Never Ever Ignore Those Red Flags!

soulforge

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So my Russian Ex.. Within weeks of dating her.. These where her exact words.

"I don't have a filter, if someone annoys me or pizzes me off, I will say whatever the fuk I want"

I told her ok, if that's how you are with people.. cool.. however you get all agressive with me, I won't be putting up with that kinda thing.

I dropped her a few weeks ago. Why? Because she would kick off and become argumentative over the slightest thing.

Lesson here.. Absolutely look at there actions and DO NOT ignore the red flags. If she tells you something crazy about herself.. BELIEVE HER.. and drop that chick ASAP.

Life is hard for us men, we want to come home to a peaceful woman, not a fvking raging argumentative brat!

Don't be like me & walk away from chicks like this Immediately!
 

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Yes, I agree. Find a girl that passes the boner test, give you peace on mind, and gives you sex on demand.
Absolutely! The moment she becomes difficult, argumentative, combative... Drop that 304 in a heartbeat.

I Gave my Russian ex a couple of opportunities to get with the programme. She didn't, so I dumped her ass ASAP

It's usually chicks who dump guys. I ain't waiting around for that. If I know for a fact she is a negative force in my life, I will dump and move the fk on!
 

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I’ve worked extensively with Russians and Ukrainians - they LOVE to argue and snark, like it’s a national sport. The Ooh-kra-een are a little more chill but 90% the same in this regard.
 

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I’ve worked extensively with Russians and Ukrainians - they LOVE to argue and snark, like it’s a national sport. The Ooh-kra-een are a little more chill but 90% the same in this regard.
Yeh I noticed this around the Russians girls family.

She would argue with the brother constantly, she would argue with her mother pretty often and alcohol was also a massive thing.

Arguing and alcohol... Not a good combination lol
 

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Seriously, it’s like a national sport.

Yeh I noticed this around the Russians girls family.

She would argue with the brother constantly, she would argue with her mother pretty often and alcohol was also a massive thing.

Arguing and alcohol... Not a good combination lol
 

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Seriously, it’s like a national sport.
How did you manage to get into these circles?

It must be a Russian girls thing. I mean they can be very sweet and loving.. Then suddenly go into a rage over some minor chit... Then back to normal like nothing even happened. But they never say sorry lol
 

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A startup whose founders were Crimean.

How did you manage to get into these circles?

It must be a Russian girls thing. I mean they can be very sweet and loving.. Then suddenly go into a rage over some minor chit... Then back to normal like nothing even happened. But they never say sorry lol
 

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So my Russian Ex.. Within weeks of dating her.. These where her exact words.

"I don't have a filter, if someone annoys me or pizzes me off, I will say whatever the fuk I want"

There was that girl i was with for 3 months..... when she called her grandma a "stupid pig" into her face over cold water in the shower, i knew it was time to eject.

The only times you immediately believe what a woman says instead of watching what she does is when she tells you something bad about her.

10 years later i didnt believe a woman that told me she is not a good person after seeing her for a month, i didnt believe her and it cost me dearly.

When someone tells you she is "a bad person", believe it and get the fvck outa there!
 

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People will always tell you who they are within the first 3 dates. Believe them.

Too many guys make the mistake of thinking it won't be as bad as what they claim. Wrong, it will likely be worse and they are downplaying it.
 

You essentially upped your VALUE in her eyes by showing her that, if she wants you, she has to at times do things that you like to do. You are SOMETHING after all. You are NOT FREE. If she wants to hang with you, it's going to cost her something — time, effort, money.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Yeh I noticed this around the Russians girls family.

She would argue with the brother constantly, she would argue with her mother pretty often and alcohol was also a massive thing.

Arguing and alcohol... Not a good combination lol
That’s nuts! I’ve never met an American or European who got drunk or argued with family members…
 

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People will always tell you who they are within the first 3 dates. Believe them.

Too many guys make the mistake of thinking it won't be as bad as what they claim. Wrong, it will likely be worse and they are downplaying it.
I think its a sign of inexperience for a man to not notice signs a girl isn't normal/stable early on, and or chooses to ignore the red flags.. Its like they just settle. I think that some people, who steady attract crazies and settle because they dont have any other options-- are attracting these types beause they hav elow self esteem and are really not a great catch themselves. I've seen a few examples of it on this forum.
 
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