Next her?Ganji her? Something else her?

[RiceHapa888]

- I have been dating this girl for awhile( 2months) and we used to go out every friday night except for some thursdays and mondays- we would call each other a couple times a week...last 2 weeks shes been in cali with her parents- she hasnt called me up since 2 saturdays ago- i didnt answer my celly cause it was about 1030pm and i hadnt gone out yet....usually on our dates i dont answer the celly either...anyways i moved too quick on her one of the dates (the last one) and she got offended but we met again the following monday for a quick date and she was happy we had a nice kiss bye....but now theres no phone calls..i called her up thanksgiving and wished her a good one told her about the fun i was having in a non braggin way- including going to a blazers game (got free $71 close to court seats) with a friend which me and her were supposed to go to together..her response was a semi mad "you already went?" she should be back in my hometown today but she hasnt called me wtf.....I was gonna invite her out on a date friday but if she doesnt try to contact me I have decided to not contact her and just ganji it...have any idea wtf is going on- I believe ganji is the correct way to do things but any other ideas??????

 

[AFK Protector]

You're doing good initiating things. But like you said, maybe back of a little. I woudln't suggest ganji since you're both BF/GF. Sry, I didn't pay attention to your age, but I'd say lay back and let her initiate some things. If she keeps being unresponsive, something is up.

 

[BGMan]

Also, don't call her up on Fridays or Thanksgiving unless you're BF/GF.

BGMan

 

[RiceHapa888]

ok i wont......but i still dont understand this sudden change in events- its like poof shes gone and it pisses me off- does anyone else have any idea what is happening and what I should do?

 

[jiro77]

Don't get pissed off...find other things to do with your time. Go out with some buddies, or better yet look for some more chicks. If you are going to do the ganji game make it sure it is your last ditch effort, and don't cave in by trying to contact her. In your case ganji game may work since you've put in some time. (2 months) Remeber, your time is valuable My 2 cents...

-jiro

 

[RiceHapa888]

ya i already started the ganji without thinking about it fo course I am open to other strategies including nexting or just calling her up...

 

[Cloudtopsun2100]

Rice should just call her up---

 

[christz]

Originally posted by RiceHapa888
ok i wont......but i still dont understand this sudden change in events- its like poof shes gone and it pisses me off- does anyone else have any idea what is happening and what I should do?

i'm gonna side with AFK on this one. IF things seem to good to be true, then they usally are.

this chick that strung me along and actually lied about even breaking up with her b/f to me. was really playing her game well. for a solid month and a half we were doing things. going out having fun, bull****ting we even fu*ked a few times. then all the sudden one week it just went POOF

went up in smoke, so quick that it caused me to develop instant oneitis.

it was crazy here was a chick, that was all over me bragging about me, and even showing me off to her friends and now i was gettin NO LOVE.

she started to flake on me, she would come up with reasons to hang up the phone. but she would give me enough affection to keep me strung.

I found out that she never broke up with her b/f they had just been having some "problems" and he didn't speak to her for a month and half, the week her behavior started, he was coming to her house every single night. it was crazy and i got burned.

to THIS DAY she still denies the fact that she is seeing him/comes over even when we ended things. I know she wants me to beg to get her back, get down on my knees but i won't, Because ignoreing her and giving what she wanted, will hurt her ego more than anything i can do verbally.

Only thing i can say about this is, she dates a guy i used to goto highschool with, i knew who he was. we have the same mutuial friends that's how i found out so quickly

This might not be your situation, but just be carefull

on another note, this was pretty recent like a week ago. so i speak from fresh experience