tryintobaDJ
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Hi all, as an aspiring DJ who has read these boards for quite some time now, I never have felt the need to actually write until this little problem came up.
I've had a steady gf for about 8 months now. And to be honest, things haven't exactly been smooth for the last 3 of those months. Shes really turned into a b1thcy, arguementative, very insecure and overly sensitive person. I'm ready to end things, just need a little push for me to do it.
But shes not really the reason I'm writing. About a week ago, I went to my mom and dads cottage on Lake Anna here in Virginia, and my gf came along. Also there was ALOT of my family, including some of my dads family like his brothers and their wives and kids. One of those wives has a sister who was their with her family, including their daughter. The daughter, who I'll call A, is a quite the cutie and we've always flirted back and forth with one another over the years. Shes well educated, pretty conservative, and not one to be a wild party type.
Anyway, my gf and I got into a fight over something stupid, and she ended up leaving. Meanwhile, A and I started talking and flirting, and by the time night time rolled around we were both pretty buzzed. We ended up making out by the beach, and telling one another how we each have had strong feelings for one another over the years. We then ended up going back to my room where we had sex, and I can say it felt GREAT!!.
The next day was sort of awkward, but we talked and I ended up getting her phone number and email. She had to leave that day, so about 3-4 days later I emailed her saying the usual, "strange it happened, but glad it did, we should get together, blah blah blah". Didnt exactly know what her reaction would be, I mean we were both drunk at the time, and I had feeling her anti-slut defense would kick in. Anyway, she sent an email back. Here it is----
Hey, hows it going? Yeah, the weather was not too great down there.
I ended up coming home early on Thursday. Oh well, I still had fun.
Was pretty tired after what happened the next day. Once I hit the couch I was out.
Ive gotta say, I was kind of surprised by everything you told me
the other day. The whole situation I still think is a little weird and I
dont know what to think of it. Although good or bad, I believe things
happen for a reason. Even though Im still unsure of everything, I
figure I can just let things play out. I think grabbing a bite to eat
or something next week would be fun. I still have to check out what my
work schedule is like for next week. E-mail me or give me a call and
let me know when youll be in town. My cell # is xxxxxxxxxx. Talk
to ya later.
To me it seemed to be saying, I kind of regret things, but dont know for sure. Not exactly a ringing endoresment.
I emailed back, told her to let me know her work schedule, and then I'll call and set things up. Its been 4 days now and have heard nothing back, plus I called yesterday and no answer or call back.
I'm slightly confused as to what to do from here. Should I email or call again? Or Just forget it? I mean it seems like if she was truely interested she would have responded by now. Actions speak volumes.
I appreciate you all taking the time to read this and offer any suggestions on the next course of action.
I've had a steady gf for about 8 months now. And to be honest, things haven't exactly been smooth for the last 3 of those months. Shes really turned into a b1thcy, arguementative, very insecure and overly sensitive person. I'm ready to end things, just need a little push for me to do it.
But shes not really the reason I'm writing. About a week ago, I went to my mom and dads cottage on Lake Anna here in Virginia, and my gf came along. Also there was ALOT of my family, including some of my dads family like his brothers and their wives and kids. One of those wives has a sister who was their with her family, including their daughter. The daughter, who I'll call A, is a quite the cutie and we've always flirted back and forth with one another over the years. Shes well educated, pretty conservative, and not one to be a wild party type.
Anyway, my gf and I got into a fight over something stupid, and she ended up leaving. Meanwhile, A and I started talking and flirting, and by the time night time rolled around we were both pretty buzzed. We ended up making out by the beach, and telling one another how we each have had strong feelings for one another over the years. We then ended up going back to my room where we had sex, and I can say it felt GREAT!!.
The next day was sort of awkward, but we talked and I ended up getting her phone number and email. She had to leave that day, so about 3-4 days later I emailed her saying the usual, "strange it happened, but glad it did, we should get together, blah blah blah". Didnt exactly know what her reaction would be, I mean we were both drunk at the time, and I had feeling her anti-slut defense would kick in. Anyway, she sent an email back. Here it is----
Hey, hows it going? Yeah, the weather was not too great down there.
I ended up coming home early on Thursday. Oh well, I still had fun.
Was pretty tired after what happened the next day. Once I hit the couch I was out.
Ive gotta say, I was kind of surprised by everything you told me
the other day. The whole situation I still think is a little weird and I
dont know what to think of it. Although good or bad, I believe things
happen for a reason. Even though Im still unsure of everything, I
figure I can just let things play out. I think grabbing a bite to eat
or something next week would be fun. I still have to check out what my
work schedule is like for next week. E-mail me or give me a call and
let me know when youll be in town. My cell # is xxxxxxxxxx. Talk
to ya later.
To me it seemed to be saying, I kind of regret things, but dont know for sure. Not exactly a ringing endoresment.
I emailed back, told her to let me know her work schedule, and then I'll call and set things up. Its been 4 days now and have heard nothing back, plus I called yesterday and no answer or call back.
I'm slightly confused as to what to do from here. Should I email or call again? Or Just forget it? I mean it seems like if she was truely interested she would have responded by now. Actions speak volumes.
I appreciate you all taking the time to read this and offer any suggestions on the next course of action.
