new to site need some advice

[uafootball24]

I hate being tied down to a girlfriend. But I need a sex buddy.
I just broke off another relationship due to the fact she wanted to take it up a notch. This happens all of the time. I have plenty of guy friends who are married are they are in serious relationships but they are miserable as hell.

I have yet to find a girl who wants to do things I like, they always want it their way. I like my free time, I race supercross i go to Bama football games and I like extreme sports. Every girl I meet starts out great the I get bored or they get mad because I spend so much time with my friends or my hobbies.

Most girls find it difficult to go out with me because I played football at The University of Alabama. Everywhere we go I get noticed and wind up having to sign people's hats or autograph other things. I get caught up in endless conversations at restaurants or clubs about games.

I just want a nice clean girl to have sex with with none of the falling in love crap. Sure I like the girls I date I just don't want to be tied down. They wind up saying the L-word after a few dates then they get mad because they say I never spend enough time with them. Well dam it the truth be told, they want to do the boring stuff. I want a sex buddy who will go out and fish with me, race motorcyles, camp. I just want to have a good time without it always winding up breaking her heart. advice please

 

[I'm in the Mood]

Maybe you should try some online dating. There might be a girl out there who feels exactly the same way and wants a guy who is as adventurous as she is.

 

[crazyboy]

Okay since you play football for major university you have a "status". Which attract women to you. So they want to tied you down because of your "status" and hope reap the rewards if you would make it to the next level. Now that i point out the obvious to your situation. On why the want to settle down with you. Im going tell how to get the sex buddy.

You need to learn how to keep woman guessing , keep them in dark, and keep them chasing. Your obviously giving these woman a strong sense that you want to them stay around. So they cling on to that. You need to give off the impression that they are just another woman and you just looking for someone to have fun with. Another things is you need not be so available to these women. And also you need to have multiple women that nice clean girl that you want around to chill is bunch of bs is not going to happen. Because if that was true you be in the friendzone and not getting punai.

Having multiple women give you the ability get what you want is sex buddy. it allow you to keep these women at a distance. all while getting want you from them and also allowing you to pursue your hobbies.

If it wasn't for your status you be afc because your to nice and accomdating hince why they want to settle down. They are not heart broken they wanted to be on the gravey train. Trust me if something would to happen lord i hope it doesn't like injury or cut off the team. Then these heartbroken women would not be heartbroken.

 

[Chickfight]

Okay since you play football for major university you have a "status". Which attract women to you. So they want to tied you down because of your "status" and hope reap the rewards if you would make it to the next level. Now that i point out the obvious to your situation. On why the want to settle down with you. Im going tell how to get the sex buddy.

You need to learn how to keep woman guessing , keep them in dark, and keep them chasing. Your obviously giving these woman a strong sense that you want to them stay around. So they cling on to that. You need to give off the impression that they are just another woman and you just looking for someone to have fun with. Another things is you need not be so available to these women. And also you need to have multiple women that nice clean girl that you want around to chill is bunch of bs is not going to happen. Because if that was true you be in the friendzone and not getting punai.

Having multiple women give you the ability get what you want is sex buddy. it allow you to keep these women at a distance. all while getting want you from them and also allowing you to pursue your hobbies.

If it wasn't for your status you be afc because your to nice and accomdating hince why they want to settle down. They are not heart broken they wanted to be on the gravey train. Trust me if something would to happen lord i hope it doesn't like injury or cut off the team. Then these heartbroken women would not be heartbroken.

Did you even read his post?

I hate being tied down to a girlfriend. But I need a sex buddy.
I just broke off another relationship due to the fact she wanted to take it up a notch. This happens all of the time. I have plenty of guy friends who are married are they are in serious relationships but they are miserable as hell.

I have yet to find a girl who wants to do things I like, they always want it their way. I like my free time, I race supercross i go to Bama football games and I like extreme sports. Every girl I meet starts out great the I get bored or they get mad because I spend so much time with my friends or my hobbies.

Most girls find it difficult to go out with me because I played football at The University of Alabama. Everywhere we go I get noticed and wind up having to sign people's hats or autograph other things. I get caught up in endless conversations at restaurants or clubs about games.

I just want a nice clean girl to have sex with with none of the falling in love crap. Sure I like the girls I date I just don't want to be tied down. They wind up saying the L-word after a few dates then they get mad because they say I never spend enough time with them. Well dam it the truth be told, they want to do the boring stuff. I want a sex buddy who will go out and fish with me, race motorcyles, camp. I just want to have a good time without it always winding up breaking her heart. advice please

Does it really sound like this guy is "obviously giving these women a strong sense to stay around"

You need to give off the impression that they are just another woman and you just looking for someone to have fun with. Another things is you need not be so available to these women.

Are you kidding? This is exactly what he is doing.

For op,

If what you're describing in your post is accurate, then your problem is easy to solve. Keep doing what you're doing, just don't commit to a girl unless she meets your criteria (giving you freedom, do fun stuff with you). Otherwise keep casually dating different women. Sure, they might complain, but it was you dumping them wasn't it? They still want to see you and bang you.

Honestly, I think you have a right mindset about life and women. Just make it clear to them what kind of relationship you want (a casual one) if they complain. Chances are they won't ever leave you because they still have hope you'll come around some day.

 

[crazyboy]

mis type

 

[crazyboy]

The fact is he not making the ground rules when he is with these women. He approach with realtionship mindset. Wine and dine them then when he gets bored with them or realize he sinking to a realtionship he runs. That fine is your trying to pump in dump. He wants friends with benefits or sex buddy. If these women wants to settle down with him, he's not laying the ground rules plain and simiple. His mindset about living his life and dating with woman is fine. But he only going out with one girl at a time he not going get a woman that like do everything hes does.

What he need to do like i said before is get mulitple sex buddies. So he can have one that fish, one that race motorcycle, and one that camp. So he gets his needs fill. instead relying on woman to do all of that for him. Because what he wants is a woman commited to him without ties and to do that he need more than one woman to float through.

For you chick obviously he does give them impression or else they wouldn't waste there time trying. Im pretty sure me and you got woman that are perfectly content just screwing us without need of the dating just saying.
yes i did misread the fact he played of thought he still playing but none the less what i say before what help be better.