Next, or not?

[da_hunter]

If she calls again I probably will not answer. I told myself I will only mess with her if I have nothing else going on and she is inviting me to come over and bone.

If for some reason I find myself on the phone with her, and she asks me why I didn't call I'll just say 'what? I don't remember you calling.'

 

[da_hunter]

Now don't get offended but I'm going to level with you here.

If you were that confident you would have said to her a while ago that her blaze attitude was not acceptable.

Time and time again she did something you didn't like and time and time again you put up with it with out a peep. And now you have had enough you are just going to give up.

You have allowed things to progress to the point where you seem to see yourself as being powerless to do anything except walking away.

You even admit that you still wanna tap that ass.

Doesn't sound confident to me.

I'm not trying to hassel you; really I'm hasselling yself becasue this was the way I used to operate.

You have a good point, something in the way I acted made her think she could treat me this way. That is my fault. But to be honest, I don't think I would ever come right out and say 'hey I don't appreciate you not returning my phone calls in a timely manner'. It comes off way too serious and not casual, exactly what you don't want when you are starting to date someone.
It also gives the girl way too much power when you let her know you let her get to you so much.

What would Johnny Depp do? He wouldn't care, he would just shrug his shoulders and move on. I still think that is the best thing to do. Although you have a point, I have to think about what I did when I was with her to make her think that think that she could treat me this way.

 

[dap]

da_hunter, have you thought about bringing this up in a funny off-hand kind of way like i mentioned?

 

[Vypros]

What would Johnny Depp do? He wouldn't care, he would just shrug his shoulders and move on. I still think that is the best thing to do. Although you have a point, I have to think about what I did when I was with her to make her think that think that she could treat me this way.

First off, forget about Johnny Depp or Robbie Williams or whoever.

Secondly, I can't say you did something wrong other than the fact that you didn't recognize early on when she gave you that excuse that she wasn't interested in you. That was your key mistake. From this point forward, when a woman gives you an excuse as to why she can't be with you, THAT'S when you next her. Keep that in your mind, man, because it'll save you a lot of time.

The simple fact is that a higly interested woman will drag two bobcats across the snowy tundra barefoot just to be with you for 15 minutes. A little rain isn't going to stop her.