"Never seen someone so considerate in bed"

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Had sex with a hot girl a couple of days ago and it was good as hell. We both came twice (her at least twice) and last night, while we're having a conversation about this in general, she tells me this "Never seen someone so considerate in bed". Got me thinking LOL what she meant is you're sweet and indeed, I am sweet to women in bed, all of the ones I've been with meaning I caress them, we laugh and play and fool around, not just the sex and that's it. Ever had this happening to you guys? In your experience, is it good or bad? Or just neutral?
 

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Good. This is where ‘objectifying’ women comes from. Because dudes just stare them down and don’t say a word and it’s kinda awkward. But sex is still social interaction. Just on a whole other level. And like all social interactions, chicks don’t like weirdos or awkward guys. That’s how I view all this anyway.
 

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Next time just dominate her. Change it up, don’t be considerate this time. Just use her like a rag doll. She’ll love it thstvyou exude masculinity vs worrying about whether she got off or not. That’s romance novel ****
 

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Next time just dominate her. Change it up, don’t be considerate this time. Just use her like a rag doll. She’ll love it thstvyou exude masculinity vs worrying about whether she got off or not. That’s romance novel ****
Not worrying if she got up, but I will definitely mix it up in the near future cause this is what I personally have a doubt she's subtly saying..."next time, less considerate" LOL, but I want to discuss it here first, get a couple of thoughts going on.
 

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Its a good thing. When you flip these switches women will connect emotionally and mentally with you on a higher level. Its what makes a guy a good lover in her eyes. And this is what they all crave and want.

I've had many women confide in me that most guys fall short when it comes to helping them get to a place where they can connect emotionally and experience multiple orgasms.
 

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Op its because you've "considered" her , its blew her mind, shes so use to a guy doing missionary for 10 minutes, and thinking about himself...

You've made it fun and exciting and now she wants more!!!
 

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I banged a girl from bumble last Wednesday the day before my birthday actually I couldn’t get it up so banged her Thursday morning. She said she came 4 times... I said “really?” And she said “yeah I wasn’t faking it”.

I was so confused I didn’t believe it and I still don’t... my last 2 ltr’s could not come from penetration so I’ve always given them an O pre bang with finger or tongue on cl1t action. This girl even said she’s not a fan of cl1t play and just likes to be fvcked.

Are you guys telling me you can just bang away and a girl will come multiple times... women are so different. I may actively seek of a girl like this for next ltr because it’s just long sometimes havig to make a girl come.
 

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If you pre-**** her mind well before the sex...her body is just her mind's slave and her mind is your slave LOL
 

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I am going to play devil's advocate in that she may see you as a pvssy, and I don't mean any offense by this...

"never seen someone.." = I have had a lot of partners
"...so considerate..." = these guys liked rough sex, they fvcked me like an animal
"...in bed" = your such a nice guy, I hope you don't use me for sex like the other guys

I would much rather hear "your so fvcking crazy", "omg", or "why did you fvcking stop?"... In my opinion, the passion is for after sex, or leading up to sex. This is where I think, in general, a lot of men "think" they are good, but... really aren't
 

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I am going to play devil's advocate in that she may see you as a pvssy, and I don't mean any offense by this...

"never seen someone.." = I have had a lot of partners
"...so considerate..." = these guys liked rough sex, they fvcked me like an animal
"...in bed" = your such a nice guy, I hope you don't use me for sex like the other guys

I would much rather hear "your so fvcking crazy", "omg", or "why did you fvcking stop?"... In my opinion, the passion is for after sex, or leading up to sex. This is where I think, in general, a lot of men "think" they are good, but... really aren't
She is 23 years old, has had two boyfriends. First one almost didn't do anything to her, but managed to take her virginity. The second one was a total douche and once stuck a knife in her vagina (not the cutting part, the wooden/plastic part)...I mean, I get where you're coming from and this was the reason I made this thread.

However, I am not gonna **** her rougher cause some before me ****ed her rougher. I got my own style. My thing is considerably big so the first time she had pain to the extent of she wouldn't let me fully penetrate her so after a while of trying, I left it alone and jerked off while she was eat me all over. The second time, she jumped on top of me and that was much better than the first time, but here's how this all started, the second time: we were laying in bed, talking and making jokes and my hand goes to her pussi and she is absolutely soaking wet. We proceeded from there, she came once in that second time.

Point being, cause some guy before me stick a knife in her vagina and maybe ****ed her rough, I am not into that. Yes, I might bang her hard in many occasions, but I am not into rough/kinky things like that. She told me that the last few days her vagina had been constantly wet. I think her emotions got played here quite well, that's all.
 

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Good work OP. It has to be said that many guys have no problem pulling women, but have no clue how to pleasure them.

Personally, I like to mix it up in the same session, alternating rough with smooth. As has been said, we can't rely on one tempo every time. Equally, the foreplay does start way before you get to the bedroom, depending who you're with.

If you do it right by midnight, she'll go for a couple of hours, and be ready again at 4am.
 

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She is 23 years old, has had two boyfriends. First one almost didn't do anything to her, but managed to take her virginity. The second one was a total douche and once stuck a knife in her vagina (not the cutting part, the wooden/plastic part)...I mean, I get where you're coming from and this was the reason I made this thread.

However, I am not gonna **** her rougher cause some before me ****ed her rougher. I got my own style. My thing is considerably big so the first time she had pain to the extent of she wouldn't let me fully penetrate her so after a while of trying, I left it alone and jerked off while she was eat me all over. The second time, she jumped on top of me and that was much better than the first time, but here's how this all started, the second time: we were laying in bed, talking and making jokes and my hand goes to her pussi and she is absolutely soaking wet. We proceeded from there, she came once in that second time.

Point being, cause some guy before me stick a knife in her vagina and maybe ****ed her rough, I am not into that. Yes, I might bang her hard in many occasions, but I am not into rough/kinky things like that. She told me that the last few days her vagina had been constantly wet. I think her emotions got played here quite well, that's all.

23 only 2 BF? she is bullsh!!ting you, news flash dude, people lie, woman even more, all woman know less guys around her parts means men will consider her more for anything.

for the sex part just do what you feel like it, if you want to see her *** go ahead, if you want just to hard fu her go ahead, like most here said it all in her mind, as long you fvck her mind well, her body will come around what she feels
 

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23 only 2 BF? she is bullsh!!ting you, news flash dude, people lie, woman even more, all woman know less guys around her parts means men will consider her more for anything.

for the sex part just do what you feel like it, if you want to see her *** go ahead, if you want just to hard fu her go ahead, like most here said it all in her mind, as long you fvck her mind well, her body will come around what she feels
Nah, you don't fully get it. I live in Albania, a small country in the Balkans, if you know where that is. 70% of the population here is muslim, although a big part non-practicant. Girls here mostly have had 2 to 3 partners at most even if you get to know them at 21/22/23. Hell, I know girls who are close to 28/29 and have not had more than 3 partners all together. A girl who's been with more than 5-6 men is a girl I can tell anyways.
 
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