New Ladies on SS

[ThunderMaverick]

In an isolated situation like that, this isn't really a big deal. However, how are all of you going to feel when you come here and the top few posts are things like "What is a sh1t test? I know for a fact that I don't sh1t test my man" and "My man said this - what do I do?" and a third post is a 20 page long thread that consists of a bunch of women discussing relationships?

Hasn't happened yet, so why so paranoid? It doesn't even look like it's swinging in that direction.

I saw Interceptor's post in her thread (and thought it was helpful), but that's not what I was referring to. I was talking about this, which is one of the best posts I've ever read on this forum.

That post has around 700 views since the 16th of March. I don't usually read the tips section if you want to know why I haven't read it yet. Blame me for that. Don't blame the few new female posters that came here. They didn't start coming here till around the 26 or 27th of March. (Because of the LoveShack "invasion".) If you're trying to connect two completely different incidents then you're way off.

There is enough great information on this site to go around. It's MY responsibility to read it, not YOURS. NOT a WOMANS. Don't blame WOMEN for someone missing a post or just blatantly ignoring it.

1. Evidence that these new women have not read much of the DJ bible.

People suggested that she do so.

2. Women were talking amongst themselves about relationships.

*GASP* God FORBID!!

Listen, I have nothing against the women here, including the new ones who have come over from LS. And I'm not trying to come across as whiny - if it comes down to it, I can just as easily ignore and avoid posts that I don't find helpful. It's not that big of a deal.

You could have just summed up your entire thread with this and have been done with it.

 

[ZenGodMod]

The idea that women shouldn't be welcome here is...sexist. Internet has no sexist agenda.

What does a group of women stop your self improvement? None. If they commit any ill advice we real men will call on their bullsh!t. You will grow.

The problem of afcism is also a problem women face (think about it). Outside the matrix is not reserved for men alone!

 

[DavenJuan]

there are WAY more troll posters, irrelivant threads, AFC's who DONT LISTEN or READ THE BIBLE that post here on a regular basis.

i think this is FAR more annoying then "women" posting.

even in Purple Haze's thread there were a few "reputable" posters who obviously did not care for her presence or essence of her thread.

i just dont get it.

 

[Rollo Tomassi]

Just something I want to add:

Most of the women that come here are caught in the matrix too.

Exactly.

This is why I think it foolish to censor female posters here in any way. BLACK WIDOW posts here occasionally and she does so because I personally removed her from the Matrix myself. That may come off as self-serving, but she'd be the first to agree with me. There is no greater advocate for a chump killing his inner AFC than her and she is very aware of the AFC mindset in popular culture now. In fact, what I think is most telling about generation AFC is that it's often women who are more ready to recognize it than men. It's the women who are dependent on it for securing their own long term provisioning who'll use it to their advantage; but even these women acknowledge the Matrix for what it is. It's just that their individual conditions make them invested in it and thus less willing to expose it and/or become threatened by others exposing it.

I think a female perspective is necessary for SS, if for no other reason than to stay informed on what the mass group-think of sites like LS are promoting. We need this input in order to critically challenge the contrivances of the Matrix, otherwise we're only talking to ourselves and we become no less inbred than they are. The greatest thing about SS and the community at large is the constant re-forming of ideas, methodologies and theories that are prompted by new information. I would like to think that the strengths of these, like any sound argument or science, will not only withstand a critical review from it opponents, but also challenge them to consider rethinking their own understandings. Don't discount the value of having women post here, they're needed.

 

[Allaia]

Don't tell me you honestly think their intentions are good.

I have no ill intentions at all, just so you know. I came here to have a better perspective on men - to understand the way they think, why they are the way they are etc. I do not advice anyone on here as I know my place - I'm a woman and I believe that I still have a lot to learn about men so yeah, no bad intentions here except me minding my own business reading around here (which has helped me quite a bit).

 

[KarmaSutra]

There are guys on our beloved SoSuave who instigate, poke and prod until they start some dumbsh!t, then they scurry off to some dark corner and wring thier hands in some mislayed victory.

Who the fvck are any of us to judge another?

I welcome all of the new PEOPLE to SoSuave because it's an opportunity to learn and possibly teach a few things while we're on this plane.

 

[logic1]

So right KS

Some posters can take a good, informative, learning type thread and turn it into a flame war.

I think Interceptor had a post about EGOS. It will destroy a man.

 

[wayword]

Dude, didn't you read the responses she gave after the advice she was given? No one ignored 'Ceptor's post. She was actually the most responsive to it. She became move self aware of her actions and what she was doing. SHE ADMITTED IT and agreed with what most of the SoSuavers posted!

She didn't come her with bullsh!t, she came here with "QUESTIONS"! She got them and was highly receptive to it.

What' wrong with a woman learning about her own actions?

I think it's actually good if women come here for advice to get properly trained. That ultimately helps us as well when we encounter them out there.

We just don't want feminist moles like Wyldfire or Iqqi trying to train us. That IS highly counterproductive to this site.

We DON'T need more advice from women. They need it from US.

 

[ZenGodMod]

We?

We just don't want feminist moles like Wyldfire or Iqqi trying to train us. That IS highly counterproductive to this site.

We DON'T need more advice from women. They need it from US.

We? Who is we? I don't believe the likes of Wyldfire or Iqqi, could in anyway influence me to any considerable extent or any "man".

Facing them here and facing them in real life is existential! You want an utopia of where you can find only men to pat your back and point you the way.... join the YMCA!

 

[Burrito Supreme]

It seems that we have an influx of women, I'm guessing from LS (I think I saw this mentioned in a thread somewhere).

No offense to these women, I'm sure they're all lovely people, but I came to sosuave to better myself through advice from men who have had similar experiences. I don't want advice from women. I don't want to give advice to women. I have enough of that in real life.

The occassional female perspective is fine, but this kind of muddies the waters for me a little. I think I may need to move on from here. Just a rant.

Anyone else feel the same?

Ewwwwww cooties is what comes to mind.

 

[EricInTheHouse]

Tony is a cootie....

 

[Killer_Demo]

i wouldnt take women advice on this forum... but thats just me

 

[Yotsuya-san]

Too often the women who are on this board are going to play devils advocate, especially in regards to success stories from guys on this site. When a guy reports a sarging, C&F, kino techniques that works, the women will often post and say that the technique working in his case is an exception to the rule. They will too often be the naysayers claiming that "that wouldn't work with me, ect." Perhaps the women in question would promote themselves as that exception to the rules of what works with women. But what works for the average girl on the street is all that matters, not the women who go out of their way to not be average. This doesn't neccesarily mean they are above average, just eccentric, and the opinions of eccentric women are not part of the equation. By average, I mean average in mentality, not looks, of course.