Faq
Using a NEG isn't to bring them "down to your level" it is to Knock them off their damn High Horse.
Nobody is better than anybody else. NEGing isn't sub-communicating that they are better it is sub-communicating that they are stuck up!
Neg-Hits
by Sir Chancealot
There has been, and will continue to be, great interest in neg-hits. A successful DJ will always be cognizant of the fact that neg-hits are an integral part of his repertoire.
Why is this? Because neg-hits work, and they work wonderfully well when used correctly. Used incorrectly, the women will hate you.
"What exactly is a neg-hit" you ask?
Neg-hit is short for negative hit. Many DJs have given great examples of neg-hits, but I shall give you an actual definition.
Neg-hit: A remark, sometimes humorous, used to point out a woman's flaws. That, in essence, is a neg-hit.
Before we begin our in-depth study of neg-hits, let's learn what a neg-hit IS NOT.
a) A neg-hit is NOT an insult.
"You are a *****" is merely an insult, not a neg-hit.
b) A neg-hit is NOT meant to be cruel.
"You are too fat for me" is not a neg-hit; it is being unnecessarily cruel.
c) And finally, and perhaps most importantly, a neg-hit is NOT some magic spell that you can speak and have women fall all over you. But it's the closest thing you will get to that!
Ok, so now that we know what a neg-hit ISN'T, let us proceed to find out what a neg-hit IS.
Remember that a neg-hit is a remark, sometimes humorous, used to point out a woman's flaws.
a) A neg-hit IS used to penetrate a woman's ***** shield.
b) A neg-hit IS used to bring a woman down off her self-imposed pedestal.
c) A neg-hit is SINCERE. Women can spot phony a mile away.
d) And most importantly, a neg-hit IS used to bring a woman's self perception more into line with reality.
Now that you know what a neg-hit is and isn't, let's discuss upon whom you should deliver a neg-hit.
A neg-hit can be safely used on a 9.5 or 10 who KNOWS she ranks that high. A neg-hit can also be safely used on any girl who THINKS she is a 9 or 10, even if she is actually a 6 or a 7 (these are usually "daddy's girls").
Don't use a neg-hit on either of these types of women if they are feeling particularly bad about themselves that day. They may just hate you for it.
The effect of a good neg-hit on a woman's psyche is something to behold. It does 4 things simultaneously.
1) Since those high quality women are used to men kissing their ass, it will confuse them.
"This guy isn't falling all over me like a puppy dog. Why is that? Is my (whatever flaw) really that bad?" It throws them off balance and makes them self-conscious.
2) It will pique their curiosity about you, and you become something of a mystery.
"Why isn't this guy acting like every other AFC (Average Frustrated Chump) I meet? How come my looks haven't immediately charmed him? What is up with this guy?"
3) It will create a challenge.
"This guy must have REALLY high standards. I don't think he likes me. Everyone else likes me. I MUST get him to like me!"
4) It lets her know that you don't think she is anything special based on her looks alone.
"He isn't amazed by how I look? Why? *GASP* Am I in the presence of a REAL man? Oh, I think my panties are wet!"
After the neg-hit, watch her eyes. You will see her go "Hey!" And then you will actually SEE her run through all 4 of those stages mentioned above. It really is amazing. With a few well-placed comments, you have created all the things that DJs strive so hard to create, and you have appeared to do it effortlessly.
When delivering a neg-hit on a woman, everything AFC in you will scream, "Don't do it! She will hate me for it! She will get upset! It will piss her off!" ***** slap that little AFC, and send him to his room.
If you have never used neg-hits before, you are in for a real treat, and some surprises. Don't listen to that little voice: be bold, confident, and casual, and SINCERE. It will be worth it.
Neg-hits can be delivered in one of two ways. One way is to deliver it straight, without any indication that you are joking or playing. This works best on girls who are extremely stuck up about some aspect of themselves.
For example, I was at a bar and this really hot 21-year-old chick ended up showing the bartender and I her tits. Since all the other guys were freaking out and I was not responding, she slid over to me and said, "What did YOU think of them?"
I look her in the eyes, looked at her tits, looked her back in the eyes and said, "They're nice, but I've seen better", then turned back to my drink. Her interest level shot through the roof!
Girls who just have their ***** shield up, or the girls that think they are hotter than they really are, get the second delivery -- which is in a humorous way. You deliver the neg-hit with humor and laughter. This says to her, "Yes, I am aware of your flaw, but I think it's cute." This also says to her "You are not as perfect as all these AFCs think you are."
There are three main groups (for lack of a better term) around which you will neg-hit.
The first is her choices (choice of dress, hair style, makeup, etc). The second is her physical characteristics. Included in this is how she moves/speaks/eats/etc. Third (very rare and hard to accomplish) is her actions (how she treats someone, manners, etc.).
1) Choice neg-hits can be used as opening "lines", or can be used during a conversation.
Examples of Choice Neg-Hits:
+ "Hey, I like that outfit. **pause for her response** Yeah, my (mother/aunt/grandmother) has one just like it!" This one is a classic.
+ "You have a very pretty face, but you should use less makeup. Makeup should be used to enhance a woman's beauty, not hide it."
+ "You have really beautiful hair. **pause** You should grow it (shorter/longer). It would go much better with the shape of your face."
+ "That outfit is really sharp. **pause** It would look much better if it were (some other color)."
+ "Nice outfit! **pause** I saw another woman here wearing the exact same thing!" Women HATE this. (Personally, if a guy was wearing the same thing as me, I'd just think he had good taste.)
+ "Have you highlighted your hair? **pause for her response** Why do women ruin their luxurious hair with highlights?"
+ "You have very pretty (blue/brown/black/green/hazel) eyes. **pause** You shouldn't use (so much/so little) eye shadow. It detracts from the color of your eyes."
I hope the above examples of "choice" neg-hits give you a basis to get started. Use your imagination when coming up with these. With practice, they should get easier.
Also, I cannot stress the importance of BEING SINCERE. If you think her hair is perfect, don't use a hair neg-hit.
2) Physical trait neg-hits are best delivered in a humorous way, unless the woman is EXTREMELY hot or stuck up. Remember, you are pointing out flaws, but only because you think it's CUTE.
Don't just walk up and use these as openers. You should already have a conversation going when using these neg-hits. You MUST use humor with these neg-hits, on all except the hottest or stuck up chicks, because otherwise you just sound like an ass.