New Beginnings

[gwoppin]

Update:

> Started working as of the 10th August, and have only had 2 days off since
> Booked in 7 days / 55 ish hours per week
> Setting myself big and small self control challenges each day and hitting most of them each time, so the trust in myself has grown exponentially
> Training regularly
> Improved diet and hygiene
> Found myself diving into Greek Orthodox Christianity, which has been the absolute backbone of this metamorphosis

Hope youre all doing well in your endeavours!!

 

[gwoppin]

First payday today, credit card paid off

 

[The Anomaly]

- Great social skills, smoothest guy around

What do you think makes for a man with topnotch social skills and a charismatic personality? And do you yet have a plan to bridge the gap from where you are now in this regard, with where you would have reached your ideal in the future?

 

[gwoppin]

What do you think makes for a man with topnotch social skills and a charismatic personality? And do you yet have a plan to bridge the gap from where you are now in this regard, with where you would have reached your ideal in the future?

To say the right thing at the right time and adapt to the type of person im talking to, whilst remaining in my own frame / myself, and not get too in my head about what or how im going to say something.

Bridging the gap: Ive shattered all self doubt in all realms of my life, so now there are no barriers that used to make me freak out, get too in my head / ego, which used to freeze me up.

At this phase in my life im putting my head down and going (mostly) MIA socially to go full force getting myself back on track, but in the next few weeks / start of next year, i will be more stable and will start socialising again.

At work i do what i can to engage everybody in conversation, etc

TLDR - Saying the right thing at the right time, whilst remaining in frame, and will get there by practising more in social settings once i am more stable.