crotchrocket
Don Juan
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How do you deal with girls, that don't quite treat you like they would 'just a friend' but you aren't a boyfriend either?
I have more stories (and more girls doing the same thing) but we'll just deal with last night (out with a group of friends) and girl #2, who I had a pretty good first date with, she told me to call her sometime, she was interested, trust me, but then she started ignoring me, and stopped returning my calls. She showed up with her boyfriend (I didn't know anything for sure but suspected he existed). You could just tell she expected me to be friendly but I didn't give her the satisfaction, I completely ignored her (not rudely but just didn't go out of my way), now even though she did not initiate any conversation you could just tell she was hoping/expecting me to, I didn't, she eventually left in kind of a huff, with her AFC boyfriend following her like a lost puppy.
What should a guy do with these types? I see both these girls once a week, do I just ignore them? Flirt with others (I usually do anyways) and ignore them? What has the most impact? I'm trying to save face a little here, before it spreads, and I get the reputation that I'm 'back-burner' material.
I am well aware of all the ways I need to improve my game, just want to deal with this particular issue now as I have never had this problem before, if you have any insight or experience dealing with this particular issue, I'd appreciate it!
I have more stories (and more girls doing the same thing) but we'll just deal with last night (out with a group of friends) and girl #2, who I had a pretty good first date with, she told me to call her sometime, she was interested, trust me, but then she started ignoring me, and stopped returning my calls. She showed up with her boyfriend (I didn't know anything for sure but suspected he existed). You could just tell she expected me to be friendly but I didn't give her the satisfaction, I completely ignored her (not rudely but just didn't go out of my way), now even though she did not initiate any conversation you could just tell she was hoping/expecting me to, I didn't, she eventually left in kind of a huff, with her AFC boyfriend following her like a lost puppy.
What should a guy do with these types? I see both these girls once a week, do I just ignore them? Flirt with others (I usually do anyways) and ignore them? What has the most impact? I'm trying to save face a little here, before it spreads, and I get the reputation that I'm 'back-burner' material.
I am well aware of all the ways I need to improve my game, just want to deal with this particular issue now as I have never had this problem before, if you have any insight or experience dealing with this particular issue, I'd appreciate it!
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