Fellas,
Early 20’s newbie here, hoping for some advice on a few things:
Firstly, do shy women exhibit different attraction signals than normal / extroverted women? Asking because I recently moved back home from university (virtually learning) and began working at a local warehouse and there’s a girl at my workplace that seems fairly shy — this is mostly me guessing from body language as I have no interaction w/ her — but I’m having trouble reading her. One thing I have noticed is that whenever we make coincidental eye contact her eyes get extremely wide (think, like a deer in headlights). I also noticed that when I first began working at said warehouse (like the first week or so) I would rarely see her, but I noticed ever since then see always stays over on my teams shift. In addition, during times when I’m away from my friend group I notice she sort of follows me around — for instance I was in the front of a lane closing a box out and she came to my lane and began working on the diagonal aisle, a few seconds later I left to an area in the back of a aisle that was three lanes down and the next thing I know I see her come shortly after. Lastly, occasionally she does some odd things that I recently picked up on such as blatantly staring at me out the corner of her eye even when I’m afar. Also, she’ll even stand in my line of view or near me, but not say anything — for example, not too long ago I returned from a vacation and was working w/ a buddy who just returned from army training (ROTC) in a notoriously busy moving station and I felt that sensation when someone is staring at you, so I peeped and it was her, I ignored it and kept working and then a few seconds later she cut in our station w/ her cart and sat there fiddling w/ it for few minutes and then left. My question is, could I be over analyzing this situation, or could this be something? I know many of you will say “break the ice”, but Ive been playing the situation a little reserved for obvious reasons.
One more quick thing, as I know I’ve stated a lot, but how do you guys pick up on signs in general? Asking because as a rather large guy w/ a (natural) resting glare people tend to act intimidated around me and usually won’t initiate contact — guys stutter and don’t look me in the eye or will stand close near as to get my attention but won’t say anything, and I usually only hear about girls crushing on me from fellow guy friends / associates, or girls whom I never talk to will do something such as send me random questions to conversate via my schools email network. This w/ my size makes me a little self conscious and lends me to be reactive instead of proactive when it comes to relationships, which I’ve been trying to break. Anyways, greatly appreciate any advice!
Early 20’s newbie here, hoping for some advice on a few things:
Firstly, do shy women exhibit different attraction signals than normal / extroverted women? Asking because I recently moved back home from university (virtually learning) and began working at a local warehouse and there’s a girl at my workplace that seems fairly shy — this is mostly me guessing from body language as I have no interaction w/ her — but I’m having trouble reading her. One thing I have noticed is that whenever we make coincidental eye contact her eyes get extremely wide (think, like a deer in headlights). I also noticed that when I first began working at said warehouse (like the first week or so) I would rarely see her, but I noticed ever since then see always stays over on my teams shift. In addition, during times when I’m away from my friend group I notice she sort of follows me around — for instance I was in the front of a lane closing a box out and she came to my lane and began working on the diagonal aisle, a few seconds later I left to an area in the back of a aisle that was three lanes down and the next thing I know I see her come shortly after. Lastly, occasionally she does some odd things that I recently picked up on such as blatantly staring at me out the corner of her eye even when I’m afar. Also, she’ll even stand in my line of view or near me, but not say anything — for example, not too long ago I returned from a vacation and was working w/ a buddy who just returned from army training (ROTC) in a notoriously busy moving station and I felt that sensation when someone is staring at you, so I peeped and it was her, I ignored it and kept working and then a few seconds later she cut in our station w/ her cart and sat there fiddling w/ it for few minutes and then left. My question is, could I be over analyzing this situation, or could this be something? I know many of you will say “break the ice”, but Ive been playing the situation a little reserved for obvious reasons.
One more quick thing, as I know I’ve stated a lot, but how do you guys pick up on signs in general? Asking because as a rather large guy w/ a (natural) resting glare people tend to act intimidated around me and usually won’t initiate contact — guys stutter and don’t look me in the eye or will stand close near as to get my attention but won’t say anything, and I usually only hear about girls crushing on me from fellow guy friends / associates, or girls whom I never talk to will do something such as send me random questions to conversate via my schools email network. This w/ my size makes me a little self conscious and lends me to be reactive instead of proactive when it comes to relationships, which I’ve been trying to break. Anyways, greatly appreciate any advice!
