The Comeback Kid
Master Don Juan
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- May 4, 2005
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Hey everyone,
As you may tell, I am new here. I am a Junior in high school and I look foward to browsing these boards and seeing if I can help anyone out.
I do come to you with a problem that may take you a minute or two to think about. This girl I've had my eye on for a while started sending these really strong signs to me. When I went to ask her out, she seemed to have said yes, suggesting we "double date" with her two friends, who are bf-gf (I know the guy too). Sounds good, right?
Well, the next day, I come in expecting to talk to her about this "date". Well, that didn't exactly happen. Instead, she starts babbling about who knows what, she's contradicting herself (for ex: I'm free this weekend (+ good body lanuage) - I'm unsure about all of this (this means "not a yes")). So, I have no clue where to go.
Anyway, here comes the real problem : Now she doesn't talk to me anymore. Usually, she'd come up to me and start talking and smiling and all that - now, nothing. Before, she come up, say hi and start a conversation. Now, all I get is a "hey". My guess is that it still feels weird of me "asking her out", but I'm a little confused here. Well, I plan on asking her about the "double date" with her two friends, because if they're involved in the "double date", the yes may be close to certain. The tough part is that she isn't talking to me anymore or anything, and it's not like I did anything wrong...I think.
As of right now, I am trying to get the "guy friend" (from the other couple) to help me out with this. Considering he sees her more during the day, he'll probably pop the idea into her head and hopefully by the time I see her, everything is good to go.
My question is, how can I get things back on track with this girl? Up until last week, she was talking to me and being real enthusiastic and now, absolutely nothing. Why? I'm really confused.
P.S. No, I don't think she's "playing" me. I've known her for a while (almost a year) and we've gotten along pretty well. I also didn't put myself in the "friends" trap though in case something like this came up. :woo: So I doubt she'd be playing me (I've been played once ot twiced before and this doesn't look like it) considering she's known me for a while, but if however she is, :trouble:
As you may tell, I am new here. I am a Junior in high school and I look foward to browsing these boards and seeing if I can help anyone out.
I do come to you with a problem that may take you a minute or two to think about. This girl I've had my eye on for a while started sending these really strong signs to me. When I went to ask her out, she seemed to have said yes, suggesting we "double date" with her two friends, who are bf-gf (I know the guy too). Sounds good, right?
Well, the next day, I come in expecting to talk to her about this "date". Well, that didn't exactly happen. Instead, she starts babbling about who knows what, she's contradicting herself (for ex: I'm free this weekend (+ good body lanuage) - I'm unsure about all of this (this means "not a yes")). So, I have no clue where to go.
Anyway, here comes the real problem : Now she doesn't talk to me anymore. Usually, she'd come up to me and start talking and smiling and all that - now, nothing. Before, she come up, say hi and start a conversation. Now, all I get is a "hey". My guess is that it still feels weird of me "asking her out", but I'm a little confused here. Well, I plan on asking her about the "double date" with her two friends, because if they're involved in the "double date", the yes may be close to certain. The tough part is that she isn't talking to me anymore or anything, and it's not like I did anything wrong...I think.
As of right now, I am trying to get the "guy friend" (from the other couple) to help me out with this. Considering he sees her more during the day, he'll probably pop the idea into her head and hopefully by the time I see her, everything is good to go.
My question is, how can I get things back on track with this girl? Up until last week, she was talking to me and being real enthusiastic and now, absolutely nothing. Why? I'm really confused.
P.S. No, I don't think she's "playing" me. I've known her for a while (almost a year) and we've gotten along pretty well. I also didn't put myself in the "friends" trap though in case something like this came up. :woo: So I doubt she'd be playing me (I've been played once ot twiced before and this doesn't look like it) considering she's known me for a while, but if however she is, :trouble:
