NICE GUYS START LAST BUT THEY FINISH FIRST
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As I grow older day-by-day I am realizing more and more my sense of worth in today’s society. Judging from the posts in this forum I can say that over 90% of the people who “roam” in its electronic depths pretty much fit into the same profile along with me. We are educated, mentally mature, have secure employment, have good personalities but all of us have one “major flaw” in common. We are “too good” for most immature chicks out there. Which means over 90% of all women bellow 30 years of age. It’s almost like looking for a pin in the haystack. We are more concerned in improving ourselves financially and mentally today and getting prepared for tomorrow rather than having a good time today and when we were younger.
BE WHO YOU REALLY ARE
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Most of us come in this forum in order to learn from our mistakes and figure out a cure for the “common curse” which is our inability to make women like us for WHAT WE ARE and NOT of what they want us to be. I am really displeased when I see postings “demonstrating” how to pretend to be someone we are not. I guess this won’t work unless you are a pretty good liar about yourself. Which means most of “Good Guys” are like most of us are not likely to succeed. If I have to give an advice is: See what you have accomplished so far and once in a while give pat to your back. Also try to “see the light” on your own and not by reading lifeless letters in a Seduction Forum.
THE NICE GUYS LIFE (From a personal perspective)
PAST (18-24)
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In my late teens during the first years of college, where most people where telling you “have a good time during the day” and “party during then night”, I was always more concentrated towards completing my degree in time and with good grades rather that goof around and take advantage of our “newly discovered” independence that our parents had given us, like most of the kids of our age. I can’t even remember how many times I was waiting for the bus to come in temperatures bellow freezing and I was watching across the street the “freshmen” kids rolling out of the campus parking lot in the heat and comfort of their brand new Jeeps and Mustangs and with their girlfriends on their side. I remember the voice inside that was telling me: “One day……One day everybody will see what you are really worth and what you are destined to become”.
PRESENT (25-35)
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The years passed and I hadn’t really noticed a lot of difference in my life…until at about my 26 years of age I started realizing that slowly I had started “changing” from a “young kid” to a “young man”.Or from an ugly duckling to a swan. Then I realized that “right type of women” had starting being attracted to me. And not the opposite as it always had been. My “mental” turning point in life occurred about 3 months ago when my younger sister got married to a nice guy I have been friends with. I “finally” understood that life is too short and I needed to start taking matters on my own hands. At this point in life I looked myself from a neutral perspective and I realized that I had accomplished more things in life than somebody 6-7 years my senior. Then I looked into the lives of all those “Jerks” who were always getting most of the women and it seems that most of them are still trying to get things from life as they had learn from their youth. Get more out by giving out less. Some of them had moved into the “Construction contracting Business” and they are trying to make a months pay by working a week per month. But still, they always are the ones to drive the new cars and who go for 3 weeks vacation in the Bahamas every year. Still they think that as long as they have that paycheck coming they can get along with their lives.
The Future (36-55)
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Only god can really tell the Future. But there are some things in life that can be predicted with great accuracy. If you think that all your efforts in life were in vain you are wrong. This is when the payout time comes. When you get married and have kids you DJ days are OVER. There will be more important things in life that trying to satisfy your primitive instinct of mating when you were younger. Also at this point in life you need to take a “real” look into the lives of others. It is during this life period when the Jerks will get their share of the pie. You will realize that most of them will be into problematic marriages, some of them might be divorced; some of them will be on heavy debt because of all those years of “good-life”. It’s really amazing how much toll stress will have taken into these people. Some of them will remind you nothing of their former “glory”.
The Far Future (56-XXX)
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Live long and prosper. This portion of our lives is out of the context of this Forum.
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Nice Guys start out as grapes and it's a woman's job to stomp on them and keep them in the dark until they mature into something that you'd want to have dinner with.
Jerks “taste” like fine wine. They all start out fresh,
fruity and intoxicating to the women. Then they turn
full-bodied with age until they go sour and vinegary
and give you a headache.
