First off, to all you newbies out there I just want to say that the stuff you read here and the articles on sosuave.com really work. Six months ago I was a very typical nice guy loser. I have never had a girlfriend in my entire life, and the last time a girl liked me was probably in elementary school. Throughout high school I had a lot of beautiful girl "friends" but none were remotely interested in me romantically. You guys probably remember me as the guy who got rejected and used by two girls when I asked them to my senior prom. That was several months ago, and I am much wiser that I was then. Most nice guys turned jerks speak of the time when their heart was smashed on by some girl and how that turned their lives around. Well for me that prom incident was it for me. Ever since then I have been reading this board everyday, and I have almost memorized the articles on sosuave.com. What a wonder they have done for me! My outlook on life and women have completely changed. I am now in college(where no one from my high school goes) and I am loving it. Having all this knowledge about how women think and behave has boosted my confidence tremendously. I know I am something special, and I speak confidently to any woman I so desire. Beautiful girls know longer intimidate me or cause me to get nervous. When I see a girl in class or where ever that I like, I sit down next to her and strike up a conversation without any hesitation. It's like I know they are going to like me no matter what. It's a great feeling!!
Anyway, here is what has been going on during my first two weeks in college. Like I said before, I talk to many women everyday and the vast majority have responded nicely. However, I am not interested in most of them romantically. You see, I want to hook up with girls that share my same faith and beliefs. So, I joined a group here on campus that represents my religion. My first day in this group was fantastic. I met a ton of people, and for the first time in my life I was not nervous about talking to so many strangers. Anyway, before the meeting started I looked around and saw that a seat was available next to a good looking blonde chick. I take the seat and immediately strike up a conversation with her and her two friends. Now this girl was ok(5'10, blonde, 130 pounds or so, nice body). She look better from the back as her face was not as attractive as I hoped it would be. So when the meeting was over I said good bye and went to meet new people. It was then that I saw a girl( a 6 or a 7) sitting by herself on a wall outside. I started to talk her and I found out she was an art major. Of course when I heard that I immediately knew what to talk to her about. I asked her how painting and drawing made her feel and what she hoped to do with her art in the future. We talked like this for 10 minutes or so before a couple of guys came and invited us to got out to eat with them. She couldn't go but I did. At the next meeting I saw this same girl sitting alone so I sat next to her. She smiled at me allot and touched her hair and all those classic signs. Now, while we were talking I happened to look back and behind us was that blonde chick from a week ago looking straight at me. Hmm, great I thought, social proof. At the end of the meeting I told the girl I had to go(which I really didn't) and that I wanted to talk more about her art and also that I wanted to see it sometime. She then wrote her # on my hand and we parted ways.(BTW..the blonde chick probably saw all of this). The very next day we all have a social type thing and as I'm going around talking to all the people I've met I see that blonde girl staring at me and giving me all the signals a woman could possibly give! Just for the record I don't like this girl at all. Allot of guys probably would, but her face is just a turn off for me for some reason. It's a weird shape. Back to the story, my strategy for that night was to ignore both girls and to concentrate on meeting new people(especially new girls). In case you are wondering, there are about 200 people in this group so it is very large and over 1/3 are freshman girls! Well, as I am talking to various people that artist girl comes up to me and bumps herself into me and says hi. I talk to her for about a minute before I excuse myself and go talk to a friend of mine. As the meeting begins I see a gorgeous girl I met the other night(her name is Paula, she is about 5'8, shoulder length blonde hair, great body!, and a very nice personality. We clicked pretty well.) and I sit next to her. We talk for a short while and I manage to get her laughing. After the meeting I then say good bye and leave. As I leave to join some of my friends I see the two other girls I have discussed watching me. They must have seen me with Paula. I love social proof and what it does for a guy’s image!!
) Well, that is pretty much it for now. I'm really not after the first two girls I talked about but I am really excited about them anyways as they are the first girls to show sincere interest in me in a long time. Right now I have three girls that I am after. One is Paula, the next is another gorgeous girl(a definite 9) and another girl that is about an 8 or a 9. The definite 9 I have talked to the most and she is going to be a tough one to crack. She might be acting this way because she has a boyfriend somewhere else or she just might be this way because she knows she is hot. Either way I know I can get one of these girls. I plan on showering them with attention at moments and then completely ignoring them other times and making sure that they see me hitting it off with other girls. I figure this worked with the first two girls so it should work with them. Wish me luck, I will keep you guys updated.
BTW..any words of wisdom for me would be greatly appreciated.
Anyway, here is what has been going on during my first two weeks in college. Like I said before, I talk to many women everyday and the vast majority have responded nicely. However, I am not interested in most of them romantically. You see, I want to hook up with girls that share my same faith and beliefs. So, I joined a group here on campus that represents my religion. My first day in this group was fantastic. I met a ton of people, and for the first time in my life I was not nervous about talking to so many strangers. Anyway, before the meeting started I looked around and saw that a seat was available next to a good looking blonde chick. I take the seat and immediately strike up a conversation with her and her two friends. Now this girl was ok(5'10, blonde, 130 pounds or so, nice body). She look better from the back as her face was not as attractive as I hoped it would be. So when the meeting was over I said good bye and went to meet new people. It was then that I saw a girl( a 6 or a 7) sitting by herself on a wall outside. I started to talk her and I found out she was an art major. Of course when I heard that I immediately knew what to talk to her about. I asked her how painting and drawing made her feel and what she hoped to do with her art in the future. We talked like this for 10 minutes or so before a couple of guys came and invited us to got out to eat with them. She couldn't go but I did. At the next meeting I saw this same girl sitting alone so I sat next to her. She smiled at me allot and touched her hair and all those classic signs. Now, while we were talking I happened to look back and behind us was that blonde chick from a week ago looking straight at me. Hmm, great I thought, social proof. At the end of the meeting I told the girl I had to go(which I really didn't) and that I wanted to talk more about her art and also that I wanted to see it sometime. She then wrote her # on my hand and we parted ways.(BTW..the blonde chick probably saw all of this). The very next day we all have a social type thing and as I'm going around talking to all the people I've met I see that blonde girl staring at me and giving me all the signals a woman could possibly give! Just for the record I don't like this girl at all. Allot of guys probably would, but her face is just a turn off for me for some reason. It's a weird shape. Back to the story, my strategy for that night was to ignore both girls and to concentrate on meeting new people(especially new girls). In case you are wondering, there are about 200 people in this group so it is very large and over 1/3 are freshman girls! Well, as I am talking to various people that artist girl comes up to me and bumps herself into me and says hi. I talk to her for about a minute before I excuse myself and go talk to a friend of mine. As the meeting begins I see a gorgeous girl I met the other night(her name is Paula, she is about 5'8, shoulder length blonde hair, great body!, and a very nice personality. We clicked pretty well.) and I sit next to her. We talk for a short while and I manage to get her laughing. After the meeting I then say good bye and leave. As I leave to join some of my friends I see the two other girls I have discussed watching me. They must have seen me with Paula. I love social proof and what it does for a guy’s image!!
BTW..any words of wisdom for me would be greatly appreciated.
