Hey all, first off I'd like to say thanks for opening a gate to a better me
A bit of info about me:
I'm a bit overweight
I'm 17
And I'm hopeless when it comes to women, and conversation
I've been reading through many articles on how to improve conversation, but I can never seem to know good topics of conversation. By that I mean, I find it hard to pick up on things, and I can never really continue a conversation. I think I've found the problem, and that's not being comfortable - here is where the confidence issue comes in. After reading the quick tips on the main page, I feel a lot more confident than I did beforehand, but after talking to a few women and having awkward pauses often, I'm starting to slip back down into unconfidence.
My second problem, is that this girl I like, is very beautiful. We trust each other, and basically we're fairly good friends. She is also planning on breaking up with her current bf soon, because he cheated on her once and she reluctantly took him back. I know that I like her more than a friend, and as much as I want to tell her, I know that being patient is the key and I don't want to rush.
Please help me, I don't know why other people can do it and I can't
A bit of info about me:
I'm a bit overweight
I'm 17
And I'm hopeless when it comes to women, and conversation
I've been reading through many articles on how to improve conversation, but I can never seem to know good topics of conversation. By that I mean, I find it hard to pick up on things, and I can never really continue a conversation. I think I've found the problem, and that's not being comfortable - here is where the confidence issue comes in. After reading the quick tips on the main page, I feel a lot more confident than I did beforehand, but after talking to a few women and having awkward pauses often, I'm starting to slip back down into unconfidence.
My second problem, is that this girl I like, is very beautiful. We trust each other, and basically we're fairly good friends. She is also planning on breaking up with her current bf soon, because he cheated on her once and she reluctantly took him back. I know that I like her more than a friend, and as much as I want to tell her, I know that being patient is the key and I don't want to rush.
Please help me, I don't know why other people can do it and I can't