Newbie, what next?

[algorhythm]

I'm new at this and have been working on approach for a couple of months and while I can talk to random women now I'm having a problem figuring out what I should do next. There's such a wealth of information out there and question is, after approach, what should I be concentrating on now?

Inner game? Routines? I feel pretty overwhelmed..

 

[runner83]

Depends on whether you are looking to get laid or self improvement?

IMO routines are pathetic and a waste of time and focusing on improving yourself is much better in the long run.

Here's a post I made a while back on this topic:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=180485

Here's a list of critical moments you need to work on (through practice):

1 - Approach
2 - Contact info

3 - Date request
4 - Date

5 - First physical contact
6 - Kiss (First Intimate Contact)

7 - Alone in Private
8 - Make Out

9 - Clothes Off
10 - S*x


Also, look at the bottom left of the page for a link to the "DJ bible" which has some good info and all you need to know to get started.

 

[Altair]

Honestly, the first thing I would advise you to do would be to get the right mindset. You can practice techniques and bull**** all you want but your perspective on LIFE needs to change to make any of that count. You do not want to become some empty shell that only knows routines.

Now, you did say you've been working on talking to women for a while but that's not enough information for us to know where you're at, mentally. So I have no idea if my first paragraph was accurate (Do you put women on pedestals? Are you still trying to 'buy' their love? Are you letting them get away with screwing with you? etc) Anyway, go read "The Book of Pook", it can't hurt

 

[Packers2010]

Honestly, the first thing I would advise you to do would be to get the right mindset. You can practice techniques and bull**** all you want but your perspective on LIFE needs to change to make any of that count. You do not want to become some empty shell that only knows routines.

Now, you did say you've been working on talking to women for a while but that's not enough information for us to know where you're at, mentally. So I have no idea if my first paragraph was accurate (Do you put women on pedestals? Are you still trying to 'buy' their love? Are you letting them get away with screwing with you? etc) Anyway, go read "The Book of Pook", it can't hurt

all this is true. i have recently discovered that it IS a life change. you can do this half assed. you have to go out there with your balls in your hand and make something happen. took me 20 years to figure it out. but now. now i feel like i can do anything. with anyone. once you get to this stage. then the REAL improvements can begin.