From my experience (which is kind of short but still growing well), neg hits are never a good idea. I've seen friends use them and deliver them in the best way possible. However, they all failed and wound up wrecking their potential. When I first read about neg hits, I realized they were a waste of time to do.
****y and Funny works because you're funny. Trust me, women want a man that has fun and makes people laugh. To me, C+F is a way to help loosen the tensions. I believe when people use C+F, its got to be more like 25% ****y and 75% Funny. Most girls like someone who can make them laugh but honestly, funny guys are a dime a dozen. That is where the ****y comes in. As men, we were told to be humble, to be gentlemen. ****y goes against all this and creates a new, masculine aura around you. She still may not be that interested in you but I'd say its much better that she thinks of you as an ass instead of a mangina.
Because if you are an ass, you at least still have the image of being masculine. If you are a mangina, you will never be with that woman. Period. Try all the C+F you want but you're still going to be that "woman with a penis." Trust me, Ive tried talking to girls that I talked to in my AFC days with the DJ attitude and got nowhere. A lot of girls just acted confused. Some girls liked it but still thought of me as that mangina that beats off 6-8 times a day and can't talk to women normally.
Neghits though are almost foolproof ways of making yourself out to be an ass. A lot of guys say that women love *******s but the reason behind that is that these jerks treat women like they were human beings, they really don't care if a girl likes them or not when they ask her out, and they don't empty their bank accounts for girls or write poetry or get someone to make smoke messages to a girl in the sky.
****y and Funny works because you're funny. Trust me, women want a man that has fun and makes people laugh. To me, C+F is a way to help loosen the tensions. I believe when people use C+F, its got to be more like 25% ****y and 75% Funny. Most girls like someone who can make them laugh but honestly, funny guys are a dime a dozen. That is where the ****y comes in. As men, we were told to be humble, to be gentlemen. ****y goes against all this and creates a new, masculine aura around you. She still may not be that interested in you but I'd say its much better that she thinks of you as an ass instead of a mangina.
Because if you are an ass, you at least still have the image of being masculine. If you are a mangina, you will never be with that woman. Period. Try all the C+F you want but you're still going to be that "woman with a penis." Trust me, Ive tried talking to girls that I talked to in my AFC days with the DJ attitude and got nowhere. A lot of girls just acted confused. Some girls liked it but still thought of me as that mangina that beats off 6-8 times a day and can't talk to women normally.
Neghits though are almost foolproof ways of making yourself out to be an ass. A lot of guys say that women love *******s but the reason behind that is that these jerks treat women like they were human beings, they really don't care if a girl likes them or not when they ask her out, and they don't empty their bank accounts for girls or write poetry or get someone to make smoke messages to a girl in the sky.