection free guarantee in which she would just fly into his arms and shower him with the very affection he was trying to fish out of her from the very beginning.He thought of himself as some kind of romantic hero when he was just some coward schmuck who wanted to make it the girls responsibilty to seal the deal and fufill his fantasy
As far as he was concerned he was owed that,after all,he was being a nice guy.Should nice guys be rewarded,yes they should.But there's one problem in this story,like i said above,nice guy is not a nice guy.He's just some sorry sod whose putting his hopes and happiness into an another individual because he himself doesn't feel he has any self worth of his own.
A true nice guy goes out of his way for the people he cares about because he wants the best for them.It makes him happy to see his loved ones happy.It's not because he wants something in return.It's not for the ego boost, it's not so he can have the glory of a hero.And if the nice guy wants or needs something from someone,he would simply walk up and ask because he cares enough about that person to be honest with them.And If he doesn't get what he ask for,he doesn't pout,he doesn't mope,and he doesn't become angry with the other person in public or in private because he never expected anything nor does he feel that person has any obligation to him.And that's why true nice guys aren't pathetic slugs who don't have anything going for them.Their men who go and get what they want and shoot for their happiness without need from anyone else let alone women.
The result..Nice guys don't finish last.Pathetic,self centered,delusional,manipulating,hyocritical,weak minded men who don't keep it real finish last
So here we have a nice guy.Nice guy spots a hot girl.He's spends a few weeks and some change staring at this girl before he finally gets the courage to go and talk to her.After getting to know girl it's definetly affiirmed that they get along.As time goes by nice guy gets to know a little more about nice girl.Including dating history.Much to nice guys suprise,she hasn't been treated very well.He immediatly has it set in his mind and heart that he will one up all those guys of the past.
He goes for the works.He buys her things,compliments her constantly,sits on the phone with her for hours listening to all her problems including date problems.and all while nice guy does this,he's keeping a list in his head of all the points he's scoring with her because of all the nice things he's doing.
But then one night comes up.He's just sitting in his room thinking about her as usual.When she calls.He answers the phone looking foward to hearing her voice.But the words that come out do not please him.She calls to announce to him a guy who asked her out awhile back is now her boyfriend whom shes very happy with.She goes on and on about what she loves about this guy albeit mostly physical stuff.Nice guy couldn't be anymore displeased on the inside.
He's spent all this time,invested all this money,put all this hope into making magic between him and her.In nice guys mind he's been betrayed,used,and ran amuck.At this point all he can feel is anger.Anger toward himself,anger toward the other guy,But mostly anger toward the hot girl.
He now uses his anger to deem all hotgirls stuck up *****es *****s and gold diggers who only use nice guys like him until joe six pack swaggers his way in the picture and steals his love away.Nice..erm not so nice guy now tucks his tail between his legs and limps his way back to the cot he came out of vowing not to ever waste his time in the dating world again.
Now think about that ****.What the hell went wrong.How did nice guy get the short end of the stick.I'll give you a hint,the other guy did it.Give up?The other guy ASKED HER OUT!!The other guy did what nice guy should have done all along.
But what did nice guy do instead?He spent money on her,he kissed her ass,he tried to be her emotional tampon.Basically he tried to manipulate her.Why,because he thought if he did that it would be a rejection free guarantee in which she would just fly into his arms and shower him with the very affection he was trying to fish out of her from the very beginning.He thought of himself as some kind of romantic hero when he was just some coward schmuck who wanted to make it the girls responsibilty to seal the deal and fufill his fantasy
As far as he was concerned he was owed that,after all,he was being a nice guy.Should nice guys be rewarded,yes they should.But there's one problem in this story,like i said above,nice guy is not a nice guy.He's just some sorry sod whose putting his hopes and happiness into an another individual because he himself doesn't feel he has any self worth of his own.
A true nice guy goes out of his way for the people he cares about because he wants the best for them.It makes him happy to see his loved ones happy.It's not because he wants something in return.It's not for the ego boost, it's not so he can have the glory of a hero.And if the nice guy wants or needs something from someone,he would simply walk up and ask because he cares enough about that person to be honest with them.And If he doesn't get what he ask for,he doesn't pout,he doesn't mope,and he doesn't become angry with the other person in public or in private because he never expected anything nor does he feel that person has any obligation to him.And that's why true nice guys aren't pathetic slugs who don't have anything going for them.Their men who go and get what they want and shoot for their happiness without need from anyone else let alone women.
The result..Nice guys don't finish last.Pathetic,self centered,delusional,manipulating,hyocritical,weak minded men who don't keep it real finish last