New here///explain this guy

Jonblood

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So I've been lurking for quite some time and reading all that I can and implementing whenever possible. I have definitely felt a confidence boost these past couple of weeks and increased ability to start and continue a conversation.

I would like to describe a scenario that I observed at a party last night.

There was this girl probably an HB6, not really my type but enough for practice. So I've met her many times before and never really got into it with her, but last night when I first saw her I was sure to smile act confident and crack a joke and be on my way to the party. She came over later and was clearly jumping my nuts. So we started talking i started touching and after i rubbed her arm she wouldnt stop touching me. Asking me to flex my biceps touching them etc....I told her that I usually didn't do it for free and that she would have to repay me sometime. (I only said that because its a line I heard on here once before) So i non chalantly flexed so noone but her would see cus i didnt wanna look like a meathead showing off. THen I start watching the beer games going on next to me. She reverted me attention back to her for a bit but i was really more interested in the game than this girl.

Now there was this very loud rowdy drunk kid playing quarters. He was definitely the loudest and craziest BY FAR. throwing beer cans, etc. There were girls in the room and he stands up and starts saying **** like, "I got a bigger **** than all you combined" and so on. So I'm downstairs where most of the girls are and this kid walks down with a bag of chips. The girls all flock over to him. He sits on the steps and stupidly i didn't pay close enough attention to what he was saying. But he did stand up and almost flash his **** infront of all the girls and his friends came over sucking up to him like, "Oh he was blessed with a monster ****" and hes about to pull it out infront of all these girls but he didnt. He sits back down fluff talks with the girls i hear him kind of insult the one hottest there about what she was wearing. 5 minutes later these girls are ALL OVER HIM. if they could all simultaneously sit on his lap I think they would have.

Anyway sorry for the long post. Does this guys game work? wtf
 

Allurre

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All that guy achieved was 'loud & obnoxious' written all over him. The girls only gave him attention because he suddenly became the talk of the party -- for shamelessly flashing his genitals.

When you go to such extreme, it's hard for your surrounding to ignore it. Yes, it may attract women as he was gutsy and daring. His actions also translate as confidence within himself.

Also...

Next time you feel like flexing your stuff, just do it. There's no need to be too self-conscious or to care of what others may think.
 

sodbuster

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Negging the hottest girl there was about the only thing that looked anything like game. Maybe the young women are impressed about the talk about **** size,but the older ones take it with a grain of salt[bragging]
 

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One thing I'd like to mention: there are two kinds of jerks. First, the ones who get drunk and loud and obnoxious like that, and are likely to hit their women, then tell them they love them so they don't leave. That's not cool. The second kind is more of a james dean kind of rebel.

The women were all over him because he was showing confidence, he didn't care what others thought of him. There are other and better ways of showing confidence, though.
 

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He can live up to that "idiot" persona prob because he is an idiot. However, decent dudes won't be able to do that annoying stuff to get attention simply because they'll feel sick to the stomach after realizing that they gotta live up to the rep of the "persona" they're pretending to be.
Much healthier and enjoyable to be yourself. Nothing to learn from this party tool.
 

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I would like to add to what has been said...

He was the center of attraction because there was no one competing with him.
He showed confidence and no other guy could be AMOG and edge him out....
Right or wrong...he had the balls to do what he did...and other guys just helplessly watched him....

No wonder girls flocked all over him in the party....but would be interesting to know how many would have shown interest if they met him a day after the party....

Behaviour in a group setting is considerably different from that in a 1-to-1 setting... In a group setting...most people do not want to be the "odd one out"....so that is what happened here....
 

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He was the main man of the party. He was the most visably confident (there might have been more quietly confident people there) guy there and he was fun. The girls were having a good time around him.


Theres better ways to behave and he might not have been the best ladies man there but at that moment he stood out.
 
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