Hey guys I just got out of a 20 month long relationship. Ya count them 20! It was a waste of my freshman and sophomore year I'm now going to be a junior and I feel completely lost. Because now that I realize it my X destroyed my entire social circle of girls I had built up from junior high. I have trouble talking to girls in a way that gets them interested in me. I can talk to them but they just always want to be friends. This I believe is because I was tied down for so long! Even tho I don't try and be a nice guy it just ends up that way some how please help it's much appreciated!