Next a Woman Who Waits Days to Confirm a Date?

[Pandora]

With the other girl I was seeing at the time (age 20, who she was jealous of, hence she threw herself at me), after we had sex the first few times, she might have sent a heart or something after, but I basically had to go NC for a week each time we had sex, and then she reached out. She told me she HATES when guys send anything mushy. You can't let it phase you.

Bro...........this is pure insanity. I will never get used to this. This story shows how far the Western world has fallen. How can you let a man inside of you, into your most precious space and not let yourself emotionally bond with him. She hates when a guys sends anything "mushy"? Da FUQ! Sex is inherently mushy. Thats the point. The point of sex is to procreate and bond long enough to make sure that the child has BOTH parents around ( sex is basically a spiritual experience). I know its not supposed to phase me but it will always phase me. As a sane man we should never be able to get used to this.

One of the few pieces of advice my Dad gave me was " before you have sex with a girl she has the power, but after sex you have the power." The advice was true back when women were not broken. He was dating in the 1970's. But it aint true now. The older guys i would hang out with would tell me that when you had sex with a women it was your responsibility to give her commitment because you would break her heart if you dont. They had no clue how much the world would change.

 

[wifehunter]

She knows you're interested... I would walk, ghost, NC, make myself scarce, etc. I would not put up with it.

Show her the nuclear weapons. It's the only way she'll respect you.

Be about your business.

 

[nismo-4]

Hey bro this same thing has been happening to me lately. 10 years ago a girl making out with you meant something. It meant that she was highly interested. In todays dating climate even sex doesnt mean jack sh*t. Unless you have sex twice or more we cant assume interest. Getting physical doesn't preclude them from dissappearing. I still haven't exactly figured out why. Its the ultimate mindfu*k. But the only thing we can do is write her off and keep gaming other chicks.

Its frustrating when you do everything correctly ( this is evidence by getting her to get very physical with you) and she still acts funny. This is prob becuz she has a ton of options. Now you gotta go out there are generate your options.

Seems like you ain't did that good on her high score list. She got physical but no sex, you didn't do everything correct. You f**ked up somewhere. Hence why she's looking into other perceived better options.

I thought I did everything right on several dates only to find out these women stopped answering their phones or just wanted to be friends. Or even a beta provider. Yep, I blocked these numbers and deleted them from all platforms.

The frustrating part is that you know you f**ked up somewhere, but just don't know how, what, or where you failed. Deleting and blocking only does so much.

 

[sazc]

Bro...........this is pure insanity. I will never get used to this. This story shows how far the Western world has fallen. How can you let a man inside of you, into your most precious space and not let yourself emotionally bond with him. She hates when a guys sends anything "mushy"? Da FUQ! Sex is inherently mushy. Thats the point. The point of sex is to procreate and bond long enough to make sure that the child has BOTH parents around ( sex is basically a spiritual experience). I know its not supposed to phase me but it will always phase me. As a sane man we should never be able to get used to this.

it's simple, she doesnt like/want to be vulnerable with anyone. she refuses to get intimately connected. she has a wall up.

I agree with you

 

[sazc]

Seems like you ain't did that good on her high score list. She got physical but no sex, you didn't do everything correct. You f**ked up somewhere. Hence why she's looking into other perceived better options.

I thought I did everything right on several dates only to find out these women stopped answering their phones or just wanted to be friends. Or even a beta provider. Yep, I blocked these numbers and deleted them from all platforms.

The frustrating part is that you know you f**ked up somewhere, but just don't know how, what, or where you failed. Deleting and blocking only does so much.

you actually might not have fvcked up anywhere. she just might not be attracted/into you. That says nothing about you, or who you are, and you cant take it personally. It just is what it is. not every male/female coupling is going to end up compatible

 

[Pandora]

Seems like you ain't did that good on her high score list. She got physical but no sex, you didn't do everything correct. You f**ked up somewhere. Hence why she's looking into other perceived better options.

I thought I did everything right on several dates only to find out these women stopped answering their phones or just wanted to be friends. Or even a beta provider. Yep, I blocked these numbers and deleted them from all platforms.

The frustrating part is that you know you f**ked up somewhere, but just don't know how, what, or where you failed. Deleting and blocking only does so much.

Nismo i hear ya man. But i am of the firm belief that if a non slut hot girl puts her tongue in your mouth then you are doing things right. If a girl gets physical with you then she is getting turned on. Her body is responding physically to your good qualities. Her physicality is the true barometer of your value. This is why even 10 years ago a girl making out or sleeping with you meant she was committing to you. This is why when you see these girls face to face they cant hide their attraction for you. But texting allows them to create distance. I dont think i did anything wrong. Some girls are very weird. Some have emotional walls. Some have very low self esteems. We forget that. The very act of a woman sleeping with you states that she wants you DNA. So for her to act like your DNA is not valuable ( by ignoring you after getting physical) shows her cognitive dissonance. Many American women are insane.

The problem is that American women can override their true feelings for you. Some can override it because of better options around the corner ( this doesnt mean anything was wrong with you). Others can override it because they have a low self esteem or they dont want to be vulnerable or happy. The point is that you can do things right but because of their internal issues they run away.

This qoute of the popular Closer song says it all. This is the females verse.
"You look as good as the day I met you
I forget just why I left you, I was insane"

 

[backseatjuan]

Girl wants sex on 3rd date, gets on top of you, begs for it. Why are you so fvcking slow? Mom drop you during childhood or something?