never gave me her number...

attugc

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but one of my friends (whom im no longer friends with) did....
IL was moderate, but i know ill never get the chance to hang out with her if i dont call her....

should I do it? I may look like a stalker, no?
 

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Originally posted by attugc
im thinking i need an excuse to talk to this *****
well first of all if you think she is a ***** you dont need to talk to her.

2nd of all .. she is not that much of a **** if you want to hang out with her. And if she is you are the one who is a *****.

3rd.. you are not going to get anywhere with her .. if you keep thinking of her as a *****.

learn to respect your women ..


unixguy
 

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Nah man , you're calling her cos you're interested , don't try and fool her into thinking you just want to be her friend.

Call her up and ask her out , if ashe likes you she'll be glad you did and if she doesn't then FTOB.
 

attugc

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Originally posted by unixguy
well first of all if you think she is a ***** you dont need to talk to her.

2nd of all .. she is not that much of a **** if you want to hang out with her. And if she is you are the one who is a *****.

3rd.. you are not going to get anywhere with her .. if you keep thinking of her as a *****.

learn to respect your women ..


unixguy
sorry listening to some music that inspired me to call her a "*****"
 

TesuqueRed

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You call if you get the number from her directly. If you have to go through others to get it, you'll creep her out. You come off as weak, weird and desperate. This is a bad idea most times--and look at your thinking here: "if I don't use it, I'll never get another chance..." Reeks of initial symptoms of one-itis and desperation. Basically--you're starting off with 2 strikes against you.

Try it, though, if the idea won't leave you alone. See how it goes, learn something.
 

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Originally posted by attugc
im thinking i need an excuse to talk to this *****
Your excuse is that you're a man, you want to be with women, and she happens to interest you at the time.

But if SHE didn't give you the number, then don't get it from her friend(s). That's just weak. Go to her in person, be charismatic, and invite her out.

If she says no, move on. :p
 
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