next or second chance

[FunkyMillion]

hey guys,

i called this girl up enviting her to a dinner but she said that she was busy with friends and family stuff on the specific day that I envited her.

but i'm not sure if I should just next this girl or give her a second chance and call her again in two weeks.

any advice into how I should approach this and what should I say when I call her, etc....

-Funk

 

[JimmyZ]

What I would do it this:

1. Wait three days... Call her in the middle of the day.

2. Ring three times, if she doesn't pick up, its game over.

3. If she picks up, flff her for 35 seconds, dont mention anything about the day that she could not make it... and close for a day or two later...

4. If she says yes, say k, see you then and hang up... don't stick around...

If she says no or can't say "allright, well I'll see you around." If there was any potential there, this will get her to call you back...

 

[Apollo_Jordan]

ya you can call her in a couple of weeks or whatever...did she offer to kick it another time? If she's busy again it means shes a BIITCH and you should use your time to bag some other girl

 

[FunkyMillion]

What I would do it this:

1. Wait three days... Call her in the middle of the day.

2. Ring three times, if she doesn't pick up, its game over.

3. If she picks up, flff her for 35 seconds, dont mention anything about the day that she could not make it... and close for a day or two later...

4. If she says yes, say k, see you then and hang up... don't stick around...

If she says no or can't say "allright, well I'll see you around." If there was any potential there, this will get her to call you back...

thanks, I was just thinking of doing this but instead of three days I'm thinking of two weeks cuz I'm busy as well; there are some things that I need to get done.

ya you can call her in a couple of weeks or whatever...did she offer to kick it another time? If she's busy again it means shes a BIITCH and you should use your time to bag some other girl

ya, she mentioned something about calling her back some other times because the day that I set up a date was not good for her because of family and friends stuff. I'm thinking that this might be an excuse and, hence, a low IL? what do you think?

 

[Monkey]

Originally posted by FunkyMillion
ya, she mentioned something about calling her back some other times because the day that I set up a date was not good for her because of family and friends stuff. I'm thinking that this might be an excuse and, hence, a low IL? what do you think?

No, she probably mean't "call me back some other time because the day that you set up a date on was not good for me"

Guys you need to understand people have lives!! even girls with sky high IL have lives and plans with family and friends. You can't expect them to drop those plans to meet a guy they don't even know.

Stay cool and try in a few days.

Ask her again - and if she still can't make it and doesn't give you a FIRM alternative date THEN you NEXT her.

 

[comote]

Originally posted by Monkey
No, she probably mean't "call me back some other time because the day that you set up a date on was not good for me"

Guys you need to understand people have lives!! even girls with sky high IL have lives and plans with family and friends. You can't expect them to drop those plans to meet a guy they don't even know.

Stay cool and try in a few days.

Ask her again - and if she still can't make it and doesn't give you a FIRM alternative date THEN you NEXT her.

AMEN brotha,

as a side note, this is a busy time of year for alot of people what with the holidays and all

 

[FunkyMillion]

thanks a bunch guys. I appreciate the suggestions..

I'll give another crack at it.

-Funk