Good post OP.
The AntiDump material is in my opinion some of the best stuff in the bible. I do think it pays to be not quite as rigid as he proposes, but nonetheless it's required reading. I bet you 90% of people who join this forum are here because they wanted an LTR at some point.
Another favorite article is the one that's something like "when the HB gets all flustered" where the guy is writing about how every once and a while you should just throw out the rules and talk about yourself the whole date. Over the years I've found that it actually works really well.
The AntiDump material is in my opinion some of the best stuff in the bible. I do think it pays to be not quite as rigid as he proposes, but nonetheless it's required reading. I bet you 90% of people who join this forum are here because they wanted an LTR at some point.
Another favorite article is the one that's something like "when the HB gets all flustered" where the guy is writing about how every once and a while you should just throw out the rules and talk about yourself the whole date. Over the years I've found that it actually works really well.