Never assume that she's interested...

[Mantis Toboggan]

I think the OP is just trying to figure out how to act yourself, not try to hard and get her off the pedestol because that
gives you the best chance.

Looking at his posting history, I think the OP is just the average troll.

 

[MurdocIsGod]

Both ways are stupid. If you assume she's interested you'll end up making moves and coming on strong when she's not yet showing interest. If you assume you'll fail you'll be nervous.

Here's a better way, just speak to the girl, and use your initiative to decide when she's interested or not as the interaction is going on.

 

[DonGorgon]

As a rule of thumb, always assume that shes not interested in you and that she just wants to be friend. When shes interested, she will let you know so assume the worst in all case. Once you realize that she doesn't have anything over you, you stop placing her on a pedestal and start talking/treating her just like everyone else which means INSTANT attractions.

not true.. most women have 100000000000000000 dudes.. so they dnt have time to flirt with each and everyone they like so sometimes you have to make yourself known so she can give you a time slot to F her.. if you sit back and chill assuming she will not F you then you reducing your chances of Fing her by 75%