Nice Guys and MTV's Wanna Come in

[unistork]

Yeah I've been watching a lot of this lately... how the guys are supposed to be studs guiding AFCs to get these hot babes. Anyway I noticed on A LOT of the women's audition video they say things like "I am looking for a really nice guy..." - "I am looking for a down to earth nice guy" "I don't want a ****y, arrogant guy who thinks he is better then everyone.."... I thought women don't want nice guys? Confused.

 

[Craig Reeves]

Think about it....

They're on national television and are trying to get a date. Do you really think that they're going to admit that they are attracted to Bad Boys?

Women SAY all kinds of things, but we all know that none of what they are saying is true.

I've seen this show, and quite frankily most of the "studs" on that show are even bigger AFC's than the "duds" are.

 

[AverageFC]

this show is a joke.

It would be a good idea if they didnt have the 'challenges' during the goddamn date, because thats what makes it or breaks it. I know if I was on a date with a girl and she started doing ****ed up **** I'd think she was crazy.

 

[Interpol]

Originally posted by AverageFC
this show is a joke.

It would be a good idea if they didnt have the 'challenges' during the goddamn date, because thats what makes it or breaks it. I know if I was on a date with a girl and she started doing ****ed up **** I'd think she was crazy.

Some of the challenges are a little ridiculous, but most of them are pretty easy to get out of if you're creative. You just have to re-frame them in the context of telling a story or joke. Unfortunately, the "studs" on the show rarely figure this out and usually just yell at the guy to do it as quickly as possible. Entertaining show though, gives you some great examples of how NOT to act...

Anyways, back to the original topic. Girls are rarely upfront about what they want in any situation. That's why "Lets just be friends" means "I'm not attracted to you" and "I don't give out my number" means "I don't give my number to guys I don't like", etc...

 

[KOSR]

You can learn a lot from watching those dating shows.

The guys that make the moves, especially kino, usually end up with the girl. The conversation barely matters. The guys not making eye contact usually get blown off quite quickly.

Verbalizing sexual game is not a good idea, some are downright loosers, no rapport and ask for kisses.

Women always/usually respond to romantic awnsers from guys with "wow great awnser" or "very romantic, sweet," but they never end up with the date, so their words mean nothing, their actions everything. They want fun and kino.

So in a nutshell; relaxed&playfull conversation / eye contact / kino, generally makes for succes.

 

[ego]

Anyway I noticed on A LOT of the women's audition video they say things like "I am looking for a really nice guy..." - "I am looking for a down to earth nice guy" "I don't want a ****y, arrogant guy who thinks he is better then everyone.."... I thought women don't want nice guys?

I've noticed the same thing, Yeah. Ask a couple of girls to describe their dream-guy to you, and they'll begin with their "down to earth"-"all understanding"-b u l l s h i t.

Craig Reeves definitely gets the idea. They're on national television, seen by the whole world, and of course they stay as neutral as possible.

Remember to always Judge by actions. Not by words.

 

[Dillinger]

A real mack adapts to the girl...that's how your able to hook up with any and every girl.

But your a newbie so don't sweat what you see on t.v

 

[Fatality]

Originally posted by Craig Reeves


I've seen this show, and quite frankily most of the "studs" on that show are even bigger AFC's than the "duds" are.

yep

one of the "studs" was a complete chump on Blind Date

 

[Oxide]

I always looked at that show and thought "What kind of a girl will say "wanna come in" after one date?"

The way i think this works is the girl is told "If you like the guy, say "Wanna come in" if not, dont say it."


Ok, first of all, studs on that show all have their styles. Some are really good, like the black guy with a "i got it for cheap" tshirt. Some studs are on a different mindset, they like to bring flowers and compliment the girl.. whatvever worked for them.

The chumps on the show.. we cant expect them to mack the girl just becuase he got some guy yelling at him on the mic. THey are the same shy people, so they might not think on their feet like the macks.

I love the challanges. Becuase i think of a way i would pull it off, and most of the time i come up with a good idea. Only challange that threw me off was "finger brush your teeth for 30 seconds" If anyone got any good ideas post em.

 

[Interpol]

Originally posted by Oxide

I love the challanges. Becuase i think of a way i would pull it off, and most of the time i come up with a good idea. Only challange that threw me off was "finger brush your teeth for 30 seconds" If anyone got any good ideas post em.

