New Member's Plan: What do you think?

[Contender]

I just joined today, and I already feel heavily enlightened. I never realized how utterly FOOLISH I was with other women, people, etc. I am a complete LOSER! I did NOTHING for myself. I tried to please others. I tried to win girls over by being nice and understanding. I did everything wrong. Obviously, because it didn't WORK!

For years I was pushed around by girls, and guys. People regarded me as an intellectual, which hurt because I KNEW I was, but I never USED my gifts. I am fvcking lazy. I threw my opportunities away; hopefully the elite colleges I applied to will still accept me, nonetheless. (((EDIT: If they reject me... SO WHAT?!!

I will never give up. I will apply as a TRANSFER. I will get there!!!!!!!!)))

I am skinny, and weak. I never bothered to IMPROVE myself -- both mentally, and PHYSICALLY. I remained satisfied with the SATISFACTORY.

NO, not ANY fvcking more.

After reading the DJ Bible, I have the tools to CHANGE!

Hopefully, it will inspire other members to pursue change.

Below, I have outlined my plan. What do you think?
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This plan will go into effect, NOW (after I hit the "submit" button). My heart is beating with anticipation.

I will take control of MY life. I will pursue my PASSIONS, and ENJOY life. Pursuing the opposite sex is going to be the LAST thing on my mind -- it's not a priority! Girls will come! Oh, yes. When the opportunity arises after doing the MORE important things FIRST (i.e. weekends, between classes, and whenever else I find free time).

School>preparing for career>sports and the gym>photography/guitar/snowboarding>GIRLS!

We place a big emphasis on sex, but fail to see the MORE important things in life; more meaningful things to work for.

Success is a proper balance designed for one's goals. That's my balance.

I will grab life by its BALLS and twist it to get what I WANT!

I will ASSERT myself. I will do WHAT I F*CKING WANT. Who cares what others think of me?! My opinion of MYSELF matters! I am taking CHARGE of my life.

I am going to walk into school tomorrow, dressed nicely and sit in class and PROUDLY raise my hand to every question. If I get it wrong, big sh*t. I'll learn from my mistakes. I will GRAB AND PULL EVERY opportunity to MY favor.

I will take SATURDAY off and have fun.

I will STUDY DAILY.
I will READ daily.
I will WRITE daily.
I will PURSUE MY PASSIONS.

I am a MAN! I will do what I WANT to do.

And what I want is SUCCESS; financial success, social success, etc.

Those who do not want to surround themselves around me, let them. It's there loss.

I am the CATCH. I have my goals. I have my dreams. I have a vision.

I will pursue it with EVERY fvcking fiber in my body.

I WILL LIVE by this motto: WORK HARD. PLAY HARD.

I will study hard today. Go out and play basketball amongst friends. Come home read a good book and finish the newspaper. I will be social, intellectual, and academically adept. I will be WELL PREPARED for the pressure of the real world, and prevail. I will become successful.

Life is a battle worth fighting for, and I have just begun...

 

[Taviii]

Sieg Heil! That's the right attitude boy!

 

[Ace of Flames]

kool yo. u go for it. a little too enthusiastic for my tastes, but whatever works for u. im happy to hear about it.

:cheer:

 

[Contender]

Thanks for the support. I'm off to it.

Going to play some basketball, and return for some HARDCORE studying.

Yeah, I was a little over enthused. SO WHAT?!

I'm so happy. Do you know how one has a certain image of themself in the future? My image of myself COMPLETELY changed! The sky is the limit, babe!!! Why shouldn't I go crazy! WHoooOOoo!!!

See you guys during my study break.

 

[Ace of Flames]

lol, i have that different image too, but i know its gonna happen, so i dont gotta freak out for it.

no worries man, the excitement will wear off, and then u'll just settle into this determined state of mind. its all good.

 

[KaminoSS]

STICK WITH IT LAD!!!! :rockon:


If you give up..... :trouble:

 

[Contender]

On a break!

I'm already feeling urges to play video games, but I'm resisting.

I'm not going to waste my time anymore with that sh*t.

Originally posted by KaminoSS
STICK WITH IT LAD!!!! :rockon:


If you give up..... :trouble:

Ha-ha, thanks for the support. No worries mate, I will NEVER give up.

 

[SlyD4rK]

i like your idea to plan it out first instead of just...trying to change yourself without a plan. just make sure you stick to it. i know how hard it is to resist video games. are you working out and eating healthy?? you can make that a priority as well, you'll get sick less, feel better, and look better, AS WELL AS being healthy. check out the fitness section of this forum

rock on :rockon:

 

[KaminoSS]

Re: On a break!

Originally posted by Contender
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No worries mate, I will NEVER give up.

