Never commit to a girl that doesn’t do this one thing

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

Now, I was going to make a list, but that’s too much work and this point is strong enough. If a girl does not willingly give you head/a ******* then do not commit. To be more blunt, she should be gladly to give you a ******* every time sexual tension is up. Not 50% of the time, 100% of the time. This I don’t like giving *******s is complete cap because she will drop to her knees to blow some guy she perceives as higher value. If you are in a relationship and this predicament applies to you then I would honestly start reconsidering the relationship LOL.

 

[user252009]

You just gotta get her hot enough and she'll do it. If you can't get her hot enough, it's either that your game is not good enough or her interest is so low that you can't even get her hot no matter how good your game

 

[Dr.Suave]

Yes. She must comply 100% of the time. Comply or bye.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

I disagree as the corollary is that if I'm really into her, I'd munch. However, I don't munch and I've really been into some girls. And have committed. However, I will say that most girls I've been with (committing or not), have given BJ's without me asking. (I don't ask as I don't reciprocate and I'd rather PIV). I don't like the idea of someone demanding a sex act I (or she) finds revolting.

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

I just witnessed further proof. I was dating this girl last year that didn’t have genuine interest in me. I was getting sex, but she wouldn’t blow me and I just always had a feeling she was always looking to replace me. I ended up ending things with her after a vacation eventually. Today, she posted pictures of her and her new bf on social media, something she would never do for me. Don’t let girls cap you, drop these girls wasting your time.

 

[SW15]

I just witnessed further proof. I was dating this girl last year that didn’t have genuine interest in me. I was getting sex, but she wouldn’t blow me and I just always had a feeling she was always looking to replace me. I ended up ending things with her after a vacation eventually. Today, she posted pictures of her and her new bf on social media, something she would never do for me. Don’t let girls cap you, drop these girls wasting your time.

She wasn't interested in you enough.

If a girl does not willingly give you head/a ******* then do not commit. To be more blunt, she should be gladly to give you a ******* every time sexual tension is up. Not 50% of the time, 100% of the time. This I don’t like giving *******s is complete cap because she will drop to her knees to blow some guy she perceives as higher value. If you are in a relationship and this predicament applies to you then I would honestly start reconsidering the relationship LOL.

Agree. I don't want a woman who isn't enthusiastic about performing oral sex on me. Even though I prefer vaginal sex, I want a woman who is going to be excited about performing oral sex on me.

 

[CollegeMan22]

This is true. My main chick at college now asks for us to go to the “gender-non-binary” bathroom when we get hot. Thanks gender center.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

again. not seeing the correlation. the ex-that is trying hard to get back with me, never gave me a BJ. The very oral ex-, who gave a DT swallow on the first date dumped me and never heard from her since.

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

again. not seeing the correlation. the ex-that is trying hard to get back with me, never gave me a BJ. The very oral ex-, who gave a DT swallow on the first date dumped me and never heard from her since.

1). Being her best available option does not mean there's genuine interest. She could've played her hand too arrogantly and realized that you are her current best option.

2). I'm not saying that if she gives you a BJ then you are golden. I am saying that if she does not give you a BJ/under 50% of the sex time then to ditch her. I am implying that there is already a steady relationship going on.

 

[BadBoy89]

I am saying that if she does not give you a BJ/under 50% of the sex time then to ditch her. I am implying that there is already a steady relationship going on.

"Why did you break up with Sharon?"
"Well, she didn't do this one thing during sex."
"What? Kiss you?"
"No"
"Be enthusiastic?"
"No"
"Get on top?"
"No"
"Say she loves you?"
"No"
"Then what then?"
"See didn't give oral sex."
"At all?"
"No. If we had sex 20 times in one month, she would only give oral 9 times. That's a deal breaker."
"So everything else was great during sex except that?"
"Yup."
"You are the Alpha!!"

 

[We_ArE_VeNOM]

I agree. Some girls have strong convictions about not giving head though.

As long as you got the puzzy, you should be content and if you aint content (if bj's are a deal breaker for you), then put her at the bottom of your rotation.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

My final thoughts are: If she gives BJs but won’t give you one- red flag. If she doesn’t give BJs, and won’t give you one....only a problem if that’s what you really want in a relationship.

 

[We_ArE_VeNOM]

"Why did you break up with Sharon?"
"Well, she didn't do this one thing during sex."
"What? Kiss you?"
"No"
"Be enthusiastic?"
"No"
"Get on top?"
"No"
"Say she loves you?"
"No"
"Then what then?"
"See didn't give oral sex."
"At all?"
"No. If we had sex 20 times in one month, she would only give oral 9 times. That's a deal breaker."
"So everything else was great during sex except that?"
"Yup."
"You are the Alpha!!"

Funny. Reminds me of the Seinfeld episode where Jerry was dating a professional masseuse.

He really wanted her to give him a massage, but he didn't think it was proper to ask her for one because he didn't think it was courteous to ask her to bring her work home (his logic, not mines).

He thought he would be better suited for a massage if she gave him one without him asking, so the entire episode centered around him trying to give her hints that he wanted a massage but she wasn't catching on.

When she came by his place, he acted like his neck/back was tense and even bought a massage chair...but she STILL wasn't getting the hints.

Long story short, he had sex with the woman and everything and even said the sex was great...but he said the sex meant nothing because what he really wanted was the MASSAGE!! LOL.

Sounds like this thread is the same concept of that episode lol.

 

[MatureDJ]

I don't agree that this particular sexual act is necessary; I'd be satisfied for my gal to just spread the legs when I put my hands between them.

 

[user252009]

I don't agree that this particular sexual act is necessary; I'd be satisfied for my gal to just spread the legs when I put my hands between them.

It's about her willingness to submit to you; if she's not, she's not *truly* feeling that she can fully submit to you

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

It's about her willingness to submit to you; if she's not, she's not *truly* feeling that she can fully submit to you

exactly, she won't give you head, but she will gladly give some other guy she finds more attractive head. Do you really want to be in that position?

 

[2Rocky]

Every guy is going to have his "One thing she's gotta do" checklist because in his past it was missing. it's like the lowest stave in a barrel.

When you raise that stave, another one will be lower....You change barrels (girls) and you might find one with a low stave you never even saw because she was showing the "good side".

this is why guys get fed up because they they keep finding every one has a low stave somewhere.....

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

Every guy is going to have his "One thing she's gotta do" checklist because in his past it was missing. it's like the lowest stave in a barrel.

When you raise that stave, another one will be lower....You change barrels (girls) and you might find one with a low stave you never even saw because she was showing the "good side".

this is why guys get fed up because they they keep finding every one has a low stave somewhere.....

I really don't see how requiring your woman to have the highest in you is a high stave lol.

 

[2Rocky]

I really don't see how requiring your woman to have the highest in you is a high stave lol.

Is this a fill in the blank test question? I'm feeling test anxiety....

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

Is this a fill in the blank test question? I'm feeling test anxiety....

Let me rephrase it lol. A BJ is the lowest stave or lowest passing grade of the litmus test. If a girl is not willing to blow you over 50% of the time then she isn't meeting the bare minimum of genuine interest level in you.