I think the stud who said "ask her a question that will take a long time to answer and then do it" had the right idea. At worst it comes off as a nervous mannerism but it shouldn't make or break the date.

 

[check_mate_kid_uk]

Originally posted by Interpol
I think the stud who said "ask her a question that will take a long time to answer and then do it" had the right idea. At worst it comes off as a nervous mannerism but it shouldn't make or break the date.

how about excuse me i need to go to the restroom...and go do it there

or does it have to be in her presence?

how about you eat and then say, well got to brush my teeth and then do it, and of course make a joke of it!

 

[AFK Protector]

Dude go read the goddam bible instead of watching that show. Only people like me can watch that show and only because some of the chicks are decent and for laughs of course.

You haven't seen this new episode where the guy fvcks up the date, but he slips the chick $100 or something and she lets him in LMAO

 

[Interpol]

Originally posted by check_mate_kid_uk
how about excuse me i need to go to the restroom...and go do it there

or does it have to be in her presence?

how about you eat and then say, well got to brush my teeth and then do it, and of course make a joke of it!

You have to do it sitting at the table, and you have to do it within a certain timeframe, so waiting until the date is over doesn't work.

 

[Derek Flint]

Originally posted by unistork
Yeah I've been watching a lot of this lately... how the guys are supposed to be studs guiding AFCs to get these hot babes. Anyway I noticed on A LOT of the women's audition video they say things like "I am looking for a really nice guy..." - "I am looking for a down to earth nice guy" "I don't want a ****y, arrogant guy who thinks he is better then everyone.."... I thought women don't want nice guys? Confused.

Ignore what women say they want and instead pay attention to their actions and what they actually respond to.

 

[AverageFC]

Yeah I've been watching a lot of this lately... how the guys are supposed to be studs guiding AFCs to get these hot babes. Anyway I noticed on A LOT of the women's audition video they say things like "I am looking for a really nice guy..." - "I am looking for a down to earth nice guy" "I don't want a ****y, arrogant guy who thinks he is better then everyone.."... I thought women don't want nice guys? Confused.

I agree with the previous poster too. Women don't know what they want. You have to throw logic out the window.

 

[Lost]

haha this show is kinda fun to watch. and craig was right about them being on tv. altho sometimes they do say the truth believe it or not. just not that often. but even on an mtv show. take the real world. the last one with a blonde chick from south carolina i believe called cameron. at the beginning she was describing a guy i think his name was brad? anyways, she was sayin how his whole attitude is what she said shed never want in a guy, but for some reason shes attracted to it.

but the show to avoid at all costs is ROOM RAIDERS. its a good way to become self concious :/. theyre so full of **** on that show.

 

[KillingTime]

oh god Cameran... that girl was so damn hot and had a decent personality to add to the deal.

Anyways, a lot of the "Studs" on Wanna Come In give some really AFC advice, jtlyk.

And what I don't understand is how they get away with it? Were all these episodes filmed a long time ago or what?
I mean the show has been around for a few months now, people know about it...
If a dude shows up to pick-up a girl in a limo, and there are MTV cameras all around them.... wouldn't she get a clue that she's on Wanna Come In???

 

[Fatality]

Originally posted by Lost
the last one with a blonde chick from south carolina i believe called cameron. at the beginning she was describing a guy i think his name was brad? anyways, she was sayin how his whole attitude is what she said shed never want in a guy, but for some reason shes attracted to it.

Maybe she really liked his looks and was able to look passed his personality flaws.

 

[Lost]

Originally posted by KillingTime


And what I don't understand is how they get away with it? Were all these episodes filmed a long time ago or what?
I mean the show has been around for a few months now, people know about it...
If a dude shows up to pick-up a girl in a limo, and there are MTV cameras all around them.... wouldn't she get a clue that she's on Wanna Come In???

She does know hes on. They always explain at the end why they let the guy in or didnt. The only thing she may not know is about the stud... but i kinda doubt that; like u said, its obvious

 

[Interpol]

Originally posted by Lost
She does know hes on. They always explain at the end why they let the guy in or didnt. The only thing she may not know is about the stud... but i kinda doubt that; like u said, its obvious

It seems like the girls have been really lenient about letting the guys in lately...Saying stuff like "He was nice, so I invited him in" or "He was trying hard to be funny, so I let him in". I think they should tell the girls to up their standards.