Never make it too straight forward for her

[Bingo-Player]

Women love Drama and Emotional turmoil its why they love Romcom's and sitcoms

"will the guy get the girl " , will the girl get the guy " , love triangles , bad boys , affairs , secret romances yada yada all this stuff is like chick crack

Men aren't so much bothered by all of this .... we like to see fast logical outcomes rather than going around in mental gymnastics and thinking about how we are feeling about everything

We just want to get on with it which is why a lot of Pickup gurus preach about "direct approaches " just open her and get straight to the point

And depending on the woman this can work in the short term especially if you fit her physical criteria and depending on how much she wants a man at that point

But the problem is it doesn't really create any drama or tension for her ..... theres no emotions for her to dwell on its all based off physical and logical attraction which are mainly male dynamics

The alternative is push pull or ****y funny whatever you want to call it these days ......when mastered you basically draw her in with a mix of charisma and intrigue and then start pushing her away as though she is a silly little child

She then gets put in her feminine frame and has to start working for your attention which by default lets her start wondering about how she's feeling about you

I've used both strategies over the years the latter will create something that lasts a lot longer than the former

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A female friend of mine actually got stood up for a date a few weeks ago ..... guy couldn't have cared less

This sent her hamster wild and after the outrage had died down she actually wanted to go on another on with him

Guy's get ghosted and ignored because they're too straightforward and predictable.

Women will never ever admit to this but its what they respond too....... so do with it what you must .

 

[Solomon]

In some cases being straightforward will save you a lot of time and headache, you meet a girl at a bar for example or OLD the girl tells you she wants something serious. Instead of being straight up telling her you want something casual (with tact) or just want to have some fun. You say you want the same thing. Most men fall into a woman's frame in hoping of sniffing the puss, just to end up jumping through hoops i.e. taking the woman out on dates, texting her endlessly, giving her free attention. Most guys will be lucky to smash heck even more guys would be lucky to get her on a date.

I prefer to tell women in that scenario I"m looking for romantic companionship It sounds better than a booty call but also gives room for ambiguity. I have seen to many men fall into a woman's frame just in hopes of getting some, when there a re lot of women in 2025 that just want to have fun

 

[Clockwerk50]

The basic premise of suspense and anticipation is that it’s not only women who are drawn to the unknown—men are equally susceptible. Humans naturally lose their defenses when faced with uncertainty, whether it's a surprise, a plot twist, or an unexpected event. This emotional vulnerability creates an opening for deeper emotional engagement, making people more receptive to new experiences and connections. For example, a surprise dinner at a hidden restaurant or an unexpected weekend getaway can spark curiosity and excitement, keeping someone emotionally invested. This is why unpredictability and surprise are so powerful in attraction—they stir curiosity and keep people emotionally engaged, eager to discover what comes next.

Again, this is working under the assumption that the other person is attracted and desires you.

 

[jhonny9546]

Guy's get ghosted and ignored because they're too straightforward and predictable

Is this for all women?
Is this pov relative to STR and ONS?

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

Is this for all women?

Yes, for all the women in bingo parlour's experience

Is this pov relative to STR and ONS?

It's relative to all the other abbreviations too!