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As I grow older day-by-day I am realizing more and more my sense of worth in today’s society. Judging from the posts in this forum I can say that over 90% of the people who “roam” in its electronic depths pretty much fit into the same profile along with me. We are educated, mentally mature, have secure employment, have good personalities but all of us have one “major flaw” in common. We are “too good” for most immature chicks out there. Which means over 90% of all women bellow 30 years of age. It’s almost like looking for a pin in the haystack. We are more concerned in improving ourselves financially and mentally today and getting prepared for tomorrow rather than having a good time today and when we were younger.
BE WHO YOU REALLY ARE
==================
Most of us come in this forum in order to learn from our mistakes and figure out a cure for the “common curse” which is our inability to make women like us for WHAT WE ARE and NOT of what they want us to be. I am really displeased when I see postings “demonstrating” how to pretend to be someone we are not. I guess this won’t work unless you are a pretty good liar about yourself. Which means most of “Good Guys” are like most of us are not likely to succeed. If I have to give an advice is: See what you have accomplished so far and once in a while give pat to your back. Also try to “see the light” on your own and not by reading lifeless letters in a Seduction Forum.
THE NICE GUYS LIFE (From a personal perspective)
PAST (18-24)
====
In my late teens during the first years of college, where most people where telling you “have a good time during the day” and “party during then night”, I was always more concentrated towards completing my degree in time and with good grades rather that goof around and take advantage of our “newly discovered” independence that our parents had given us, like most of the kids of our age. I can’t even remember how many times I was waiting for the bus to come in temperatures bellow freezing and I was watching across the street the “freshmen” kids rolling out of the campus parking lot in the heat and comfort of their brand new Jeeps and Mustangs and with their girlfriends on their side. I remember the voice inside that was telling me: “One day……One day everybody will see what you are really worth and what you are destined to become”.
PRESENT (25-35)
======
The years passed and I hadn’t really noticed a lot of difference in my life…until at about my 26 years of age I started realizing that slowly I had started “changing” from a “young kid” to a “young man”.Or from an ugly duckling to a swan. Then I realized that “right type of women” had starting being attracted to me. And not the opposite as it always had been. My “mental” turning point in life occurred about 3 months ago when my younger sister got married to a nice guy I have been friends with. I “finally” understood that life is too short and I needed to start taking matters on my own hands. At this point in life I looked myself from a neutral perspective and I realized that I had accomplished more things in life than somebody 6-7 years my senior. Then I looked into the lives of all those “Jerks” who were always getting most of the women and it seems that most of them are still trying to get things from life as they had learn from their youth. Get more out by giving out less. Some of them had moved into the “Construction contracting Business” and they are trying to make a months pay by working a week per month. But still, they always are the ones to drive the new cars and who go for 3 weeks vacation in the Bahamas every year. Still they think that as long as they have that paycheck coming they can get along with their lives.
The Future (36-55)
=======
Only god can really tell the Future. But there are some things in life that can be predicted with great accuracy. If you think that all your efforts in life were in vain you are wrong. This is when the payout time comes. When you get married and have kids you DJ days are OVER. There will be more important things in life that trying to satisfy your primitive instinct of mating when you were younger. Also at this point in life you need to take a “real” look into the lives of others. It is during this life period when the Jerks will get their share of the pie. You will realize that most of them will be into problematic marriages, some of them might be divorced; some of them will be on heavy debt because of all those years of “good-life”. It’s really amazing how much toll stress will have taken into these people. Some of them will remind you nothing of their former “glory”.
The Far Future (56-XXX)
==========
Live long and prosper. This portion of our lives is out of the context of this Forum.
==============================================
Nice Guys start out as grapes and it's a woman's job to stomp on them and keep them in the dark until they mature into something that you'd want to have dinner with.
Jerks “taste” like fine wine. They all start out fresh,
fruity and intoxicating to the women. Then they turn
full-bodied with age until they go sour and vinegary
and give you a headache.
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. You should never lose sight of the REAL prize, but that doesn't mean you have to dash in a perfeclty straight line towards it. Take a leasurely walk, glance at something else..... in short..... enjoy what life has to offer.