never been kissed

[.illadelph]

18 years old, and never been kissed. been in situations where it could have happened, but it just never did. i feel liek the 40 year old virgin, but instead of sex, it's kissing.

i have these dreams that seem soo real, i'm kissing these fine girls, they feel soo good. i can only imagine how the first time will feel.

anyone out there like me? or have you been like me in the past?

 

[SmoothIsSex]

Don't imagine any longer. Based on how you mentioned that opportunities presented themselves in the past to kiss a girl, you sound like you might be paranoid of being a horrible kisser in reality. Dreams are just that, dude. Dreams. It's the exception of neurons firing. Nothing more. The next time that opportunity presents itself, walk away feeling like a man next time. Don't just peck her with your lips. On the other hand, don't shove your tongue down her throat either. Slowly sink your lips into hers gently and take it from there. Nothing to it, man!

 

[Alphathree]

Kissing is relatively easy. Everybody kisses differently so women won't really be able to tell it's your first time. Just don't ram your tongue down her throat. Lips only =)

I literally floated away on cloud 9 after my first kiss. I was 19. My god, that was only three years ago!

Even now, sometimes when I'm staring at a new girl's lips before kissing her for the first time, my logical brain starts to take over and come up with reasons not to do it. That's when you just have to say screw it and go in there and plant one on her.

But my first kiss, on man, I was such an AFC. My girlfriend had to coax me into it, heh.

 

[mungro]

no worries mate, my first kiss wasn't till I was 20... yup.

I too had to be practically dragged into it by my then girlfriend who was crazy for me and as I found out later waited for weeks for me to kiss her. haha

needless to say I was surprised how enthusiastic she was when I finally kissed her.

don't worry about it, if you want to kiss the girl she probably wants to kiss you too.

 

[.illadelph]

i think it will come naturally. i've seen so much kissing in my life that i can pretty much emulate it when it comes time. i'm just wondering when that time will be. i hope soon...

it's good to know there are guys out there like me that haven't gotten their first kissing experience until their late teens...

 

[Mjfan12]

Same here. havent kissed on the lips.

 

[freefalling]

Yes. I think I have and idea about how you are feeling.

My Thread

 

[sparky1981]

Trust me you don't have to be taught how to pash a chick. It will just happen when you go to do it bud. I used to think the same stuff to b4 I kissed my first (a few years ago now). But i just decided to kiss her at the end of a date and it just happened. You will prob wonder why you even needed our help. (and prob don't use tounge first time either unless she does)

 

[lordson]

yeah thats true, dont use alot of tongue

know from expreince, its not good the first times

use it moderatly

 

[Keeper]

Eh, my first was a disaster. :-/ Got stone drunk, and the woman took advantige of me.

I swear!



Not that I'm complaining.

Anyway, kissing is easy. It may all seem strange to you now, but as soon as you go for it, your body will know what to do. Tongue use should only be used in make out sessions, methinks. Your first kiss could just be a short 5-10 second smooch. Or a 5-60 minute snog. Google for some kissing tips to maybe improve your confidence, so you don't go in unprepared. And have great breath. If you smoke, take a mint proir, if you both smoke... uhh... both take mints. ;-) Cause smoke = yuck.

 

[boston]

Originally posted by sparky1981
Trust me you don't have to be taught how to pash a chick.

Just woke up, still a bit foggy both mentally and visually. This looked like "Trust me you don't have to be taught how to cash a check."

Which, as crazy/stupid as it sounds, is sorta the same deal. I don't even remember the first check I cashed anymore. But the first time you do that, you're nervous too--don't qiute know you're doing it right, stupid irrational fear that the bank teller won't take your ID and then the SWAT team will suddenly burst out of the vault and tackle you to the ground... am I endorsing the back right? Will the teller laugh at me because the check is too small?

Okay, really horrible example.

My first kiss I think I was a junior in high school and two of my friends found this random girl (who turned out to be someone I knew back in middle school) and paid her $13 to kiss me on the lips in front of a bunch of people. I think my face was red for a week...

(So just know you're not alone.)

 

[arlanda]

LOL, SWAT team ... haha :crackup:

 

[Freeman]

Originally posted by .illadelph
18 years old, and never been kissed. been in situations where it could have happened, but it just never did. i feel liek the 40 year old virgin, but instead of sex, it's kissing.

i have these dreams that seem soo real, i'm kissing these fine girls, they feel soo good. i can only imagine how the first time will feel.

anyone out there like me? or have you been like me in the past?

Hey dont sweat it-a kiss aint sh*t-its an add-on..concentrate on improving within...with kissing for me its something that spontaneous and both people has to feel it-you look into her eyes as she looks into yours...you can almost feel the emotions inside her...