NEVER surrender either

 

[Ace of Flames]

Re: Re: On a break!

Originally posted by KaminoSS
NEVER surrender either

and dont fire till you see the whites of their eyes!

.....oh wait, that doesnt apply here, does it...... crap...

 

[Contender]

Re: Re: Re: On a break!

Originally posted by Ace of Flames
and dont fire till you see the whites of their eyes!

.....oh wait, that doesnt apply here, does it...... crap...

In a twisted way, it does apply.

EVERYTHING is awesome man. It's fvcking crazy at how perceptive girls can be. Everyone noticed a change in me when I returned to school. I felt like such a pimp. Girls were staring at me, left and right. I walked up in front of this girl calmly and threw out a piece of paper to get close to her. I was an inch from her face and gave a ****y smile. I walked away. Come to think of it now, I should have winked.

I approached a few girls again (my first two approaches CRASHED and burned because I wasn't completely comfortable-- I was lacking confidence because I still wondered what "she" was thinking...). But I developed a method to stop caring, completely.

I changed so quickly! I'm a total geek at school, and such a "jock" outside of class.

Now, my only problem is actually establishing a relationship with a girl. I can talk, I can approach; I don't care what I do or say. If I want to say something, I'll say it.

The tricky part is getting her comfortable and solidifying interest, enough interest for a fvck.

I'm making major headway! Now, time to do homework at 2:45 a.m.!

 

[KaminoSS]

:cheer: :cheer: :cheer: :cheer: :cheer:

just keep reading the bible, AND high school complete works, when ever your in a tight spot.


Keep us updated to!

Good luck man

 

[coolguy676767]

NICE ATTITUDE, I love it, I went through a similar transformation about a year ago. Its not easy and there will be times when you will want to give up and go back to your old ways. But you cant give up it will come, just keep fighting through it and trust me the grass is so much freaking greener over here than on the stupid AFC side.

 

[TTom]

Originally posted by Contender


I am going to walk into school tomorrow, dressed nicely and sit in class and PROUDLY raise my hand to every question. If I get it wrong, big sh*t. I'll learn from my mistakes. I will GRAB AND PULL EVERY opportunity to MY favor.

The rest is rather...enthusiastic, but what the hell is up with this one? I hate people who raise their hand to every question.
:crackup:

But yeah, realize that changes are not going to happen overnight. It takes awhile to change your attitude and mindset regarding women and life in general.

Remember to have fun with whatever you're doing.
:woo:

-Tom

 

[Contender]

UPDATE

Guys, the change is fvcking incredible. I walk to school without a care about a girl's impression of me. Why the HELL should I care, after all it's my life? I run it, not ANYONE else.

This new sense of confidence was already noticed by many girls from my class. They all commented on how sexy I look and how my attitude completely changed.

I'm taking care of my body and face. I got a nice clean-cut haircut; shaved; bought some nice cologne and a few articles of clothing. Once I get into college, and get an internship, I will buy better things for myself. Speaking of haircuts, I need another one. I'm going to get it tomorrow! Whoo!

I was walking down the street and a group of hot girls were walking toward my direction. A few of them gazed into my eyes, and quickly check me out from top to bottom and gave me a nervous smile-- very discreetly.

I'm a bit bummed out for not DOING anything about it; though I was in a rush to meet my father.

This was just one day. Since last week, EVERYTHING has changed. My teachers respect me, and love me; the guys look up to me; the girls show interest.

I realized the my greatest obstacle was not the APPROACH, or the like; it was myself. I was a problem. I overcame my mental barrier; nothing could stop me!

I feel really good. This girl who I had oneitis for a few years in High School, displayed interest. I brushed it off. Success! I brushed it off mysteriously, now she's probably sitting at home wondering, and overanalyzing my actions. The tables have turned.

Throughout this experience, I realized that girls are no so different then guys. Treat both sexes equally, and you'll be successful.

 

[coolguy676767]

Congratulations, nice job and keep it up.

 

[08aisaac]

True. Be careful not to treat guys better than girls, AKA womanizer. I know a few people like that, it's very harsh.

 

[Sammo]

Cool mate, i like the enthusiasm.

Just one small problem:

Originally posted by Contender
I just joined today, and I already feel heavily enlightened. I never realized how utterly FOOLISH I was with other women, people, etc. I am a complete LOSER! I did NOTHING for myself. I tried to please others. I tried to win girls over by being nice and understanding. I did everything wrong. Obviously, because it didn't WORK!

What's with that ?

 

[Contender]

Re: Re: New Member's Plan: What do you think?

Originally posted by Sammo
Cool mate, i like the enthusiasm.

Just one small problem:



What's with that ?

As in women I don't know; the others. I can deal with my friends.